‘relationships are work’ means ‘you have to put effort into loving each other intentionally & learning how to love each other and communicating properly’ not ‘your relationship makes you feel stressed and sad most of the time & the other person disrespects you and treats you bad but you stay anyway’
*NOTE: in this case, phobia refers to a very strong irrational fear, not being a little scared of something. if you can handle snakes but they make you nervous, that's not a phobia.
[ID: a dni banner with a solid black background and an image of Jack manifold’s Minecraft skin in the bottom left. Jack is a slightly tanned man with short brown hair. He is wearing red and blue 3D glasses, headphones with a microphone, and a striped black and blue hoodie. The rest of the banner is filled with fully capitalized text in a fire font reading “this post is not a safe space for c!jack antis” “dni with this post if you hate c!jack”. End ID]
one day im gonna make a dni banner that says 'this post is not a safe space for c!jack antis dni with this post if you hate c!jack manifold' and slap it onto every single one of my dsmp posts
also I’ve been on tumblr over a decade at this point, and I’ve said a lot of shit on this blog, I don’t think much of it has been exclusionary but just so everyone knows, I support all queer identities, neopronoun users, otherkin, furries, kinksters, the complex and unpalatable and strange, the undefined and undefinable, the ever changing and always questioning, all weirdos and misfits and freaks of all shapes and sizes.
the world is full of pain, being alive and human right now is unfathomably complicated. don’t harm others and don’t harm yourselves. be honest, help those around you when you can, reflect and think and embody your truths with your heart and brain both fully activated!!!