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soft prinxiety comm for @whereeverythingisnew
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So I have read several people complaining that they can't be expected to know the "unwritten rules" of fandom. So here's what I wish people knew:
Fanfiction is fiction.
Fictional people are not real.
Fictional people do not have rights.
Fictional people cannot be abused.
Reading or writing about something does not mean the desire to do or support it in the real world.
If I find art upsetting/triggering/disgusting/outraging/unpleasant/squicky/distressing/offensive, it is on me not to read it, not the creators and hosts to remove it.
Curate your own experience. The back buttons exist for a reason.
If you don't trust yourself to do that, get someone you trust to do it for you.
Fandom is an adult space. Adults create and own and host fandom spaces. If minors want to participate, then the onus is on them and their parents/guardians/trusted adults to ensure they participate appropriately, not on strange adults to stop being adults.
You often don't know the assault status or mental health status or neurotype or race or nationality or religion or gender or sexuality or age of a creator or consumer, and they do not have to disclose to you to justify their fantasy.
AO3 is not a safe space. It is not intended to be a safe space. Proceed accordingly.
Just because you don't like something or find it offensive doesn't mean it is a "problem" that "has to be dealt with".
Most characters in anime are not white.
There is no onus on you to reblog or share anything.
Everyone makes mistakes in fandom and is less than their best self sometimes.
Persistent pseudonyms encourage long term relationships.
Ship wars are stupid.
Someone else enjoying things does not impact on your own enjoyment of other things.
Tagging and warning is a courtesy, not a requirement. Assume any fic might contain untagged content.
Rating is an imprecise art, not a science.
Don't hassle IP creators.
Most people who are in fandom are hoping to make connections based on a shared passion.
Trying to profit from transformative fanworks puts us all at risk.
No one is obligated to share your head canon or fanon.
Being kind rarely fails to pay off.
It is okay to block and remove people who make your experience unpleasant. You don't have to placate them. (Learn from my mistakes).
Britpicking is a good thing.
You don't have to justify why you like a canon/pairing/trope/kink. Sometimes navel gazing is fun, but you don't have an obligation to explain yourself, especially to strangers. I share the overwhelming desire to refute an unfair accusation, but the people accusing you are rarely doing so in good faith, so you're batting a losing wicket.
I'm not your Mum. (Well, okay, a very few of you can call me Mum or Mom, but if you are one of them you already know who you are ❤️)
If you aren't mature enough to take responsibility for your online experiences, you aren't mature enough to be in fandom spaces.
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Sanders Sides Care Bears Cousins! Because I mean, It’s my brand 😹
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This episode gave me so much serotonin…
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a fall stroll ✨🍂🍄
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i havent been wanting to make a big post about it, but downplaying my situation and needs isn’t going to get me the help i need.
so a few months ago i finally got a car of my own and broke news to my cishet (highly) abusive ex that i would be leaving. needless to say since i’m still here, i’m in quite a dangerous living situation, more so than before that is.
me finally not hiding my gender anymore and going ahead with hrt has been a cause of anger and violence from him, since he’s very transphobic. i’ve been doing all i can to keep him in check and calm, especially since we have two kids i’m trying to get out with me.
he’s disgusting, lazy, makes me (his ex, with high chronic pain) do everything for him around the house, and the longer i’m stuck here the more my savings have been depleting. it’s been hard to maintain life, let alone save up to start a new one.
i’m trying to get in with the local housing authority but that’s taking longer than i’d hoped. i want to seek a more proactive option, but until i can actually afford to pursue it, there’s little i can do.
tensions are getting worse and building now that he knows i’m seeing someone else. a dear long time friend of mine that he’s hated for years. so now his homophobia is coming front and center as well.
i am not safe.
please. help my kids and i get to a better life…
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i don’t really have a solid goal of how much i need at the moment, but as i know more i will make updates, thank you so much, please boost
🙏🙏🙏
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a little bit old art, I started drawing them in July but finally finished just now 😌 Anyway can u guess who I drew first and who last? I'm curious if my style even changed for this time
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[id : a digital drawing of virgil facing left so that we see his profile and most of his back on a neutral purple background. he has a loose mohawk with the tips dyed purple, his ears are pierced with spikes and loops. he is wearing a black spiked leather jacket, purple trousers with plaid patches and back and purple spiked high heels boots. /end id]
idea from this post @virgil-positivity
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Found this cute eye style I liked
Edit- coloured it!
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i saw your post about the dragon-wich on pinterest and i'm just- you wasted the opportunity to write 'truly a battle of epic portions' (idk how long ago that was done but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Oh scoots, you are correct! I have truly failed.
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Some Sanders Sides Icon to prevent art block-
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“And all I feel in my stomac is butterflies. The beautiful kind, makin’ up for lost time. Takin’ flight, makin’ me feel like. I just wanna know you better”
Human AU Logicality!! Sweet, sugary boys 💙
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POV; you have a cat named Virgil
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