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Why self-diagnosed autistics are valid
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medical diagnosis can be expensive
humans are the experts on their own minds
family may prevent assessment
diagnosis criteria is a poor checklist of stereotypes
diagnosis criteria ignores gender, race, sexuality, culture & more
medical diagnosis confirms autism, but doesn't create it
discrimination within the medical profession may prevent diagnosis.
Assessment waiting lists often long
medical trauma may make assessment unfeasible
Neurodiverse Journeys
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ajexists1214 · 2 days
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You know it’s a new kind of weird when you’re lonely yet surrounded by so many people
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ajexists1214 · 2 days
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Shut up-
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these spot the difference games keep getting harder and harder
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ajexists1214 · 2 days
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Hey. Hey you. The person aimlessly scrolling, stuck in an immobilized standoff with your brain
It's not your fault. You won't be stuck forever. I know you're trying. I know you hate it. It's ok.
And tell the Mean Voice in your head that it's not helping. It knows as well as you do that you would get up and Just Start the task if you could. You're not doing this on purpose.
Take a deep breath. Relax your jaw. I see you trying so hard to break out of it, but you can't force it. You'll get Unstuck eventually. All you can do in the interim is be kind to yourself.
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ajexists1214 · 2 days
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dan and phil vs their alien handshakes
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ajexists1214 · 2 days
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Autism acceptance includes accepting all autistic manners of communication.
That means supporting autistic people who talk in a "very childish" way. (I do this a lot irl)
Autistic people who do "TV talking" (this means talking like a character from your favorite media,basically talking in quotes and copying their speech patterns,as far as I know)
Autistic people who use echolia.
Autistic people who are very awkward/quirky when they communicate.
Autistic people who are overly technical,or have very sophisticated and articulate speech.
Autistic people who mumble.
Autistic people who talk really fast.
Autistic people who can't control their tone of voice/inflection.
Autistic people who talk in a monotone voice.
Autistic people who use different kind of sounds,or body language to communicate.
Autistic people who talk slowly and draw out their syllables.
Autistic people who use a lot of sentance fillers.
Autistic people who use Aac devices,communication cards,etc etc.
Edit: acceptance of nonverbal autistics is also necessary. Nonverbal people deserve love,respect,acceptance,accommodation and support.
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ajexists1214 · 4 days
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Like fine wine
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ajexists1214 · 5 days
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Dad Voice™
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ajexists1214 · 5 days
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One of my favorite things
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ajexists1214 · 5 days
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things that no one asked for but dan and phil still did: - hold hands for a prank video - mention how people want them to "fuck on youtube" (no one wants that actually) - tweet how WAD was emotional inducing - reply said tweet with a 🧡 - post a screenshot of the above interaction on yt with the caption "gay"
all of this in the span of 30 days.
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ajexists1214 · 8 days
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Going to Phil's to do the Laundry
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ajexists1214 · 8 days
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Happy Tony with his Kids
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ajexists1214 · 8 days
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hey… don’t cry… look… two seals kissing
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ajexists1214 · 10 days
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Zuko: There’s something off about her. I can’t explain it but she’s slipping. 
 Azula:
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ajexists1214 · 10 days
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-Phil Lester 2024
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ajexists1214 · 13 days
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