This might suck to hear, but if you're a people pleaser that is motivated by praise and avoids disagreements, you are easy to manipulate.
When I was in therapy after surviving years of domestic violence, my therapist had to tell me that my personality was primed for abuse and we needed to work on that so I would be better equipped to see the red flags and respond appropriately in the future.
I'm still working on this, and it's been 8 years. If you tell someone how you want to be treated, what behaviors you don't tolerate in your life, what you're looking for in that relationship, and they react negatively, don't compromise yourself. Just move on.
This one's for all the praise-kink girlies: differentiate, self-actualize, stay sexy
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I don't trust anyone who hasn't acknowledged their capacity for evil.
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please draw something bad. please make bad art. please do your worst sometimes. im serious. you might love it or you might laugh at how it came out. either outcome is good. enjoy yourself enjoy yourself love yourself
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Okay, I've gotten good at ignoring my group-members during PLCs where they start talking about AI, so I should hopefully be able to make it through the rest of the semester without incident--
"Hey, have you guys heard about using AI to make cover images and pictures?! It's so cool, look at this picture of Mark Twain teaching a class I made!"
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Anyone else need food every 3-4 hours like some kind of slut?
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comm for PeachiSky @ twt
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โno matter how badly you think youโre doing it, someone else has done it a lot worse and been fineโ is applicable to a wide, wide range of things and i say it to myself all the time
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*human beings seeing a variety of creatures and critters*
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Saying "no" is allowed, saying "no" is important, no matter how someone might react, it's not your job to make everyone happy and go along with every wish people have. Be ok with telling people no.
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why are people so mean to steampunk. what did steampunk do to you. are you too good for cogs? too good for goggles and a top hat? hmm??? bitch
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thinking about aus for ocs is so funny. like i already put this guy in a situation but what if i put them in another totally different one
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halo!!!
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Hamtaro's Day Out
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