tori spring the loml!

pls don’t repost

i love them immensely

Idk.

Literally just romanticize your own life. What’s stopping you. Who will care. Commit to enjoying things. 

Exactly omg

I have no perception of time. I will be like "I have class in 2 hours... Do I have time to shower 🤔🤔"

Hello bookish bees! 💖

Without further ado, I present to you The 1000 Pages Readathon - Third Edition! I had SO much fun the last two times I did this and there were so many people participating! It will take place for 10 days, between March 1st and 10th (I figured that this way it will give people more time to get some reading done, alongside work and school and all that crap). We’ll each start and end on our own time zones, so when midnight hits on March 1st, you’re free to start reading! 😊

The goal with this readathon is not to read a certain number of books, but to hit 1000 pages read in 10 days. It can be a single book, or 5, as long as you manage to read those 1k pages. Of course, you’re more than free to read more than that! 😊

We’ll be using the tag #1kpages, so make sure you tag whatever posts you might make with it so we can find each other and have fun together!

Hope to see a lot of you participate!!

Love, Mary 💖

P.S. Totes cool to spread the word! P.P.S. If you want to challenge yourself, use these prompts (the same book can cover multiple prompts):

* A book you’ve been putting off for more than a year * Reread a favourite book * Read a book from a genre you don’t normally read * Read a diverse/own voices book * Read the final book in a series you haven’t finished * Read a book with a trope you love

so many books so little time but not in a poetic quirky way just in a very anxious and very overwhelmed way

WELL WELL WELL you all really went out and left my greatest expectations in shambles this week. 😆 Word on the street is you made Fearless (my version) the biggest country album first week of the last 6 years and the top release of 2021 so far. Honestly??? How?? Did I get this lucky???? I wanted to say thank you to you so today I will be addressing a very pressing issue. 🐈🐈‍⬛❓

I’ve always said that the world is a different place for the heartbroken. It moves on a different axis, at a different speed. Time skips backwards and forwards fleetingly. The heartbroken might go through thousands of micro-emotions a day trying to figure out how to get through it without picking up the phone to hear that old familiar voice. In the land of heartbreak, moments of strength, independence, and devil-may-care rebellion are intricately woven together with grief, paralyzing vulnerability and hopelessness. Imagining your future might always take you on a detour back to the past. And this is all to say, that the next album I’ll be releasing is my version of Red.

Musically and lyrically, Red resembled a heartbroken person. It was all over the place, a fractured mosaic of feelings that somehow all fit together in the end. Happy, free, confused, lonely, devastated, euphoric, wild, and tortured by memories past. Like trying on pieces of a new life, I went into the studio and experimented with different sounds and collaborators. And I’m not sure if it was pouring my thoughts into this album, hearing thousands of your voices sing the lyrics back to me in passionate solidarity, or if it was simply time, but something was healed along the way.

Sometimes you need to talk it over (over and over and over) for it to ever really be… over. Like your friend who calls you in the middle of the night going on and on about their ex, I just couldn’t stop writing. This will be the first time you hear all 30 songs that were meant to go on Red. And hey, one of them is even ten minutes long.

Red (Taylor’s Version) will be out November 12.

https://taylor.lnk.to/RedTaylorsVersion

bunny wearing a strawberry hat

✨My regression is not sexual.✨

✨My regression is not a Kink.✨

✨My regression is for me. ✨

We need to discuss this matter

source ♡︎

Name ideas for stuffies:

