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ASTEROID AMOR (1221) 💌

definition: asteroid amor represents what a person needs to display their love for their partner, how they show love and what they expect in return.

ARIES/1H: people with this placement need someone who wakes up that one spark inside them, their lover needs to know them better than anyone else. they want to know they can feel safe when they’re around the person they’re interested in, they don’t want to experience jealousy because that just makes them doubt their partner which easily leads them to wanting to break up. they want someone who can outsmart them and who has a good reputation. they like family oriented people who will appreciate their own family and their’s. they want to feel peaceful and cherished by their lover

TAURUS/2H: physical touch and affection is all they want. these people love cuddling and touching on their partner, they want to claim their body, mind, heart and soul. they want the type of relationship where it feels like it’s them both against the whole world. they value alone time with their partner and small acts of service, they’re grateful people who appreciate the smallest things you do for them. they seek affection and stability. tend to be attracted to people who have similar interests in them. in order to get these individuals to commit you have to prove you’re willing to be loyal and committed first. they want a connection that feels like a true soulmate connection

GEMINI/3H: amor in gemini just wants someone who will let them be their true authentic self. they want to be understood by their partner and not criticized. they expect cute love letters from their lover and are the type of people who want to hold your hand tightly in public. they’re ready to express their romantic side to someone who gets them and their humor. they want to be able to relate to someone who doesn’t get weirded out by their personality. their bodies need to be praised by their partner. they want their partner to boost up their confidence and make them feel like the baddest girl/guy in the room!

CANCER/4H: it’s all about balance and harmony. amor in cancer wants their energy to be returned because they’re the type of people to often think about having a friend that’s just like them - ‘i wish i had a friend like me’ the type to kiss you all over your face until you wake up, they want their legs over their partner while they sleep together. they want to be two bodies but one soul. they’re not freedom lovers, they want all of their time spent mainly on their partner. they wish to get spoiled wether it be through money, love and affection, cooking or other. just show them you care and that you’re not available for others, just them.

LEO/5H: these individuals want to experience a mysterious love full of secrets. they want to know their partner better than anybody else, they want to be their partner’s shoulder to cry on! the type of lovers who will do anything for you if they love you. they love gifts and gifting. they want to get promise rings, necklaces with meanings and etc. they want cute little stuff to symbolize their relationship. amor in leo is a ride or die type of lover, they learn to love your flaws and good qualities if you can impress them especially by being yourself and not someone you’re not.

VIRGO/6H: “look me in my eyes and tell me you love me..” eye contact is what gets these people in love. they want to fall in love with the color of their partner’s eyes and the secrets their eyes hold. they want someone creative who will express their love for them in so many fun and unique ways. all these individuals ask for is trust, they want to be able to open up to their lover about anything without having to overthink their decision. amor in virgo is the type of person to go through your hair with their hands while you’re sleeping and wish you a good night with sweet dreams

LIBRA/7H: the type of lover to say pull me closer to you. they want an instant spark or love at first sight, they admire love & beauty. they want someone who is loyal, committed and fun to be around. they’re into confident people who know their self worth. they’re not fans of ‘opposites attract’. can sometimes get selfish about their partner unless they feel like wanting to prove to them they’re independent people who will make you chase them. amor in libra wants to be impressed in all aspects because they’re picky about who they’ll choose date.

SCORPIO/8H: “can it just be me and you?” is the type to ask their lover to run away together. amor in scorpio wants someone who’s not easy, friendly and available to just anyone. they want a partner with standards and a partner who romanticizes everything about them. in order to get these people to like you you have to be organized, yourself and hard working. they just want someone who will put effort into them. if their partner isn’t willing to always find time for them then they won’t be interested. they want to be taught something by their partner because they hate being the maturer person. they’re the one who wants to get pampered.

SAGITTARIUS/9H: is the type of lover to make anyone jealous that wants them by kissing their partner in front of them. they want to feel every inch of their partner and is probably into dancing. they love observing people with good manners who are a bit egoistic. could be the type of person who likes cockiness but at it’s limits. they want a copy of themselves who will appreciate their taste in fashion, food, places and interests. they hate arrogance and want someone open minded who will get on their knees for them

CAPRICORN/10H: amor in capricorn is the lover who doesn’t bring you stress and worries. they want to make their partner feel better than themselves. they want someone who will let them love them in their own way. they’re lovers of *natural* beauty. wants someone who’s ambitious and not lazy, they hate negativity and people who self doubt. they hate overthinking since they’re the type of people that’s worried about what’s going on today not what will in the future or what did in the past. they take life as it is and they want someone who has similar beliefs and values as them. is a forgiving lover who wants to do things that are the best for their partner!

AQUARIUS/11H: the charming sweet talker. “girl you know we belong together, we’ll be together forever together.” amor in aquarius is someone irresistible who attracts attention easily. they’re well mannered and respectful. they’re into shy people who will love them publicly and privately. usually they develop crushes on their friends and like to take it from there. bold people who want someone that’s full of humor and nice vibes. they fall for people who let them know they’re so in love with them, they want someone to fantasize about their looks and personality. they hate toxic relationships and are lovers of old love.

