i don’t flirt i just say weird shit until you tell me i’m pretty & wanna kiss me

this “job” stuff is sooooooo fucked up. i have to get out of bed? when it’s cold?

this too shall pass this too shall pass this too shall pass this too shall pass this too shall pass this too shall pass this too shall pass this too shall pass

I’m fine

i’ve known ever since i was a little girl that i wanted to be nothing at all

every time i make a mistake im like theyre going to put me down like a sick dog

snoopy in the reverse bear trap <3

I personally wanna see less 'you are not a burden/it's not work to love you' and more 'you are worth the work it takes to love you.' I KNOW I'm a burden sometimes. that isn't such a terrible thing! humans are strong. we can carry burdens. and it is work for me to be there for my friends, but it's work I'm willing to do.

we need to acknowledge this because pretending love isn't work will never make people like me feel less guilty for accepting love. we need to talk about it so people don't feel bad for having boundaries and not always being up to do the work. we need to accept it so we can properly appreciate what others do for us and what we're doing for them.

yes it does take work to love you. but guess what? you still deserve love, and you deserve people who are willing to do the work to love you. it doesn't make you bad. all love take work. and everyone is worth it.

Sophie Dahl, The Face 1997

Sophie Dahl, The Face 1997