(you can put ‘Lady’, ‘Sir’, ‘Mr.’ or 'Mrs.’ in front of every name! some names may double because they fit for more than one color.) ❥ for white colored friends: ☁️ angel ☁️ ghosty ☁️ coconut (coco) ☁️ blizzard ☁️ cotton ☁️ daisy ☁️ dove ☁️ marble ☁️ marshmellow (mellow) ☁️ snowdrop (snow, snowy) ☁️ pearl (pearly) ☁️ tofu ☁️ sugar ☁️ nova ☁️ marzipan ☁️ ivory ☁️ dazzle ❥ for pink colored friends: 🎀 blush 🎀 rose (rosy) 🎀 peony 🎀 (cotton) candy 🎀 bubble gum 🎀 lotus 🎀 tulip 🎀 dahlia 🎀 princess / prince / princette (goes for every color of course!) 🎀 ruby 🎀 roseberry 🎀 peach (peaches) 🎀 rosebud 🎀 begonia 🎀 cherry blossom 🎀 orchid 🎀 petunia ❥ for red colored friends: 🍓 strawberry (or strawbeary for a bear! thank you to anon for that funny idea!) 🍓 rose 🍓 marigold 🍓 tulip 🍓 cherry 🍓 maroon 🍓 crimson 🍓 flame(s) 🍓 zinnia 🍓 poppy 🍓 camellia 🍓 cranberry (berry) 🍓 autumn 🍓 chili 🍓 radish 🍓 maple 🍓 ladybug 🍓 holly ❥ for orange colored friends: 🍊 fox (foxy, foxxo) 🍊 topaz 🍊 tulip 🍊 canna 🍊 sunny 🍊 carnation 🍊 carrot 🍊 pumpkin 🍊 cosmos (no, it’s a plant!) 🍊 garfield 🍊 daylily 🍊 soleil (means sun in french. it’s the name of my cat! pronounce: [sɔlɛj]) 🍊 lantana 🍊 iris 🍊 honey (dew, drop) 🍊 sunset ❥ for yellow colored friends: 💛 sunny 💛 tulip 💛 buttercup 💛 lemon(ade) 💛 pansy 💛 goldie 💛 daffodil 💛 canary 💛 sunflower 💛 dandelion 💛 macaroni 💛 bumblebee (bee) 💛 citron 💛 amber 💛 honey (dew, drop) 💛 waffles 💛 duck (duckie, duckling) 💛 simpson 💛 fanta 💛 caramel ❥ for brown colored friends: 🐻 teddy 🐻 cocoa 🐻 chocolate 🐻 cookie 🐻 cinnamon 🐻 muffin 🐻 clove 🐻 nutmeg 🐻 hazel 🐻 brownie 🐻 bailey 🐻 pecan 🐻 woody 🐻 walnut 🐻 mocha 🐻 snickers 🐻 bean 🐻 moose 🐻 bambi 🐻 fawn 🐻 caramel ❥ for purple colored friends: 💜 violet 💜 clematis 💜 arabella 💜 aubergine 💜 lavender 💜 tulip 💜 pansy 💜 catmint 💜 orchid 💜 cosmos 💜 sweet pea 💜 galaxy 💜 amethyst 💜 plum 💜 lupin 💜 petunia 💜 glory (from morning glory) 💜 delphin (from delphinium) 💜 sapphire (can be purple, too!) 💜 wisteria ❥ for blue colored friends: 💎 diamond 💎 sapphire 💎 sky 💎 topaz 💎 pacific (pacifica) 💎 ocean 💎 blueberry 💎 periwinkle 💎 dandelion 💎 lily (from blue calla lily) 💎 blu 💎 rain (rainy) 💎 dew (dewdrop) 💎 ice 💎 frozen 💎 freeze 💎 drop 💎 cobalt 💎 azure 💎 indigo ❥ for green colored friends: 🍀 clover 🍀 lucky 🍀 meadow 🍀 emerald 🍀 olive 🍀 leaf 🍀 pea 🍀 frog (froggy) 🍀 avocado (or avacado for girls!) 🍀 kiwi 🍀 honeydew 🍀 melon 🍀 pixy 🍀 jalapeno 🍀 mint (minty) 🍀 rosemary 🍀 grape 🍀 shrek 🍀 dragon 🍀 lizzard 🍀 grinch 🍀 apple 🍀 yoda 🍀 pickle(s) (thank you to littleteddy for that great idea!) 🍀 yoshi 🍀 elliot ❥ for black colored friends: 🖤 night 🖤 blacky 🖤 shadow 🖤 void 🖤 onyx 🖤 ink 🖤 pepper 🖤 pepsi 🖤 oreo 🖤 ebony 🖤 ore 🖤 coal 🖤 smudge 🖤 mud (muddy) 🖤 raven 🖤 panda 🖤 panther 🖤 domino 🖤 dice 🖤 shady 🖤 midnight 🖤 voodoo ❥ for grey colored friends: 🐘 dust (dusty) 🐘 ash (ashes) 🐘 comet 🐘 delphine (dolphin) 🐘 mouse 🐘 floyd (meaning “gray” in Welsh) 🐘 pebbles 🐘 pigeon 🐘 silver 🐘 smokey 🐘 misty 🐘 wolf (wolfie) 🐘 luna (means moon) 🐘 moon 🐘 moonlight 🐘 whippet 🐘 marble ❥ for cream colored friends: 🍦 creamy 🍦 cream puff 🍦 truffles 🍦 nugget 🍦 biscuit 🍦 popcorn 🍦 waffles 🍦 muffin 🍦 cookie 🍦 butterball 🍦 pudding 🍦 cheesecake 🍦 peanut butter 🍦 cashew 🍦 cupcake 🍦 saffron ❥ for turquoise colored friends: ♡ puya (it’s a flower) ♡ aqua ♡ mineral (turquoise also is a gem stone!) ♡ gem ♡ ferozah (the persian name for the turquoise gem stone, it means victorious!) ♡ lagoon/lagoona ♡ coral ♡ ocean ♡ pansy (a flower) ♡ bay ♡ takoizu (turquoise in japanese) ♡ midori (green in japanese) ♡ midumi (japanese words for 'green sea’ mixed together) ❥ for rainbow colored friends: 🌈 sprinkles 🌈 rainbow 🌈 parrot 🌈 paint 🌈 cake 🌈 spring (because of all the colorful flowers!) 🌈 lolli or lollipop (thank you to anon for that beautiful idea!) send in some more ideas

