INDEFINITE HIATUS!
life has been all sorts of complicated. boyfriendās moving in this weekend and we have a few months of trying to integrate the cats. my own cat, snow, is, for all intents and purposes, terminal (cardiomyopathy, IBD, both worsening); he could have months or year(s), no one knows. momās been in a nursing home for a year and weāre trying to move her to one closer to home, not to mention all of her debts and a lawsuit against her for aforementioned debts. and work is absolute hell. and my boyfriend and i are trying to get rid of/sell the stuff that was hers in the apartment; we still have so much to go through. the stress is high and life is chaos.
my own health - mental and physical - has been awful. iām always unreasonably and ridiculously exhausted. i need to, at the very least, deal with my health before i get back here. but i really, really want to. i miss writing so much, but iāve barely had any time to do anything that i enjoy anymore. iām just too tired to do anything but sleep on my days off.
discord is below. iām really going to try to do better about responding to messages there - i know iāve been awful about it, but spoons are limited.
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INDEFINITE HIATUS!
life has been all sorts of complicated. boyfriendās moving in this weekend and we have a few months of trying to integrate the cats. my own cat, snow, is, for all intents and purposes, terminal (cardiomyopathy, IBD, both worsening); he could have months or year(s), no one knows. momās been in a nursing home for a year and weāre trying to move her to one closer to home, not to mention all of her debts and a lawsuit against her for aforementioned debts. and work is absolute hell. and my boyfriend and i are trying to get rid of/sell the stuff that was hers in the apartment; we still have so much to go through. the stress is high and life is chaos.
my own health - mental and physical - has been awful. iām always unreasonably and ridiculously exhausted. i need to, at the very least, deal with my health before i get back here. but i really, really want to. i miss writing so much, but iāve barely had any time to do anything that i enjoy anymore. iām just too tired to do anything but sleep on my days off.
discord is below. iām really going to try to do better about responding to messages there - i know iāve been awful about it, but spoons are limited.
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( alright, loves. i havenāt written anything in 2 years but ā¦ whoās still around? i want to come back. š„ŗ
discord is below. iām going to make an effort to be somewhat social while i continue to try to get my life in order. but man do i miss writing.
might still be a bit because life is hectic af, but i have intentions. )
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( alright, loves. i havenāt written anything in 2 years but ā¦ whoās still around? i want to come back. š„ŗ
discord is below. iām going to make an effort to be somewhat social while i continue to try to get my life in order. but man do i miss writing.
might still be a bit because life is hectic af, but i have intentions. )
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( there WILL be a post here this weekend regarding my return and what iām doing with threads ( basically, iāll be tagging everyone i have drafts for and if they want to or donāt want to continue, since a lot of time has passed, will be up to them ), but iāve been lacking in the spoon department lately.
iāll also be deleting the ooc posts Iāve been making to de-clutter a little bit.
for all of you whoāve stuck around all this time: i love you and i miss you and my muse so much! )
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( boyfriend came over for a surprise visit and ruined all chances of productivity. š i have an absolute ton to do around the apartment now, so getting in front of the computer is a no-go.
expect the post announcing my return and informing whoever i have threads with of said return and the possibility of dropping or continuing existing threads ( which i will leave to my writing partnersā discretion) to come between thursday ( if i can convince myself to get up early before work ) and monday! )
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( i donāt know if anyoneās still around, but i swear iām not dead. iāll be making a much more conscious effort to be active on both my blogs as of the weekend of october 1st. work is nuts and iām constantly exhausted even with my 3 day weekends, i havenāt been able to juggle work and personal life with any degree of success, but i miss writing (and having hobbies in general).
there will be a more comprehensive post that weekend regarding dropping threads and the like, and i will tag everyone i have drafted threads with so they can make the decision whether to continue said threads or start new ones.
i will eventually get to messages here and on discord, but finding the spoons has been a challenge. š
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( i donāt know if anyoneās still around, but i swear iām not dead. iāll be making a much more conscious effort to be active on both my blogs as of the weekend of october 1st. work is nuts and iām constantly exhausted even with my 3 day weekends, i havenāt been able to juggle work and personal life with any degree of success, but i miss writing (and having hobbies in general).
there will be a more comprehensive post that weekend regarding dropping threads and the like, and i will tag everyone i have drafted threads with so they can make the decision whether to continue said threads or start new ones.
