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Socialite series: mentality
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Here is a list of tips I keep pinned on my notes app.
You have to be competent in order for people to be jealous of you.  No one is going to be jealous of a lazy bum. Making people jealous isn’t the purpose of your life but it does indicate whether you’re successful or not. The better you are, the more haters you will have. Develop a strong sense of self esteem and get rid of your mediocrity.
If you weren’t invited, not informed or given a late invite - do not go. 
Nothing more embarrassing than showing up to an event where you weren’t invited. Now, if you were given a “pity invitation” don’t be rude in declining it. Be polite, cordial and respectfully turn it down.
Learn to be assertive without being aggressive and triggered. Keep a strong hold on your facial expressions and tongue. Raising your voice, rolling your voice, throwing insults only reflects badly on you. Learn to stay calm, cordial, facially inexpressive and poised during uncomfortable situations. You will be seen as someone with an upper hand because you’re clearly not falling for stupid shit and it’s very obviously beneath you.
Every group has the most influential leader. Figure that person out. See who people seek the most validation from, who makes the group decisions, who starts the gossiping - you found em. If you still can’t tell, there’s one more way - the most influential person is the richest or the prettiest in that circle. It’s normally one or the other. Even among rich circles, one person will stand out and people will lick her butthole if they could. I can give a solid example for this. A billionaire got married to his girlfriend, and she’s a part of my private business organisation. The rest of the members in our cohort are rude, indifferent, cliquey and snarky. However, when she enters the room, there is an instant reaction towards her - they all want to be friends with her, they’re nice to her, etc etc. She’s a lovely, sweet and pretty girl (thank God) but it just proves that even among the rich - the person with the most desired value (rich or pretty) stands out. The point being is this - if the most influential person tries you, nip that disrespect in the bud. Do not take shit from this person because the rest of the clique will follow suit. And keep the assertive point in mind.
Be open to different thoughts. But hold your ground and exude confidence. It’s okay if you don’t have an opinion on something. But if you do - don’t feel insecure in expressing it. I have a friend who’s really insecure. She often expresses her mind in a “questioning” way. for instance: a waiter was rude to her. She told us that story. But she seemed so hesitant: “I guess… he was rude??? I thinkkkkk he was rudeeee?” ‘I guess’ ‘I just’ ‘I think’ are what I call insecure statements. They make you look insecure and weak. A lot of insecure people tend to end their sentences in a questioning tone (pitch goes up instead of down). When you end your sentence with your pitch going down, you come across as confident.
When you are a beautiful, smart, well rounded woman, people crave for your validation. People want to be associated with you because it reflects well on them. Do not give your time or energy to bloodsuckers.
Be polite, NOT friendly. Don’t overextend friendship. You’re not their mommy. You don’t have to look out for people. 
Pretty privilege exists. Being skinny and pretty 100% changes the way people look at you. They will treat you with respect and kindness. 
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Actually the secret is to be crazy aggressive. The 'crazy ' is not a figure of speech I mean it in the literal sense you have to be mad and aggressive. Life is not won in the defensive. You don't win being cute and tiny and small. Life is won in the offensive, it's about deciding actually yes this is what I want and aggressively with everything you have and more and never ever taking the foot of the gas. Mediocre is the enemy. Average I can stand behind but mediocre, even Satan himself hates mediocre. Why would you choose something like that.
You set a goal. You lock in. You aim. You keep shooting from every angle every single possibility every resource every opportunity every investment it's chasing down every single chance there can be and if you find none you create your own, learn to recognize a niche.
You lock in. You aim, the only time you take your foot off that gas is when you've won.
Aggresively, like you will die if you don't. Any means necessary. That's really the secret. There's really no formula and no complications to it. No magic no manifesting pussi pawa no mumbo jumbo spirituality affirmation whatever escapism bs you're buying into. It's deciding this is what I want. From where I am, right now, what is the first step I can take? And once you do take that step, you never ever step back. It's that simple. It's crazy level work. It's four hours of sleep and forcing your anxiety and insecurities down and faking it till you make it.its the work ethic of housewives in the fifties. It's delayed gratification and milestones after milestones. It's God level resilience. It's grit. It's covering your bruised and enduring. It's pure madness, love. Psycho level obsessive possessive aggression. It's accomplish the mission or die trying.
