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cocodethick · 2 years

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Bf says things like “groovy” and “cool beans” during sex and it turns me off.

I really don’t wanna complain because my bf is a sweet and amazing guy. Everything about our relationship and sex life is perfect BUT….

…he keeps saying things like “groovy” during sex. The timing is absolutely awful too because he often says those things while I’m cumming or trying to cum.

Last time I was giving him oral and I was so turned on. He was getting close, I was getting close…but then he moaned “ohhhh groovy”. He was able to finish but I was so turned off that I just stared at him. He ruined my orgasm and that’s not a kink of mine so I was NOT happy.

Another time I was riding him and experiencing an intense orgasm, I was shaking a little. He held me and asked “ya feel good? Cool beans”. Let me tell you something….it ruined the mood so fast and I even told him to please stop saying that.

Although he says a lot of irritating things, groovy is by far the worst. He’ll say it when we’re changing positions, when I’m moaning, when I ask him to keep going etc. It takes me out of the moment.

Am i just being petty? I mean our sex life is great and he’s an amazing guy. He doesn’t even talk like that outside the bedroom so I’m not sure where this is coming from. One time I discussed this with him and he says that he didn’t even realize he says it so frequently. He claims that he’s still a little intimidated by me (we’ve been together for 6 months) so gets nervous which causes him to talk. I don’t see why he would feel intimidated at all.

So what can I or we do? I’ve asked him if he’d like to wear a ball gag next time and he seems interested. I just don’t have the heart to tell him why I’d like him to wear it.

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cocodethick · 2 years

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