This a a reminder to not fall victim to the sunk-cost fallacy. Just because you invested time and energy into something, does not mean you should indefinitely waste more time and energy on it, if you decide it’s not what you want anymore. This goes for anything, from books, to relationships, to jobs, to hobbies, etc.

If it’s not serving you anymore, move on.

I should dig out this trans WIP and complete it. I’m pretty sure I have all the blocks… somewhere. It wouldn’t be too hard to make some side setting triangles and take it to the shop to quilt it.

*headesk* I don’t remember how big I was making this… probably queen? Maybe generous twin?

I do have the perfect thread for the quilting when I get to it. It’s called Babyshower and it’s pink, blue, and white.

(Even if I don’t find this WIP somewhere in my shed, packed away with all my older projects, I do have plans for a different trans inspired quilt \o/ It may have been my first, it is not my last.)

hey babe come look at this (affectionate)

My deepest darkest fantasy is that I collapse on the street and I am rushed to the hospital. They perform a bunch of tests and find out I am severely deficient in some kind of vitamin. Then I start taking the vitamin and I become the happiest cleverest person alive because all my problems were caused by this one deficiency

Reminded me of a certain arrow bard. But unlike @blumineck , Link can't nock an arrow in this position.

Dear shitty gun nuts. You can keep your photoshopped pictures of women with big boobs carrying guns

We’ll keep our pole dancing nerdy archer thank you very much :)

struggling to comprehend the scale of the mistake I almost just made

Library kids are going to save the world. 📚

crying bc I’ll never be able to buy giant bagels off a kentrosaurus

My face is having uncontrollable spasms. Great. It hurts really, really, really bad.

I think part of why I have trouble explaining pain to the doctor is when they ask about the pain scale I always think “Well, if someone threw me down a flight of stairs right now or punched me a few times, it would definitely hurt a lot more” so I end up saying a low number. I was reading an article that said that “10” is the most commonly reported number and that is baffling to me. When I woke up from surgery with an 8" incision in my body and I could hardly even speak, I was in the most horrific pain of my life but I said “6” because I thought “Well, if you hit me in the stomach, it would be worse.”

A butch (almost)) every day ▪️20/04/2024

She's reading a good book:)

Person who really wants to be dominated by a strong-armed authoritarian in a snappy uniform, but also they want to keep their kinks ideologically pure, so they split the difference and fantasise about getting their ass beat by the inspector-general of the US Postal Service.

me @ my mutuals

It's just spam. Please don't take it to heart.

yeah see this is why I figured I shouldn't write. I'm too sensitive and this ruined my confidence completely

the 'all marriage is gay as far as im concerned' except its me watching a man and woman character in a show i like and accidentally saying 'theyre so gay' because i literally forget thats not the word for romance because to me all romance is gay