its so sad that radfem just means transphobe and not like. this

reblog for sample size !!

I didn’t miss that social cue I just thought it was stupid 

thinking about how when you experience a lot of shame in your formative years (indirectly, directly, as abuse or just as an extant part of your environment) it becomes really difficult to be perceived by other people in general. the mere concept of someone watching me do anything, whether it's a totally normal activity or something unfamiliar of embarrassing, whether I'm working in an excel spreadsheet or being horny on main, it just makes my skin crawl and my brain turn to static because I cannot convince myself that it's okay to be seen and experienced. because to exist is to be ashamed and embarrassed of myself, whether I'm failing at something or not, because my instinctive reaction to anyone commenting on ANYTHING I'm doing is to crawl into a hole and die. it's such a bizarre and dehumanizing feeling to just not be able to exist without constantly thinking about how you are being Perceived. ceaseless watcher give me a god damn break.

some of you have had your perception of mommy dommes warped by the popular advent of people simply using "mommy" as a title devoid of all context. I am not that kind of mommy domme. I am the kind that Acts Like Your Mom (or, how your mom should've acted). I am going to be so sugary-sweet and gentle and kind with you. I'm going to refer to all of your injuries as booboos and offer to kiss them better. I am going to make you little snacks and make sure you're hydrated. I am going to snuggle you so softly yet so tightly and kiss your forehead so gently and tell you that you make mommy proud every single day. that you are the best kid a gal like me could ask for. that I love you. I love you.

Gender is a language

you look absolutely bewitching!

what if instead of being mean we could try being nice

transfems.... my sisters......... save me from everything that plagues my mind

''Doesn't know what it's like to receive love''

the idea of public restrooms as "women's spaces" continues to confound me. you know who I hope is in a public bathroom when I go in?? no one. I would prefer no one else be in the bathroom. and if someone else is in the bathroom I am going to ignore them as much as possible. I did not go into the bathroom to connect with other women. I went into the bathroom to piss and/or shit. it's a toilet's space, not a women's space. shut the fuck up and let trans people piss and shit in peace. let's all continue to avoid eye contact with each other and any and all interaction in the toilet's space.

"That's just the way it is" what about the way things COULD be?

Oh my god, then the only difference would be if a girl's dick was natal or surgical. Gender is sociocultural and identity based, sex isn't real, bodies are blueprints

neo-boyclit and neo-girldick (as in, boyclits and girldicks achieved with bottom surgery). Think about it

neo-boyclit and neo-girldick (as in, boyclits and girldicks achieved with bottom surgery). Think about it

Is this like good cop bad cop

Will you still love me when I'm no longer fat and losercore

What kind of asshole would plan something like this without checking for my input

This is ✨IT✨

unironically a theylor