Its. Accomplish the mission or die trying.
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“You can be be there for your friends for hard times but you cannot use them an emotional dumpster” - Katharina Leon. I had a young acquaintance who was very pretty and book smart. She was fascinating to talk to, boujee and we met at receptions and she managed to date an elite gentleman who even helped her get a better job. She was over the moon when I met her. Yes by this description she sounds fun.. but wait …
So as normal with boyfriends they broke up. He cheating on her because he was ugly and she was pretty. That typically happens in those situations. She thought she could have dated someone hot like her ex boyfriend and not gotten cheated on. She loved this man and all the doors she opened. This embassy secretary was living the Cinderella life and her boyfriend cheated on her. She confronted him and he broke up with her and friends in his network were cold to her at events. She was shut from his network and thought it was unfair.
I will call her Antoinella. So Antoinella was very upset and became emotional and thought she was deceived.. especially being ostracized by mutual acquaintances in his network because she confronted him on his cheating. It was ugly. He was much older than her and frankly a confirmed bachelor high value ladies avoided. But for her, he took her to places she could never go herself at the beginning of her career and buy her things she could not yet afford so she was mesmerized as a young lady.
Antoinella was devastated and outraged by this older affluent unserious gentleman’s cheating. He used money to substitute for looks. And by international standards it’s not much money at all. He simply had enough to take girls to glittering galas and hobnob and throw an occasional trinket, if he could to look good at a silent auction at a gala to make him look generous while delighting his date. He wasn’t taking her to resorts and cruises because he was so serious about her.
Antoinella didn’t read the room. She was friends with my friends and I enjoyed getting to know her before the cheating. Then she had a party and I went with my other friend who used to work at her embassy who was close to her. We all consoled her. Sadly this young girl was devastated she was to distracted at her job, took time off work and could not perform so she got fired. She went on employment insurance.
She thought it was unfair that she was being punished for cheating. She invited me and Alejandra over and again complain complain complain and complained to her friends from her network. She had a chic apartment, furniture from ex boyfriend. Within a month, lost boyfriend and job.
This created a spiral. So ladies gave her advice.. and instead of acting on the advice she had a beautiful party for her new roommate, now she had to have to pay the rent. She was upset people were not recommending her for a job because she has become so negative and no one wanted to introduce her. Her friends were saying sorry it was a bad job market. Alejandra pretended to be sick and it was half the people, gone were a lot of her successful friends who could help her.
She did find a less prestigious job that cut her access to events. She could go to some events as an embassy secretary. Her friends became scarce. She really took an interest in me and kept inviting me for coffee, but always negative, always complaining. Complaining about her roommate, her job, her ex boyfriend and how people were so unfair to her from all the cheating. I told her the book the Secret & Napoleon Hill would change her life. She was excited and I gave her a copy of The Secret.
The next time I saw Antoinella she complained about Alejandra, how her friends abandoned her and the ex how unfair it was and how terrible he was.. such a downer Debbie. I realize she was using people as an emotional dumpster and not giving anything back in return so even her loyal friends started to leave her so she developed a strong desire to befriend me because I was kind and patient unlike her friends.
Being autistic I know what it is like to be socially awkward and I was so grateful when people gave me pointers and sad how rare it was. Now I realize too people asking for advice just want an emotional dumpster and abuse this. Antoinella did the opposite of my advice. Alejandra simply avoided the topic of Antoinella. Alejandra was a diplomat from her country and later left to another posting in another country.
So when I saw Antoinella was using me as an emotional dumpster, as unfair as the cheating was, I had to put myself first and distance myself.
Life is unfair. We all have our problems. Before you can take away someone’s zen you better deposit a lot of value and it runs out quickly.
If downer Debbie was the prime minister people would find ways to tolerate her temporarily to milk something out of her.
Antoinella, our Downer Debbie, was always in a crisis after the breakup. So she burned her network by being an emotional vampire. There is a big reason that the majority of successful people in the West see a therapist.. because they don’t want to vent and emotionally dump on their friends because network is networth.
I notice Brokellas and Dustinas use friendship to build comradery by complaining. Marcus Aurelius said never be overheard complaining because you see it as weak.
