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Today my darling and I went to the gardens of the museum of natural history!
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We planned a little picnic with a lot of fresh finger foods, some dessert, and some grape juice. The weather was nice, breezy but not too much, and just enough cloud coverage not to fry on the spot!
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We then took some pictures around the gardens. Some where more hit and some more miss... But it was good posing practice anyway. I'm so glad that my dearest was enjoying getting the photography practice in!
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We had a good time visiting the museum and learning about the fauna and the minerals of the Alps. I've been to this museum a few times but it never gets old. Plus, there was a temporary exhibit on the Carboniferous period!
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yummy pomegranate
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♥ Under the wisterias ♥
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this is your gentle reminder to stop fighting against your adhd and instead structure your life around it
buy a pack of chapsticks and put one in the pocket of all of your coats and jackets because you always forget to bring one and chapped lips is sensory hell
leave important things where you can see them. if they go in a box or a drawer you will forget they exist
put any appointments or deadlines in your phone calendar As Soon As you get them. set a reminder for a week before, a day before, an hour before, as many as you need as often as you need them.
when that little voice in your head says "i dont need to write that down, ill remember it" that is the devil talking!!! write it down anyway!!
plan for down time. have a few hours at the end of every day to just do fun stuff like engage in your hyperfixations. even if you didnt get all of your work done that day, have the rest anyway. you probably spent the whole day beating yourself up for not doing what you Should be doing, so you still need the break.
if you never eat vegetables because its too much effort to chop and cook them, get the frozen or canned shit. it doesnt go off for ages and you just have to microwave it. theres no point buying fresh vegetables if they just keep going off and being left to rot in the bottom of your fridge
if you struggle to decide what to have for dinner every day, take the decision out of it. choose a set of meals and eat those on rotation until you get sick of them, then choose some new ones and do it again.
its not stupid if it works! our brains literally have a chemical deficiency. you are allowed to accommodate yourself. go forth and stop making your life more difficult than it has to be because "this shouldn't be this hard". it is hard, so make it easier.
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i made a massive train station on my island🚂🛤️
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I made a picrew!
Hey, y'all!!
Remember how I made some paper dress-up dolls a bit ago?
Well, I turned that into a picrew! I'd love to add to it at a later point, but I'm already pretty proud of it so far.
If you use it, feel free to share your results and tag me!! And if you have ideas of things to add to it, you can message me about it!!
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I made a picrew!
Hey, y'all!!
Remember how I made some paper dress-up dolls a bit ago?
Well, I turned that into a picrew! I'd love to add to it at a later point, but I'm already pretty proud of it so far.
If you use it, feel free to share your results and tag me!! And if you have ideas of things to add to it, you can message me about it!!
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I made a picrew!
Hey, y'all!!
Remember how I made some paper dress-up dolls a bit ago?
Well, I turned that into a picrew! I'd love to add to it at a later point, but I'm already pretty proud of it so far.
If you use it, feel free to share your results and tag me!! And if you have ideas of things to add to it, you can message me about it!!
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I made a picrew!
Hey, y'all!!
Remember how I made some paper dress-up dolls a bit ago?
Well, I turned that into a picrew! I'd love to add to it at a later point, but I'm already pretty proud of it so far.
If you use it, feel free to share your results and tag me!! And if you have ideas of things to add to it, you can message me about it!!
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I made a picrew!
Hey, y'all!!
Remember how I made some paper dress-up dolls a bit ago?
Well, I turned that into a picrew! I'd love to add to it at a later point, but I'm already pretty proud of it so far.
If you use it, feel free to share your results and tag me!! And if you have ideas of things to add to it, you can message me about it!!
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One thing about labels is, they are merely a means to, vaguely and in shorthand, describe a set of experiences. "Gay" is a tool used to very broadly describe the experience of "being a man who is attracted to other men" for example. What exactly that "gay" experience entails (or indeed, what being a "man" is) is almost COMPLETELY fluid and context dependent and can change radically from place and time and community to place and time and community.
Being a gay man in the 1920s at the same time is and very much isn't reasonably comparable to being a gay man in the 2020s. There's an overlap in the internal emotional experience of it, but the material conditions are so radically different as to be almost entirely alien.
So a label isn't useful for prescribing or defining what an experience is, a label is just shorthand for a big, wibbly-wobbly mess of incredibly complex connections and conditions that can be understood intuitively and emotionally, even if it can't necessarily be parsed out rationally.
In the 1946 short story "On Rigor in Science," Jorge Luis Borges imagines an empire where the science of cartography becomes so exact and rigorous that the only way to make a map detailed enough to live up to the imperial standard of accuracy is to make a map which is literally the size of the entire empire.
In the same way, if you want to write a definition for terms like "bi" or "pan" that is so accurate as to encompass and account for every possible nuance and peculiar difference, what you'll end up with is a book the size of an entire library, which nobody could ever possibly read, much less use to describe themselves.
So it's much more useful to treat labels like ~vibes~, like a convenient shorthand that sort of mostly gets a general vague idea of something across, and if it needs to be defined more closely you can handle that in conversation.
Sometimes there will be a he/him nonbinary aroace lesbian in the world who is happily married to a man that he enjoys sex with regularly. It's unusual, but it's not useful to respond to it by pointing at a series of definitions and starting semantic arguments about them. If you want to understand how it makes sense, you have to ask questions and listen to him about it, and the way it makes sense is almost certainly going to be intuitive, irrational and emotional, that's just how human beings roll.
All of this to say, arguments and gatekeeping over label definitions is generally very silly. We are, as Terry Pratchett wrote, "A LUCKY SPECIES OF APE THAT IS TRYING TO UNDERSTAND THE COMPLEXITIES OF CREATION VIA A LANGUAGE THAT EVOLVED IN ORDER TO TELL ONE ANOTHER WHERE THE RIPE FRUIT WAS."
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I made a picrew!
Hey, y'all!!
Remember how I made some paper dress-up dolls a bit ago?
Well, I turned that into a picrew! I'd love to add to it at a later point, but I'm already pretty proud of it so far.
If you use it, feel free to share your results and tag me!! And if you have ideas of things to add to it, you can message me about it!!
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I made a picrew!
Hey, y'all!!
Remember how I made some paper dress-up dolls a bit ago?
Well, I turned that into a picrew! I'd love to add to it at a later point, but I'm already pretty proud of it so far.
If you use it, feel free to share your results and tag me!! And if you have ideas of things to add to it, you can message me about it!!
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Egg
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♥ Berry picnic ♥
I drew this one as my new thank you card for my shop!
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♥ Berry picnic ♥
I drew this one as my new thank you card for my shop!
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