tips for new caregivers! ✨

• get to know your littles headspace: this to me is one of the most important tips, make sure you try and get to know your littles headspace, such as what age they regress to, what helps them regress, what they like being called and more! this will help the caregiver know how to take care of the little better and will make the little feel more comfortable. • make time to spend with your little: taking care of your little and giving them attention is important, and while you may already have a busy life try setting a specific time to spend with your little where you can give them your full attention and just focus on taking care of them and playing with them!

• Check on your little as much as you can!: Talk to them about their day, see if they are sad or happy and why, and make them feel like you care about them and how they feel, littles love knowing you care about them and care about what has been going on on their life!

• stay patient: getting frustrated and mad at them or around them will only upset them and make them scared of entering little space and not feel safe around you, and while everyone gets mad and frustrated sometimes, never ever take it out on your little! No matter what!

• Remind them that they are valid and loved: remind them that they are valid and loved and that there's nothing wrong with them regressing, littles normally need lots of reassurance especially from their cg. • Help them with big tasks or even do it for them: not needing to do big things or getting help doing them will make them feel little and will make them know you care about them • Make sure they do things they need to do: such as drinking water, taking meds if they have any, and more!

these are all the tips i could think of right now, but remember you don't have to be the 'perfect' caregiver! no matter what type of caregiver you are and no matter how many flaws you have remember that your little loves and appreciates you! bye!

😞

Knock knock? I heard some sobbing, is everything okay? May I come in?

Come here, let me hold you. It's gonna be okay, you don't have to say sorry. It's okay to cry. It's okay. Did you have a bad day? Did something happen? Here, let me wipe up some of those tears.

There's my pretty baby, hiding under those tears! I'll get your stuffie for you, and you can tell me all about it, okay? And if you don't wanna talk, we can sit in silence or put on a show, whatever you need hon, I'm here for you.

i long for the day i live with someone who WANTS to care for me, who shows me unconditional love even when i cant love myself. being able to live free of burden. when i can be comfortable in my own home..