If Antionella’s ambassador or head of trade at her embassy complained people would have all the time in the world for them but a secretary that types, photocopies and brings you coffee complaining? She is lucky to be there in the first place. Next.
The ambassador’s wife can be a Negative Natalie all she wants, employees will tolerate it but it would destroy her husband’s network unless she was the wife of the ambassador of China.. but it certainly would not grow it.
It’s important to understand we are energetic beings and women’s primary value is the energy we bring to the table. We must guard our softness with our life.
This means we dump emotional vampires. It also means we don’t complain about our problems to people we did not do favours for. And if we did favours for them, the can only be there for a crisis .. but we have to show we have learned. We can’t be entitled for people to rescue us if we keep having crises.
Honestly putting your foot down on people who are not aware how they affect your energy makes a big difference in your zen and gives you the energy to achieve your dreams.
Antoinella felt entitled to drain everyone because she felt wronged and the village her grandparents came from it was the norm. Where she grew up women would likely hang around together and complain about their husbands and children, complain complaint complain, complain about their job and reinforce the negative energy that keeps them at the bottom.
At parties elite women talk about the next vacation, the next party, how fabulous their children are, how wonderful their husband is and educated ladies would talk about cultural events, the latest book they read, philosophy, Chi Gong, Pilates, diet, self improvements, getting ahead in career or improving marriage. At the top the conversation is different and the vibe is different.
It’s unfair but money is attracted to money. Since elite ladies are not struggling to survive they are not busy venting unless they live in a harem.
Elite ladies understand energy even intuitively if not on an intellectual level and try to keep some level of positive energy to build resilience. We are not talking positive vibes only. Rather when you hear an elite lady complain it’s the human need of needing someone to be there in a rare crisis . High agency women take responsibility so we don’t have a crisis every day.
If an elite lady complains, she is having a rare difficult time or tries to warn you to avoid what she did. For example “Ritz in Europe is always lovely but I can’t believe how the service and decor is so meh that staying at the Four Seasons or even the Hilton was better. After Marriot bought them, avoid Ritz in North America. They have become the Chanel of hotels this side of the Atlantic.”
This person had a terrible experience for an expensive hotel and felt ripped off and wants to warn their friends. You don’t see them complaining every day.
However elite cut off Downer Debbie’s, Negative Natalie’s, and Perpetual Crisis Cathy’s
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It’s needed to self sacrifice for infants but once they are in elementary school you put yourself first. With grown ups you put yourself first so you don’t pour from an empty cup. As we witnessed with Princess Catherine’s cancer we are less physically and mentally strong than men. We have to be lazier. We have to be gold diggerish so we don’t feel bad that we made a sacrifice for him because hey he gave me something from Tiffany’s or a gold earrings for Christmas. I am against being a money vacuum cleaner of course. Stoicism teaches reciprocity. If you don’t watch out for reciprocity in your relationship you will resent people you love. If you sacrifice for your children they better do chores to help Team Family. They better help with cooking or cleaning the house or whatever work needs to be done. Relationships survive based on reciprocity and mutuality.. because people take sacrifices of good people for granted. If you say “if I give up this then you do that” you won’t resent people who you love. I have never resented my husband who I think is the most amazing man on earth and best husband. Been together 11 years, married almost 9, engaged for 10.
Reciprocity, mutuality, respect, fairness, and clear kind communication are the five things needed to prevent resentment. Marriage isn’t 50-50 but a barter agreement, I trade this for that.
Make sure all your relationships are fair to you and the other party, and pour into yourself first - the advice of stoics and then you will not resent the people you love.
Yes most women resent their spouses because they can’t keep the marriage fair, mutual and reciprocal, usually do to not understand themselves, being too agreeable, being ashamed of their needs and deepest desires and not knowing how to communicate them. Now I see why my therapist said we should write a book of how to be a perpetual honeymoon couple in marriage.. because most women go to the therapist to say these words. Jordan Peterson said women tend to be more agreeable than gentlemen and most of his work with female clients was assertiveness training and then their mental health, physical and other issues went away.
Ladies if you want to stay in love, pour into yourself first so that you don’t pour from an empty cup
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💕 There are men who enjoy investing in you.
