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unspokensuggestion · 6 months
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unspokensuggestion · 9 months
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The OBSESSION with identity is so crazy like the view that when you do something it immediately becomes part of your identity and all the parts of you have to click together to become “person who wakes up early” or “person who reads” no you can literally just do something without restructuring your whole performance of personhood around it. I don’t know what to tell you except that you will never be able to have an entirely unfractured view of yourself or that you will be able to rationalize all the complex parts of yourself into the phrase “person who x” like you should just be doing things without performing them. Or aestheticizing them. Just try different things on and keep what works for you. Otherwise you will never learn and grow!
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unspokensuggestion · 9 months
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unspokensuggestion · 9 months
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anything that has the potential to improve your life involves risk. embrace it
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unspokensuggestion · 9 months
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growth requires risks and having your boundaries pushed, sometimes. Learn something new this month
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unspokensuggestion · 9 months
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that image that goes i want to do this. do it. but im scared. do it scared. changed my life
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unspokensuggestion · 11 months
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suggestion: love and be loved to your heart’s desire
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unspokensuggestion · 1 year
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Start making decisions based on who you want to be.
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unspokensuggestion · 1 year
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And in these next 50 years you will eat so many delicious meals, laugh so many times with so many people you love, shout and scream and sing and cry and smile so hard your face hurts. And you will see such beautiful sunsets and feel fresh cold air on your face and feel warm and safe wrapped up in your favourite winter coat.
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unspokensuggestion · 1 year
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Don’t wait for things to be perfect
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unspokensuggestion · 1 year
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you are worth more than your body, love.
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unspokensuggestion · 1 year
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how people treat you is not indicative of your worth
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unspokensuggestion · 1 year
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if being hard on yourself worked, it would have worked by now
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unspokensuggestion · 1 year
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you are not unloveable you are just sad and a little bit angry. let’s go have some soup
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unspokensuggestion · 1 year
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take up space. take some more.
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unspokensuggestion · 1 year
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Its okay if you dont have your whole life together by a certain age. Life is not a script you should follow in order to have everything be perfect (without it containing any changes whatsoever). You still have time to learn, you still have time to love, you still have time to find out, explore and see. Don't be afraid to take your time to achieve your goals and shape your life the way you want it, but also don't forget to stop and enjoy the beauty you might find on the way.
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unspokensuggestion · 1 year
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oh haven’t you heard???? things will get better and you will be okay
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