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“Standing alone doesn’t mean I’m alone. It means I am strong enough to handle things all by myself.”
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self discipline tips
here are tips I discovered very recently:
something is better than nothing. 5 minutes of work are better than zero. Just because you missed something on your schedule doesn’t mean you can’t still work on it, even for 5 minutes. Grow and build on this.
second drafts / reviews can be done after.
Don’t think you are going to do your very best work on the first try. Take the weight of perfectionism off your shoulders.
don’t think about doing it. just do it as fast as you can.
build on your productivity, not your failures.
If you come from a past of procrastinating and now feel motivated to change and discipline yourself, do NOT try to do everything at once.
if you have a set of different goals to accomplish, begin with the most important one. Wait until the rotine of working for that one settles in (you feel productive and comfortable-ish), and then begin with the next. Repeat.
this way you’ll be building your way up and not juggling everything at the same time, hoping everything works out.
be patient with yourself, you’ll get there!
set smaller deadlines for your goals
have monthly and weekly-ish deadlines
e.g. if you are doing a project, due 22nd Feb, set personal deadlines, like have Introduction written by 2nd Feb, have Methods written by 10th Feb, have project complete by 18th Feb.
take them as seriously as you possibly can, don’t miss out on yourself.
write realistic daily tasks and don’t stop until you finish them. after them you can do whatever you want
on writing realistic daily tasks, the secret is knowing you can only do so much in one day, but trusting you can accomplish everything in the course of any period of time (a week, or 2 weeks or a month, etc.) because you will combine the work from all these different days.
it’s very tempting to write down all the tasks you need to accomplish in one day to just get over with it, but the real deal is you won’t accomplish half of them. You’ll feel very unproductive then, wich leads to demotivation.
spread daily tasks in the time necessary.
have a consistent sleep schedule.
if your mind isn’t ready everything will fall apart.
have one rest day per week where you plan nothing, do whatever you want except studying. this can be harder than you expect!
(don’t forget these are effective only if you actually put them into practice! good luck babes!!)
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#curly #straight #shrinkage #other #naturalcurls #hair #mixed #difussers #curlysue
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Time
It takes time to build a life. Kids and marriage, we all want it . When is it too late for marriage? How do you know when you found the one? How long do you wait before you say I love you? What are the deal breakers for bringing someone around your children?
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Showing emotion too soon sometimes will ruin everything. I've been so scared over the last few weeks we shall see how things go
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Come what may...
You may be told that's you're girlfriend/wifey material. By men who are afraid of commitment why prolong anything if you aren't ready. Why do they feel the need to keep us on the hook until they are ready to settle down. Why is they're ego so big they need it stroked 24/7. They only love you when you're gone.
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I'm not ready...
Dating is hard enough but to have obstacles thrown in. Your past always comes back to bit you in the ass. So now I have to vent through a blog because talking it out is too hard. When you're ready but bean not, and the past now wants to slide back in because you're moving on.
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Fml things are so difficult. Can't catch a break with anything, wish I was younger didn't have to worry about all this. It's exhausting
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I love my city... its the greatest place on earth well to me anyway.. even though its crazy snow here.. this city comforts me.. I LOVE BOSTON!!!
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