💕 There are men who enjoy providing for you.
💕 There are men who enjoy maintaining you.
Don't listen to the ones who can't or won't treat you the way you want to be treated.
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Etiquette lesson: elite are quick to block. While I make exceptions mentoring I do block argumentative people because I value my time. Former Mrs Universe sports illustrated model who was my friend and pageant sister blocked me in my twenties and I learned the lesson. She was a big role model for her community with most of her Facebook fans she added were average age 15,16.
So she was going to a Beyoncé concert a year when Beyoncé pushed a sexually explicit record with a message inappropriate for especially younger teens. I told her don’t you think going there with posters, scantily dressed to support her with that song that she posted isn’t the best message for kids 13, 14, 15, 16 who follow you, don’t we have a responsibility towards them? She hit block.
Was it necessary for me to moralize and give unsolicited advice? No.
She had been promoted by her community and became a star while mine was too busy yelling at injustice for Palestinians to promote our youth. So she became a star while I was figuring my way through life before I had great accomplishments myself.
I was being anti seductive. I was listening to the progressive lies of my university. So this is how I alienated a friend who could have opened a lot of doors for me. No one wants to hear unsolicited advice. I give solicited advice to my mentees but if I give unsolicited advice to a random person who isn’t commenting on my relationship advice posts, they will feel judged. Middle class will try to repair the relationship and lower class will do that or start a fight.
The reality is successful people have more people wanting to be their friend than they have attention span for, so if you don’t make them feel awesome they block you. As I was not as famous and on the spectrum, high IQ, healthy friendships were a prize that I would try to make work if this was a person of quality being awkward. I would said I don’t appreciate unsolicited advice and if they accepted my boundaries instead of insisting on their point they would remain.
If they kept pushing something that I didn’t ask for, like Ariana Argentina that made me uncomfortable, blockety block.
Most highly successful people don’t give you second chances unless you have something they really want but have trouble getting themselves. Maybe we started relatively equal but then she shot far ahead of me with all the support we Arab women don’t have in our injustice obsessed Palestine obsessed community. My community squaders their youth to the altar of social justice.
So for this reason she was suddenly far ahead of me and could open doors for me but the only thing I could offer her is moral support. The moment my moral support came with unsolicited advice as rational and politely worded as it was. She hit block and surrounded herself with people who either could celebrate her or do something for her. She has a good life and actually a better quality life than me mentoring.
On YouTube I got so much unsolicited advice I learned to hate it.. especially trolls doing it passive aggressively and when a facebook lady adds to unsolicited advice who should know better I got upset and instead of blocking them simply stopped making videos.
It would take three work days to produce a video hurting soft life and I would get more criticism & unsolicited advice than gratitude. I loved making the videos but hated women’s trashy attitude.
Honestly I think Ashley Callingbull has a brilliant point about protecting zen, simply block people who give unsolicited advice. If they don’t make you feel good, put yourself first and just block people. Ladies should know to put someone else at ease and if you ask them to stop making you feel disrespected or uncomfortable or stop taking your free advice, commenting in your free posts then contradicting it in their social media - then why do you engage on mentorship posts if you don’t want to be mentored and message asking for mentorship, asking for advice and doing the opposite.
At this point I am distancing myself from anyone who asks for free advice in my inbox or in person and I bother helping them and then they go do the opposite. I feel upset like they wasted and disrespected my time.
The training wheels are coming off. If you don’t make me feel good, like Ashely Callingbull I will block to preserve my zen. She valued her time and I feel I spend too much time running a Kindergarten on my Facebook.
If I wrote something contradicting a socialite .. she would block me to maintain her zen. Academic discussions are done in a salon, not on one’s Facebook page.
Also I should be more respectful of opinions different than me. Lying to Democrat women that I always agree when half the time Trump is wrong and half the time Biden has been serving me well. Lying pains me but it’s the smart thing to do around emotional people. Politics can make people irrational and my life is so much better when I focus on my bag.
I may write a general explanatory post but some are my days of individual explaining. I will just hit block as often as Ashley Callingbull does.
Kristin Marie brought a brilliant point that I have too much patience that comes at my expense. I could be doing so much with the hours I try to teach people.
