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akindplace · 2 years

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You are not "wasting your potential" because you took a break, or because you're exhausted, sick or because you are struggling to find purpose. Please, take some time off, take care of yourself, listen to the needs of your body and your mind. Do the things you want to do to make you happy and fulfilled, not what others think you should, not what's more successful in their minds. You aren't wasting your life, nor wasting your potential. You are still deciding how to live it, what is the purpose of it, and you will find motivation to fight for what you want when you figure yourself out, but please take your time and don't listen to the pressure of people around you to comfort to their expectations of success.

#success #expectations #self-acceptance #self-care #take a break #rest #self-worth #self compassion #pressure #suggestion #validation #figuring life out #finding yourself #original writing #you are valuable #moving on

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aestheticemi01 · 2 years

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In case nobody has told you this, yet;

You did a great job today🌱

You tried your best and that is more than enough🍃

Even if you feel like you did not achieve everything you wanted today, you still showed up and tried your best. That is all that matters right now🌿

Showing up and trying is a huge achievement! You really don’t have to give it 100% all of the time, if you feel too exhausted to do so. It is totally okay to “only” do 20%, 10%, 5% or even 1%… Progress is progress and what matters is that you are trying🌸

You are very brave. Thank you so much for still being here🌏

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asvospace · 5 days

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sophieswundergarten · 9 months

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Hey!!

Just a reminder, but you are IMPORTANT and VALUABLE and LOVED!

Yes, YOU, reading this right now. I may not know you personally, (Although if I do I consider myself most wonderfully blessed and lucky and am very grateful) but I am making the choice to love you

On purpose, right now, I am choosing to love you because you exist and that makes you deserving of kindness

#Just in case anyone forgot!!#You ARE important #You ARE valuable #And you ARE worthy of love #No matter what

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justseveralowls · 1 year

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A message as we reach toward the midpoint of the semester

It's okay to be tired

Take a deep breath, you're doing so well

Your grades don't define you

Your best doesn't mean pushing yourself to burn out

Your GPA doesn't define you

I believe in you

Take time to care for yourself, acedemics are temporary you have your brain and body forever.

You are strong, so be strong enough to be kind to yourself

#acedemics #university #self help #self care #self awareness #burnout #mental health #self love #you are valuable #midterms #student #kindness #self compassion #i believe in you

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bones-and-earth · 2 months

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Frustrated that I have to say this so many times but:

Someone’s value or inherent worth is not determined by their occupation or productivity. Their value is determined by their actions, contributions and good deeds.

We live in an inherently productivity, work driven and ableist society. Someone’s inability to maintain a steady job due to disability, physical or mental does not determine their worth! To believe so is incredibly misguided and ableist. There are many ways that people contribute to society that isn’t focused or based on occupation! Disabled people are not a burden to society!! They are people, they have just as much worth as anyone else!

Someone needing help or accommodation in order to live in a manageable way, someone who can not work because it would either be physically or mentally painful/difficult to a large extent still has immense value!! And before you argue that since you possibly had to deal with pain to a large extent whilst working please think…while it is unfortunate that you have suffered , if you don’t want to suffer than why should anybody else suffer? Yes it isn’t fair that you had to suffer just to live or scrape by in this world - so why would it be fair for anyone else to deal with the same thing!?

Please remember to be kind, educate yourself, listen to the marginalized, and bring attention to marginalized voices!

- Sincerely a disabled punk.

#disabled #actually disabled #possibly autistic #mentally disabled #physically disabled #disabled punk #punk #please uplift marginalized voices #disabled rights #disability rights #you are worthy #you are valuable #actually chronically ill #chronic illness #chronic pain #educate yourself #listen #punk community #disabled community

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chronicallyillteengirl · 2 years

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Ik this might look a bit cringe but it's true!! You're not alone and YOU ARE WORTH IT. If anyone needs to talk my DMs are open :))

Dw followers I will soon go back to posting mu delusional female hysteria visions.