i will eventually get to messages here and on discord, but finding the spoons has been a challenge. š
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( itāll be over the weekend, as iām only one day into my work week and iām already wiped. š )
( watch this space! thereāll be a little update either tonight ( depending on whether or not i finish all the irl shit i need to get done ) or sometime over the weekend!
iām not dead. a lot has just happened/been happening. )
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( watch this space! thereāll be a little update either tonight ( depending on whether or not i finish all the irl shit i need to get done ) or sometime over the weekend!
iām not dead. a lot has just happened/been happening. )
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( mom has covid and covid related pneumonia and is in the hospital. she was diagnosed last week, when i called an ambulance for her for the first time, but was admitted on monday because her oxygen saturation was low ( thankfully, test and trace here in nyc sent me a pulse ox ). sheās doing okay now, getting oxygen therapy and other treatments, but itās still fucking scary.
so my head is not in the game. iām quarantined until the 12th ( and iām getting retested tomorrow ), but iām trying to clean my entire apartment in the meantime, which takes less brain power than writing.
itās been taxing. the only bright side was meeting a cute paramedic who has been so wonderful and who iām definitely smitten with.
hopefully, i can get some writing done in the next few days. thanks for your patience, the past week has been ... awful.
wear your damn masks, people. my mom doesnāt even leave the apartment, which means it was brought in via boxes, or i brought it in and was asymptomatic. the end is in sight, but itās still not over yet. be safe! )
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Ā āĀ Ā YOU REMIND ME OF ME, āĀ Ā she noted, crystalline hues scrutinizing their features, āĀ Ā AND HOW FUCKED UP I CAN BE. ā Ā
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heads up!!!
iām going to be posting an open starter! i probably wonāt get to anything until the new year, as iām still trying to catch up on sleep and apartment cleaning, and have a hair appointment on the 2nd thatāll take all day ( bleaching, yay! ). not to mention trying to find the impetus/muse to write.
note that almost all inbox things will be deleted!!! i just have too many drafts and itās already going to take me ages to get through what i have. iām not yet sure if iāll be deleting some threads, but if i do, iāll make a post or notify my partners in some way.
if thereās anything you donāt wish to continue, please let me know!
no hard feelings, i know iāve been gone for a while and the muse for some things can just disappear after a time.
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me, laying in bed, trying to sleep so i can adult tomorrow: i miss writing red and lightning so much ššš
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( so i plan on making a valiant return on my blogs sometime after thanksgiving/the first weekend of december.
getting my ducks in a row, trying to adjust to a new work schedule ( tuesday through friday, roughly the same amount of hours, so exhausting but with a three day weekend ) and slowly working on drafts until then so i can get a queue going.
thank you all whoāve stuck around with me, because i miss you and i fucking miss my hobby. š )
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( iām already on hiatus here, but this is a new thing thatās happening and iām :| mentally, iām mostly fine, but physically, shit has been getting weird. iām constantly dizzy, fatigued, and now this. )
( small hiatus is probably in order.
i found two new ( literally appeared overnight ) irregularly shaped moles and iām freaking out about it. no history of melanoma in my family, but i unintentionally tanned this summer ( just from walking to work ) and iām extremely fair skinned, so itās at the forefront of my brain.
have to call tomorrow to make an appointment with my doc, and then probably get a referral to a derm. )
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brandedsaviorā:
( can you give this post a like/reblog if youāre still interested in interacting/continuing threads?
i know iāve been mia for a few months, but iām going to attemptĀ to bring myself back here within the next few weeks ( iām not setting a date for myself; i havenāt been in much of a mood to write lately, but iām hoping inspiration will strike again at some point ). iāve got at least 45 drafts and ā¦ god knows how much stuff in my inbox ( that i really should weed out ), but i donāt want to message everyone iāve got threads with or who sent me things, and the lack of mutual checker on tumblr is an anxiety inducing clusterfuck. )
( iām hopingĀ for a comeback in september. i know my time constraints arenāt going to change, but i really want to get @atemyboyfriendā taken care of re: drafts, memes and theme before i return here.
in the meantime, like this post to continue threads, add me on discord, etc. i miss so many of you whoāve been wonderful to me both ic and ooc. )
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