For example I wrote an essay about not being a feminist because that movement pretends to be girl power but is about turning us into 50-50 pack donkeys. One lady Princess Preeya wrote she was a feminist. I felt hurt that she didn’t read my previous essays and just went to contradict what I wrote. If I contradicted the private wall of a socialite unless we were best friends I would be blocked. That is the real world. Debates are only for university. Among people you don’t speak to exchange information but to build rapport and build relationships.
Socialites only have time to explain things to a couple people close to them but if are not their bestie they just walk away.
I am seriously considering doing what Ashley Callingbull does.
The real world is tough. Successful women put themselves first and guard their zen.
This is why it’s so important to learn social rules because elite ladies don’t give second chances and they will get tired responding to everyone in their large network.
I don’t want to be tough but I am exhausted with how many people I have to educate lately that took away time from other things. If you are asking for advice and mentorship, we are not your buddy and the payment for our time is don’t contradict us, try it out and if it works or doesn’t work tell us. Before you contradict us at least message us privately you tried our advice and it didn’t work.
Free advice isn’t free and the person giving it isn’t your buddy or equal in regards to advice. Basic respect is to not argue with the person giving you free professional advice and not contract them, and don’t message them for advice and then go to the opposite on your wall. Basically if someone gives you something free, respect them or they will walk away from you.
Reflecting on Ashley Callingbull, elite ladies are aristocracy not democracy. It’s not a place to debate opinions if you asked for advice nor should you debate with someone more knowledgeable but ask for expertise. The western school system fails people at this. Asian schools are not democratic, teach coding, math and hierarchy so their graduates are more in demand. In the West they lie that everyone is your buddy and then your boss hates you for knowing less than them but talking back when you don’t know what you were talking about.
Ashley Callingbull was a hard lesson that taught me the importance of being a lady and now that I am closer to position I am increasingly see the benefit in doing the same to ruthlessly protect my zen because it’s all I have. Princess Catherine’s stress induced cancer was a wake up call.
I am still on the fence about being more ruthless at blocking but if I don’t feel respected I will start doing it. Again I will follow the Callingbull rule: if you added a lot of value in the group I will private message before blocking. She works things out for people who do things for her or very close people and it’s a block for the rest.
What do you think of this ladies. Since I am asking you, this advice is solicited and welcome and if I don’t ask it isn’t. Do you think it’s too much for someone mentoring because Ashley and I were friends not mentor mentee. Do you think it’s too harsh for someone taking on the responsibilities of mentoring or is it important to do this to remain soft?
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i just want to be a better woman. upgrade my vocabulary, my lifestyle, how i handle people + situations. i am focused on positivity and growth. i don't want any distractions or negativity around me while i am on this evolving journey.
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I believe the trick is to simply not associate with men unless they are mentors or even better - sponsors.
Mentor -> Takes you to exclusive events, introduces you to high profile individuals, shares his expertise with you, … à la don’t let your boyfriend prevent you from finding your husband.
Sponsor -> Has all the qualities of the mentor + funds your dreams and lifestyle + romance aka husband material.
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on #finance my mentor sent me this wonderful PDF this morning and this section had me rethinking my whole life
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screaming crying throwing up etc because I did the math and miss ma'am the writer is so painfully on point with her numbers. I hadn't thought of this before but now makes sense why all the gurus say invest in your twenties.
Why? Compounding needs time.
I started investing in my teens, fifteen to be precise when I came into contact with the idea of longterm investments (after falling for a number of ponzi schemes, to be clear) with give or take 1000$ in my first year. That one investment compounded over the rest of the years plus covid to single handedly support my survival and I live in a very expensive country. Very, very, expensive. I took a look at the numbers this morning and girl. Girl.
The skill is investing, and when I say skill I mean it's a trial and error. No one gets it right the first time and there is no one size fits all. Whether it's MMFs or RIETs or S&P 500, treasury Bonds,the stock market or real estate (directly) or directly into a business as a primary investor, there is no one size fits all for finance. You kiss as many frogs as you need to get to your prince, and sometimes the frogs are the dukes and barons to get you to your prince. Investing is a skill, its a trial and error and sometimes you lose sometimes you gain, sometimes you - you know what Warren Buffet said. Ignore the numbers and learn the game.