#pro recovery #you are not alone #positive affirmations #you are valuable #wholesome memes

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uniquely-annabella · 7 months

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Volume up & keep on keeping on because all females are doing amazing & changing the world by just being themselves 👏👏👏

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dramoor · 3 months

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#child's wisdom #love #You are valuable

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fizzlepopcreationz · 26 days

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keep going

#keep going #you are loved #you are valuable #you are worthy of being here #don’t lose hope #art #inspiring words #hopepunk #hopecore #sewer slide #sewercide #hopelessness #depressiv #self love #self compassion #lgbtq artist #trans artist #my art #primary colors

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soltalks · 2 months

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Just a little reminder for you on this day of love and friendship #valentineday that no matter what your relationship status is #youarenotalone #youareenough #youareloved #youareworthy #youarevalued and #iloveyou

#valentines day #you are loved #you are beautiful #you are not alone #you are enough #you are worthy #you are valuable #you are valid #i love you

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aestheticemi01 · 2 years

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In case someone needs to hear this today;

You are not selfish for prioritizing your mental health

Your health is very important

You and your well-being matter so much

You cannot keep on pouring from an empty cup. You need to fill up your own cup in order to be able to help other people. Always help yourself first

You can’t (and shouldn’t) be productive 24/7. Give yourself time and space to rest. Your body and mind NEEDS it

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mycptsdstory · 2 years

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Stop comparing Trauma to someone else's.

I don't care how much someone has gone/been through. I don't care that YOU think your trauma is less than.

IF you feel hurt, then you are hurt.

IF you feel pain, then you are in pain.

IF you feel you've been through something traumatic, then it's traumatic for you.

No pain, no trauma is less than. Stop!

You are still valuable and you are still worthy. Stop thinking you are less than. You deserve so much more than that.

#adult advice #stop comparing pain #stop comparing Trauma #advice #life advice #cptsdhealing #living with cptsd #cptsd problems #cptsd thoughts #actually cptsd #just cptsd things #tw cptsd #actually ptsd #cptsd tag #cptsd vent #you are valuable #you are valid

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idontknowreallywhy · 1 year

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Best Jupidad Moments #5 Nevermoor Ch 8 - What is honesty anyway?

One thing I find fascinating about the Nevermoor series is how the author treats the concept of honesty, truth and provision of information as a right, both on a society level and, as here, within Family. It would be easy to say “love and respect must = full disclosure of all relevant facts and 100% brutal honesty. End of.” After all, who is a better judge of what a person “needs to know” than that person themselves?

Easy to say, that is, until you have a child to look after who asks questions and you often find yourself having to figure out what is helpful for them to know now and what you should withhold because they aren’t ready / they need to discover and understand some other things first / their life doesn’t need to be tainted yet with the full knowledge of how messed up the world is / it’s just going to be a distraction from what they need to know right now etc etc.

So how does our Jupidad tackle the difficult questions?

‘What’s my knack?’ she demanded.

‘Good morning to you too.’

‘Good morning,… ... ‘What’s my knack?’

‘Mind if I nick a pastry? I’m famished.’

‘Help yourself. What’s my knack?’ Jupiter stuffed his mouth full of pastry while Morrigan watched him and fretted.

‘I’m right, aren’t I?’

Jupiter swallowed. ‘Before I forget – my seamstress is coming to fit you for a new wardrobe this morning. What’s your favourite colour?’

Jupiter isn’t daft, he must have know this question was coming because while he was away, Morrigan would have been asked by everyone she met what her knack was (didn’t take Frank long). So you’d think he’d already have had a plan of how to answer it, but he starts by stalling, and then tries to distract / change the subject! Is it just Wunsoc instinct to control the conversation? Has he just lost his nerve, or has her direct approach thrown him off his game? Is he just tired and hungry and not quite ‘on it?’

It was the most dishevelled she’d seen him. He was barefoot and wore a wrinkled, untucked white shirt over blue trousers with braces that hung down untidily against his hips. Morrigan realised they were the clothes he’d worn the day before. She wondered whether he’d slept in them, or hadn’t slept at all. His eyes were closed against the light, and he looked as if he’d happily sit there all day.

I like to think maybe he didn’t exactly know what he was planning to say when he knocked on the door. That he didn’t actually prepare quite as much as maybe he should have BECAUSE he just went straight there after getting back from wherever he was called to because he was excited to see her, wanted to spend time with her, check how she was, maybe finish the tour he started the day before…

She groaned. ‘Jupiter!’ ‘Oh, all right.’ He leaned against the wall and slid all the way down to the floor, stretching his long legs out on the rug. ‘If you want to talk about boring things, we’ll talk about boring things.’

Part of me wonders if all of this is just his very laboured way of trying to make his point that this knack business isn’t the most important thing about her, that in his eyes it isn’t the only thing that would give her value? By acting completely unbothered about it I guess he’s hoping she’ll decide it’s fairly unimportant. Bit of a misfire because of course as soon as you tell an 11 year old something isn’t important and they shouldn’t worry about it… pretty much they are going to. And she’s already realising from her conversations with others that to most people the knack is *everything*.

