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“terfs want trans people dead”
No, we don’t. You don’t know the first thing about what we believe and you probably don’t want to. Sadly it’s more convenient for you if we’re evil, heartless monsters, but that’s not the truth. We don’t want you dead. We don’t want you assaulted or attacked or hate crimed. Some of us used to be trans and some of us are still battling gender dysphoria. We know your pain and we sympathize with you. Hell, most of us used to be trans activists before we became radical feminists. When you say all radfems want trans people dead, you might as well be saying all christians want gay people dead. It’s just not true.
What do we want?
We want female only spaces to be protected. We want women and girls’ sports to be protected. We want to call out and fight sex based oppression. We don’t want to be called bigots for being attracted to some people and not others. We want detrans people to be listened to and not ostracized. We want to protect trans kids, and part of that means being honest about the side affects of medications and surgeries. And at the end of the day,we don’t care how you dress or what you go by, we just don’t want you to force us to use language that we don’t want to.
Protecting female only spaces does not have to mean endangering trans people.
I want radical feminists and trans people to be able to have civil discussions. I want us to be able to work together to solve the problems in front of us. I want us to treat each other with respect. I want us not to argue, but to communicate.
If you see a radical feminist inciting violence or threatening trans people, please tell us. We do not condone that behavior and we will call it out when we see it, but you have to tell us. We can’t cut out the rot in our movement if we don’t know where it’s lurking.
I know this is kind of a long, rambling post and I apologize. I’m just so tired of the fighting, of the threats and the name calling. Can we at least try hearing each other out and treating each other with respect? Can we?
I’m probably going to take a break from radblr for awhile. I don’t know when I’ll be back, but I want all you fine ladies to know that I love you and I’m so glad to have met and interacted with you. You guys really have changed my life. Stay strong and always keep fighting, if not for yourself then for the women and girls that come after you. Goodbye for now 💜🤍💚
#sorry for the rant#terfs#terf#radfem#radical feminism#radical feminist#radical feminists#radical feminists interact#radical feminists touch#terfs do touch#terfs do interact
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Pinning my sources against the trans cult
Ex-Neo-Nazis:
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/673123043421437952/i-knew-several-white-supremacist-trans
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/672952605881860096
Competing against women in sports:
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/686973522467258368/auntiewanda-star-of-wormwood
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/675222930601476096/ilyjooe-femsolid-appropriately-inappropriate
Homophobic:
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/671867888441917440/no-one-is-forcing-gay-men-or-lesbians-to-date
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/669802177969192960
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/668880573490675712/holy-shit-theyre-so-fucking-annoying-lmfaoooooo
Criminals:
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/675593647490760704/old-school-butch-gender-critical-appspot
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/673854839453794304/rantingcrocodile-according-to-the-data-in-the
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/672791795041796096/catlovingradfem-swedepea-lesbian-lizards
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/671108631493804032/when-trans-women-achieve-big-things-are-succesful
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/671327543074357248/gcdk-salty-lesbians-celtyradfem
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/669157340251062272/listentotranswomen-when-trans-women-speak
Misogynistic:
All of the above:
https://transgender-harms-women.tumblr.com/post/156556887319/transgender-reality
https://opabiniawillreturn.tumblr.com/post/620547306024058880
https://madresident.tumblr.com/post/681471295721996288/expedientskies-nansheonearth
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Nearly 20 years later and I still can't wrap my head around the fact that this was an actual Spongebob scene.
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it’s always “op is a terf” but i see popular posts by rapists, pedophiles, fascists, conservatives etc on here and not a single person thinks to point that out.. so what, people with an actual history of persecuting minorities are less dangerous than women u disagree with?
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Hey, I’m looking for that cis/terf breeding facility fantasy tweet. Can you help?
I’m sure someone can
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me messaging a casual acquaintance: hello, how are you?
me messaging a best friend w/zero lead-in:
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Men will see a hobby that is mostly enjoyed by women and say hmm I fucking hate this stupid shit this is so childish and dumb
Men will see a fashion subculture that is mostly enjoyed by women and say hmm I fucking hate this stupid shit this is so childish and dumb
Men will see a field of work that is mostly enjoyed by women and say hmm I fucking hate this stupid shit this is so childish and dumb
Men will s
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Uh What? What, dry sex, what? Wouldn't that be painful for the woman? Men are such fucking sadists. De-lubricate to indicate chastity??? I want to kill.
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‘I don’t feel like a girl’ ‘I don’t feel like a boy’ well great they’re not feelings, now you can stop worrying about it ❤️
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‘I’m pretty sure that the majority of my sexual experiences in my teens and 20’s were done out of politeness’ says Maya, 28. ‘You end up in a situation where you’re worried about offending someone if you don’t go ahead – whether you’ve led them on or what they’ll think about themselves if you back out at the last minute. And in relationships, I’ve had sex when i definitely did not want to but just kind of felt bad about not doing it – what if the other person thought that i thought they were crap in bed or didn’t fancy them anymore?’
https://buff.ly/2nYA2lR
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sorry if this is a rlly rlly dumb question but i’ve heard a lot of ppl talk about men who were falsely accused of rape getting their lives ruined by the accusations, and i wanted to know your thoughts on this.
I’m here to take all questions, as long as the person who asks them is willing to listen and learn. So I hope you listen closely.
The most commonly cited figure says that 5% of rape allegations are false. This figure comes on studies done on college students, of which it is reported roughly 90% do not report their assault to the police. So, if we take the number of rapes that occur and the number of false accusations, that means false accusations occur at a rate closer to around .005%.
So then we must ask, what makes a rape allegation deemed ‘false’? The classic example in popular media is “young girl regrets sex, claims rape”. However, we’ve found in research that simply isn’t the case. What’s more common is a teen girls parent finds out she’s sexually active and files a rape claim, that qualifies as a false claim. Also common is grown adults caught cheating, rape claim filled, often then redacted when the truth comes forward. That counts as a false claim. You know what counts for the majority, though? Let me give you an example. In one case, the police determined that a rape had to be a false claim because people had seen the accuser let her eventual rapist help her take her ski boots off. This classified her claim as a false one. The police saying your claim is false gets it classified in those same fake rape accusation statistics.
So how many false rape claims lead to convictions? A study found that of 216 complaints later classified as false, only 6 led to arrest, and of those 6, only two faced charges. And then those charges were overturned. There is simply no evidence to support the idea that false rape accusations routinely result in serious consequences.
So then how do false rape reports compare to false reports of other crimes? Let’s run some numbers. Over a 25 year period, 52 convictions were overturned due to false rape claims. In that same 25 year period, 790 convictions were overturned due to false murder claims. So that means you’re about 15 times likelier to be falsely convicted of murder than of rape.
So in conclusion, false rape claims aren’t this massive issue people pretend they are. Additionally, if a man you know is acting very concerned that he’s going to get falsely accused of rape, you probably want to avoid being alone with him…these men don’t fear lies, they fear the truth of their actions. They fear accountability.
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