PISCES/12H: the type of people who believe in “we will meet again.” amor in pisces chases their partner and shows them they care constantly. they’re full of love! they want their partner to let them know they’re thinking of them, they’re individuals who dream of someone and wake up having a crush on them. they want someone who’s protective of them, the type that pulls their waist closer to them to let other people know they are taken!

amor aspects

AMOR - SUN: i want you to love all over me, and kiss all over me. take my heart and make it yours.

AMOR - MOON: express your love for me through art and telepathy. i want to feel every bit of you

AMOR - MERCURY: send me random messages telling me you’re thinking of me. let’s make unforgettable memories together that’ll last forever.

AMOR - VENUS: make me and my body feel special. appreciate everything about me.

AMOR - MARS: will you prove to me i’m your only one? don’t leave me, even at our hardest times. we both know we’re meant for each other

AMOR - JUPITER: you’re my everything and i don’t need anything or anyone else but make sure i’m your everything too.

AMOR - SATURN: no matter what others think of you, i’ll think the best of you. even if you hate me, i’ll love you from a distance.

AMOR - URANUS: i’ll forever think of you and only you, not even death can do us apart

AMOR - NEPTUNE: i’m so glad that you fell in love with me, we’re each other’s fantasy. i won’t ever let you go.

AMOR - PLUTO: no one will ever love you like me, i’m all you need.

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aquatrance911 · 2 years

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I’m not going to derail something that was supposed to be funny, but I’m really worried about that venn diagram post going around with “Do I have ADHD/autism?” “If you have to google it, the answer is probably already yes!” This is fine for the “Am I gay?” circle, because the answer is found entirely within yourself, you already know exactly what being gay means, and the signs don’t really overlap with the opposite. If you think you might like the same gender, well, you probably aren’t straight.

But it’s different for neurological/mental conditions. Any individual symptom, or even group of symptoms, could overlap with other conditions or even be part of the range of typical experience. And the consequences of failing to do your research could be misdiagnosis and not receiving treatment that will actually be helpful to you. To illustrate, let’s make up an example person: Edwina.

Edwina is quiet and a bit spacey. Her teachers often remark that Edwina appears to be staring off into space instead of paying attention. Edwina often feels like her brain is foggy and absent when she’s trying to do work— she just can’t focus! She also isn’t always good at keeping track of time and tends to have a bad memory.

Edwina sees some information about inattentive-type ADHD and ADHD presentation in girls. She thinks— whoa, that’s me! spacey, bad with time, forgetful, and can’t focus on work! maybe this is the answer and I could finally get some help with this! Now in Scenario 1, Edwina doesn’t do any further research, because “If you have to google it, the answer is probably already yes!”, right? So she goes to the doctor and asks to get tested for ADHD.

In Scenario 2, Edwina starts googling. She learns about overstimulation and understimulation with regards to focus in ADHD, and realizes that doesn’t really apply to her. She also learns about the “bad with time” thing— in ADHD it’s more about losing track of time while hyperfixating on something, but Edwina’s “bad with time” is more about missing chunks of her day. She starts thinking about this— is this really not normal? No one remembers every part of their day, right? So she googles “missing gaps in memory” and learns about dissociative disorders. A lot of these symptoms match up with her experience, and explain her problems better than ADHD would. So she goes to the doctor and asks to get tested for the range of dissociative disorders (and maybe ADHD also, just to be sure.)

In Scenario 1, Edwina believes that her main problems are not being able to pay attention in class and not being able to focus on her work, so that’s what she talks about in her clinical interview. The doctor asks follow-up questions about the lack of focus and Edwina’s dissociative symptoms just never come up, and she doesn’t think to bring them up because she doesn’t realize what is and isn’t normal. The possibility of a dissociative disorder doesn’t even occur to the doctor. So Edwina is given the self-report questionnaires for ADHD. Maybe her symptoms fit into these questions well enough that she checks “yes” on the boxes, the doctor figures it checks out, and she’s incorrectly diagnosed with ADHD and put on medication that doesn’t help and even makes things worse. Maybe she doesn’t meet clinical standards for ADHD— A good doctor will sit her down and try to figure out what to test for next and try to get to the bottom of these symptoms, but other doctors would just tell her she’s “normal” and send her home.

In Scenario 2, Edwina discusses her dissociative symptoms in her clinical interview, and is given the self-report questionnaires for dissociative disorders. She is correctly diagnosed with whichever dissociative disorder she has and is referred to trauma therapy.

Incorrect diagnosis happens all the time, especially when doctors aren’t even testing for the condition you actually have. A friend of mine was misdiagnosed with anxiety her entire childhood and put on meds that didn’t help. No one thought to test her for ADHD until she was halfway through college, and she was finally able to get proper treatment. Another friend had a dissociative disorder misdiagnosed as depression. It’s really important to do your research before your doctor’s appointment, to make sure you know which of your experiences are out of the ordinary and are worth mentioning, and so that you can advocate for yourself and ask for be tested for the conditions you are most likely to have.

