boywithbear
Mobility Aid King
25, white, intersex, genderqueer trans man, gay aroace, physically disabled & neurodivergent • no blog theme, I post everything on this blog (mostly queer and disabled related stuff and shitposts) • flag making is part of a special interest, tag on here is my flags and new flag acc is @whalien-flags • other random tags can be for personal reasons (fine to reblog); possible nsfw posts will be under nsft tag so minors dni • icon is art done for me by my partner pupballad on a geometric gay aroace flag I made, header is a swirled gay aroace flag I made with a gay bear symbol on it
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Figured I'd post my take on a gay aroace flag on here bc why not. It's meant to take inspiration from the aroace flag colors but in a layout I prefer to see with gay flags. Can be used by anyone gay mlm/nblm who is aroace (oriented or angled).
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Hello, if you are buying dishes/mugs/any food containers for someone who you know has food contamination OCD, please consider making sure that the container can be taken apart completely and cleaned thoroughly. This is just my own personal experience, but I absolutely notice when there are places in my dishes that food can reach but that I can't. That shit haunts me on a fundamental and deeply upsetting level.
#gosh i'm forever reminded of how neurodivergent my family is#i'm already diagnosed ocd for other things and this sounds like my brothers#meanwhile all of us + our dad all already have a bunch of other stuff too already 🥴
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doing entirely new post for it....
GAY AROACE FLAG!!!!
flag for gays/vincians who are aroace!!!! made by putting together the ocean gay flag and sunrise aroace flag :] it's so pretty!!! i call it the prairie flag!!
[Flag description: flag with 5 horizontal stripes that are orange, yellow, white, mint, and dark teal.]
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Bit telling that for years and years evangelical religious extremists have been allowed on university campuses with their bullhorns and horrific imagery where they harass students into physical altercations and when students complain to the university’s administration they just shrug their shoulders citing freedom of speech but when those same tuition-paying students start protesting against war and genocide they call SWAT
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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)
I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important
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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around
When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry
I had to change that in order to keep those friendships
When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.
So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship
It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.
That's called "living in a society"
People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you
You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises
I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes
There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"
And that's a recipe for disaster
Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do
However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational
We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing
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I theorize the reason "bottoms" appear more prevalent than "tops" on these types of spaces is that it is simply easier to be funny about being a bottom than about being a top without sounding like a sex offender
"uuuuu 🥺 pls cock me aaaaaaaa *runs into wall like Wile E Coyote running into his own tunnel painting*" easy as shit comedy
"I want to put my DICK in someone" whoa dude calm down, take it easy
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i think its so funny that alumni from schools like harvard and columbia that were there during the protests in the 60s-80s are expressing support for students currently protesting against the genocide in palestine, and random zionists that were NOT at these protests in the 60s-80s have the never ending audacity to tell these alumni "well thats different, what you protested was good and what they're protesting is bad." as if protesters against the vietnam war and apartheid south africa were not also demonized, arrested, brutalized, and even killed for their activism. history only remembers them fondly after the damage has already been done.
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how r u gonna call them love handles and then try to convince ppl thats a bad thing. insane to me
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it’s genuinely hilarious in an awful way that on the bridge that leads to galveston island texas is a sign that reads “welcome to galveston, the birthplace of juneteenth” as if that’s anything to be proud of……….💀
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to be loved by another trans person is so beautiful. being observed by someone who loves how your body looks, no matter what it looks like is healing. feeling comfortable being naked around someone for the first time, knowing they won't criticize you for how you were born. someone who is more than happy to you get dressed the way you want to. someone to help you get out of your binder. someone it's safe to remove your breastforms and untuck in front of. it's a small gesture, but it goes a long way. existing freely in the company of someone who gets you is a blessing
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Transfem to Transmasc solitary must exist as much as any trans solidarity must exist.
Protect my boys.
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