The secret though is compounding.
Ill go into depth on my BMAC with this (unfiltered membership) since I'm dedicating this year to personal finance I will be bringing you with me and teaching you everything I learn (once more, most of my energy will be going to BMAC). Stick around we are getting to the real practical part of leveling up. Theory has had its time.
Back to the issue at hand, miss ma'am the writer is so on point I can't believe I never noticed this before. The game is compounding and it's run by time. Let's do the math, right? Let's say you have 1000 to an investment that compounds 10% after tax at 20 yrs old. No withdrawals, direct reinvestment you'd compound to at least (not accurate) 870.6 in interests in only six months. If you know anything about compound interest you know that's roughly 2000 give or take in interest only in your first year, which means by your second year you're compounding 3000 in January, do the math. Do that math for ten years, that's how much you'll be worth in passive income at thirty, if you start at twenty. You diversify your portfolio and have say, four different avenues, let's talk about how much you have post tax in a decade (30) from 4000.
Now calculate how much you'll be worth at 30 if you start investing, same numbers at twenty seven.
Time. The investors best friend, is time. Jim Simmons is the investing genius, a hundred times the investor Buffet is, and he's worth less than buffet. Why? Time. He started late. Compounding is a game of time, not skills. That Chanel bag is cute but have you tried your hand at S&P 500? Personal finance is personal, either you take charge of your money or you lose it. I'm not new to personal finance but I just started getting aggressive with it, this will be a wonderful ride. Like I said, most of it will be over on BMAC (Unfiltered).
Start as early as now.
To be clear, I'm not some finance Guru, I'm also learning. Just bringing you with me.
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Firstly, to preface, no matter what our positions are— from housewife, to corporate lady and everything in between— I have respect for everyone here. We are making the effort to improve ourselves and honor our femininity each day in a world that is making every effort to stomp out traditional values. And this matters more to me than job titles or any of that nonsense.
For us working women, here is some insight on how to best stay feminine while doing so:
🌸 working based on your cycle: 🔑 🔑Women’s body’s are not built to function around the 9-5 workday like men’s are. Due to hormonal fluctuations we have inconsistencies in our energy levels. I understand that if this information were common it would lead to discrimination. Women create amazing things that are in many cases beyond the scope of men. But, we need to respect our bodies and understand when the output is too much. During our cycle, we have the lowest energy and during ovulation the highest. I recommend all women understand and learn more about their unique cycles but that’s for a different topic.
🌸 self care: You need to prioritize self care no matter what. Most workplaces will replace you in a heartbeat, when you spend years building up stress on your body to work for them. Make sure you have at least a couple hours each week for a pampering day. Your self care needs to take precedence, if you need to use a sick day or PTO so you can pamper yourself, always do it!
🌸After work time: since we have limited time we need to be very careful about how we are using our free time. Having a monthly, weekly, and daily schedule are essential. Mapping out what needs to get done and when will help immensely. Also it will help you make time for your family, hobbies, self improvement and dating!
🌸“quit quitting” which is to basically do the bare minimum to stay afloat in your job while still keeping employment. I know it’s used in a quite negative manner, but it is helpful to know exactly the amount of work you need to do at minimum.
🌸pick your role/ industry strategically: I currently work from home for a non-profit. I am not making a high salary by any means but I am comfortable and I work in a low stress environment. I have experienced a lot of industries from service to sales, and this work from home position has been very manageable. These days businesses are what makes money. Of course there are the outliers, but given the infinitesimally low supply and exorbitantly high demand for corporate positions that make someone wealthy, climbing the ladder has a low chance of making someone truly rich. I could have a much higher paying position but I’d be aging myself years due to the stress.
🌸You can always make more money, but restoring your health is far from guaranteed. Also, hypergamy is a better use of our time because it leads to something mutually beneficial= a happy husband, family, and self, which in turn improves the community. I truly believe the value of a HVM goes far bayond his wallet but I would rather get my financial support by a loving partner than by an employer that wants to work me to the bone.
🔑 takeaways: always make self care a priority DO NOT EVER sacrifice your health for your job, make time to organize and prioritize your life, hypergamy is more valuable than a promotion.
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