I wonder how the story would have panned out if he had told her at this point what made her different? If he’d got in there first before she found out much more about “The Wundersmith” and how everyone was terrified of the concept? Would she have coped with hearing all that knowing she was one herself? Or did she need a good few months of being loved and treated as a normal (non-cursed) human before she’d be strong enough to believe she could rewrite the wundersmith narrative in her own, positive, way? Reading this chapter I’m frustrated with Jupiter along with Morrigan, but can’t help thinking he did make the right call on day 2 after all.

‘How do I win?’ ‘You just need to trust me. Do you trust me?’ Jupiter’s face was earnest and open. Morrigan nodded without hesitation. ‘Then let me worry about the Show Trial. I’ll tell you when you need to start worrying. I promise.’ It was an odd feeling to trust a stranger she’d met two days ago. But Morrigan felt somehow it was hard not to trust Jupiter. (He had, after all, saved her life.)

For a kid who has been so badly treated, she does trust quite easily (not only Jupiter but Mr Jones too). She’s possibly still at the stage where she is going to trust anyone who isn’t overtly awful to her. Even so, I do think there is something inherently trustworthy in Jupiter because of how he’s acted so far, beyond just the life saving part, and also she’ll have picked up on his employees’ view of him too.

‘Is being cursed my talent? Do I have a knack for … making things go wrong?’ Jupiter looked as if he was about to speak, then snapped his mouth shut. Thirty seconds passed during which he seemed to have a brief but lively argument inside his head.

I’d love to know what happens in Jupiter’s lively head-argument! But I also love the fact that Jessica leaves this for us to guess. I suspect what I imagined when I first read it might be different to what I think now, having read books 1-3 an embarrassing number of times. And it may change again. I’m not going to say what I currently reckon because I think having that gap for the reader to fill with their own impressions is really valuable.

However what we do know is this - he doesn’t answer immediately. He could - we know he’s a quick thinker and we know the Jove one-liner is legendary (see: everything with Flintlock!). Our Jupidad knows this is a really pivotal moment, that what he says here could make or break her, could form part of her inner monologue for the rest of her life. So he doesn’t respond with a throwaway line. He stops, he thinks, he makes her wait… and then gives a considered answer. Not only is this excellent parenting but it’s modelling exactly what she will need to do in the book trial in a few weeks.

Then at the conclusion of his considered answer, This:

You forget it,’ he said. ‘You forget it, from this moment on. Do you understand? You are not a curse.’

‘Yeah, okay.’ Morrigan rolled her eyes and tried to turn away, but Jupiter took her face in his hands and held on fast.

‘No, listen to me.’ His wide blue eyes burned into her black ones. Righteous anger rolled off him like heat from the pavement in summer. ‘You asked me if your talent is being cursed? If you have a knack for ruining things? Hear me when I tell you this: you are not a curse on anyone, Morrigan Crow. You never have been. And I think you’ve known that all along.’

I wonder if the reason this passage is so universally loved is that so many of us desperately need to hear (and believe) this for ourselves?

You may not have literally been told you were a curse like Morrigan was, but life events, the words and expectations of other people, or the disappointed facial expression of somebody you barely knew (or worse that you do) sit on you like a cloud and eat away at your self-esteem and sense of worth.

Maybe it’s depression, which I know from experience can be a constant disparaging voice mocking your attempts to believe in your own value?

Maybe you don’t fit in any of the myriad artificial boxes society keeps throwing at us to keep us predictable, controllable.

Maybe you feel stuck in a box that confines you.

Maybe you feel nobody has ever truly understood you.

Whatever it is that you wear like a heavy cloak, hear me when I tell you this:

You are not a curse on anyone.

You never have been.

You have great value and a unique and beautiful contribution to make to this crazy world.

#nevermoor #jupidad #jupiter north #morrigan crow #wow this got long #The end is the most important #you are valuable #Well that got deep #Feel free to add any moments I missed!#Yes two of those quotes are out of order but it is what it is

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thehareswears · 2 months

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Your account is seemingly a coping mechanism, but regardless, I appreciate you putting your thoughts out there. That’s not easy to do for everyone. Your experiences are valid—I know you don’t need my validation for that to be true, but I also know “hearing” it can be cathartic. I see you and you are not alone.

I've been keeping this in my asks because I like looking at it when I feel a little low, I'm posting it now so that others can read it and enjoy as well

It is cathartic to read those words and know that they're true

Thank you anon, this warmed my soul

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selflove-selfgrowth · 1 year

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