"Let’s talk about disappointment. A lot of the time, when we have young people asking us how to learn about kink before they’re eighteen, it’s not because they’re already exploring those dynamics with a partner. Instead, they’re worried that they won’t be prepared when they do meet someone and will end up disappointing their partner as a result. I mentioned this to Cynthia, who said she’d tell her past self, “Every experienced kinky person started out just as clueless as I did. There’s no way to rush the process, you just have to sit with the temporary discomfort of being a newbie as you learn and make mistakes, embrace the sometimes cringey feeling of not knowing exactly who you are or what you like, and remember that getting to know this part of you can be fascinating and fun with the right people.” In other words, the same lifelong learning process that’s involved with being sexual with people as a whole is also going to be part of sex framed as kinky.

The fear of our users have of doing kink “wrong” always makes me a little sad. Kink as a concept and a practice arose as a way of rejecting the idea that sex had to be a certain way, not as a way to implement a new set of rules. A big part of kink is seeing sex as a form of play, not a rigid script someone has to follow to do it right.

What does treating sex as play look like? It involves exploring pleasure and embracing creativity in a context where a lot of people still feel pressure to conform to a certain set of expectations. It includes letting yourself be weird and curious, and giving any sexual partners the space to do the same."

From Sam's response to How can I learn about kink as a minor?

it is literally almost 2am and im sitting here being scared of the united states like what the fuck there are so many people there!!!!! and they're all just speaking with their american accent like hello??? how do you not just laugh all the time. americans wake up and go to their american jobs and american schools that's so fucking weird. i imagine it as a fake place because it's where everywhere on tv is.

I can’t stop watching it.

I try to summon the haiku bot with this post. hello there, my friend!

Photos by rikunow on twitter

trudge trudge trudge...

Post canon spoilers!

Lately I’ve really enjoyed drawing Mithrun just living life and interacting with other people

i like the birddds

anyway here's my "Lycion's weird little crush on his captain" collection

to want is to hunger and i have no appetite

It’s time for the battle💥

DUNGEON BOYS

Inspired by the AMV I kept seeing of Chilchuk with "Nobody Likes Me"

Pets love to show up like Hello i am Mystery Wet :)

When he was the lord of the dungeon

Their wholesome interaction may be short but the impact is long lasting

I just need Senshi to teach him to make noodles, he’d be a great teacher