TL;DR: Do your research when it comes to neurological/mental conditions. It could be the difference between getting proper treatment or not.

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aquatrance911 · 2 years

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We really do live in a society lads

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aquatrance911 · 2 years

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everyone's all for disabled rights & anti-capitalism until your co-worker does the dishes slowly, or gets confused when given directions, or needs to be trained on how to do something that you think is fairly simple, or this or that or whatever lack of ability they have that makes you start to devalue them as a person and call them "useless" for not being a perfect cog in the capitalist machine

like sorry my existing makes your job harder but maybe direct your anger & aggression upwards instead of stamping down vulnerable groups who are just trying to survive and have gone their whole life being abused and screamed at for not being "good enough" or for being Inconvenient or a Burden

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aquatrance911 · 2 years

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Potentially unpopular opinion: At a certain point, we autistic folks need to take responsibility for our own experience.

The fact of the matter is, we live in a neurotypical world, and that's not going to change anytime soon. This world will always be too stimulating (or not stimulating enough), many NTs will often deny our experience because they themselves don't have the same experience, our stimming will always be weird to a lot of folks.

Other people's reactions to you are not a reflection of your behavior but of their limited perspective.

We can't change the rest of the world, and if we keep acting as though we expect it to be different and more accommodating, we're going to be miserable and resentful constantly. (This does NOT mean that we don't continue to fight for accommodations, it just means that we need to start with acceptance of the reality of a situation and move thoughtfully from there.)

Here's what you can do. (And let me just say: this all takes practice. Be patient with yourself!)

Unapologetically honor your own needs and boundaries even if no one else understands. Your needs are valid! Your boundaries are important! The folks who don't understand don't deserve to be in your life. Cultivate the community you want and deserve. And if you're someone who still lives with your parents who don't understand or are otherwise dependent on someone who doesn't understand, I know that can be lonely, and I know you're doing your best. Please know you have a whole community out in this wild online world here for you.

Own the ways you're different and strut that shit. One thing EVERYONE is drawn to and respects is confidence. Harry Styles pulls off the way he dresses because he does it confidently. You can practice this by...

Instead of apologizing, thank people. e.g. Instead of "I'm sorry my stimming is a little distracting," say "thanks so much for making safe space for me to be me." Instead of "I'm sorry, but I'm just really distracted in this loud restaurant and need to go," say "This place is just too much for me right now. Thanks for understanding that I need to go."

Trust that there are a lot of people out there who want to love you. It took me a looooooong time to claim my difference and not get resentful at NTs for not understanding. But over time I've created a circle of people who get me, who honor my needs, and who love how I'm different from them. And a lot of those folks are NTs who wanted to love me but just needed a little direction.

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aquatrance911 · 2 years

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aquatrance911 · 2 years

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Does this resonate with you?

I find it pretty accurate.

Big thanks to myautisticsoul for making this.

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aquatrance911 · 2 years

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sad meme

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aquatrance911 · 2 years

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PLEASE REBLOG IF YOU LIKE!! I want this resource to spread so other people are able to use it :)

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aquatrance911 · 2 years

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AD/HD tips I don’t see anywhere

since we take out of sight out of mind quite literally with a lack of object permanence, shelves are often better than drawers

you don’t need to have clear surfaces to be neat, instead make sure that everything on it has a place

AD/HD friendly food- most people don’t know that certain foods can exasperate symptoms, I really recommend looking into this (especially if you suffer with hyperactivity)

this watch is a vibrating watch with a bunch of reminders you can set (pre-set and custom)

no laundry basket- many people tend to leave their clothes in the laundry basket instead of putting them away. what i do to counteract this is just getting rid of the laundry basket- i use my fitted sheet instead to cary the clothes so i’m forced to put them away (and this way it also makes me wash my fitted sheet regularly)

I don’t want to make this too long so people actually read it so I’ll probably make this into a series and link the next one when i post it

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aquatrance911 · 2 years

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Is adhd the reason my emotions take their leave when I'm in a dire situation? And then they come in full force when it's almost hours or days later?

Or is this some coping that I wasn't aware of?

Sent 9th November~

Yeah, that’s ADHD! A symptom of ADHD is emotional dysregulation. That means that we can feel our emotions a lot stronger than other people. It also means we can feel them a lot less—we can end up feeling numb.

And we can end up feeling them at the wrong times.

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Could eating candies at night be adhd trait? Like brain can't sleep, brain thinks it's bored, it thinks it needs dopamine, candies give dopamine, eat?

Sent 8th November~

Yeah! I can’t explain it in any simpler terms than the way you just did, because that’s absolutely right.

ADHD brains lack dopamine, so we seek it in the form of sugary foods when we’re bored.

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aquatrance911 · 4 years

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