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#yes I'm demisexual
poopraven · 1 year
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Hello and welcome to asexual awareness week. Let me introduce Quentin, the demisexual psychokinetic earl who is simultaneously a soft cinnamon roll and also an absolute beast.
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If you like The Tarot Sequence, White Trash Warlock, Widdershins, or Soulbound, why not give Inheritance a try? Start with Jack of Thorns.
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HEY YOU do you like fantasy books that are PRETTY HECKIN' GAY? Do you like it when CHAOTIC DISASTERS have BARELY-CONTROLLED SUPERPOWERS and EVEN LESS CONTROLLED PERSONAL LIVES? Do you have a yearning for HORRIBLE TRAUMA interwoven with KINDNESS AND COMPASSION?
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CWs include: On-page intimacy, addiction, drug use, overdose, sexual assault, childhood sexual abuse, incest, gaslighting, bullying, coercive control, kidnapping, domestic abuse, bigotry, torture, post-traumatic stress, therapy, violence, peril, and death.
-- AK
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jaegerisim · 2 months
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GUYS THIS IS ME COMING OUT AS DEMISEXUAL <3
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Ahem *puts on best "ok people listen up" tone*
Good Omens (and everyone else) fandom! It seems we have regressed a bit....somehow? On the definition of Asexual! Let's clear this up!
Yes the actual literal meaning of the term: A=no sexual =....sex....well but actually no, which is the point of the post
Dictionary definition is why we are here!
Asexual: a person who experiences no sexual feelings or desires, or who is not sexually attracted to anyone.
Note the last line please!
Asexuality is a spectrum.
On one side you have: I cannot become sexually aroused by anything, and in some cases I do not want to
And on the other you (might) have: Literally any other stimulation other than A Face will do just fine!
Asexuals can be turned on by: the written word, a comic, a scene in a movie/show/porn/irl/etc, physical contact, etc!
There is a difference between attraction and desire! Allosexuals usually have that lumped into one thing, to them there (usually) isn't one without the other! If you're attracted to someone it means your body is uh...also good to go. For a lot of asexual people you can be attracted to someone, but your body's just off reading a book or something
Asexual people have crushes, fall in love, comment on how aesthetically pleasing someone is! But they probably don't want to jump their bones like right now (or possibly ever! Depends where you fall on the spectrum!)
You might say: no but! You're talking about demisexual people!
Maybe! Probably not! Demi is just a place way to one side of the spectrum. Where, after getting to know someone really well, you may actually look at them one day and go...."oh shit! Hi down there when'd you wake up??" Your attraction and desire have fused for this person/s...congrats!
An asexual person may never ever want to have sex with their partner. This is fine! But it needs to be discussed between everyone near the start of a relationship. And people need to acknowledge that "once you've found The One everything will click!" is pretty deeply internalized. Be sure you truly understand that that's not (necessarily) the case before commiting to a relationship
An asexual person may absolutely want to (awesome!), but have a hard time getting things moving (put down the damn book there are things to do!!) In which case it's good for all parties to see if they can figure out what sorts of things do turn you on, (as long as you're both willing and able), and how to approach letting your partner/s know they'd like to initiate fun times. (Without it coming across as awkward or pushy!) This makes for a healthy relationship!
"I'm doing this only to please my partner" is not healthy! It's also a really condescending thing to say about all asexual people! Please stop!!
And yeah an asexual person may indeed realize they're demi after starting a relationship! Neat!
Sexuality is like gender. It's all made up because we like labels! Your bits know what they want, when they want it! (Your brain ofc has the final say, I'm very well aware that bits go way off the rails sometimes, that's an entire other post lol)
Other people do not get to dictate how you feel, and like gender it can take a while to realize what your orientation may be. And that label can change so many times over the course of your life!!
Love who you love, have sex with who you (and they) want to have sex with, or don't!! But stop telling other people what they are and are not, simply because your definition or experience is different from theirs
(Please let me know if I've left out something crucial or gotten something horridly wrong! My research is personal/others experience + tumblr explanations + a google search here and there. Please do not come in my replies/comments/inbox telling me the whole post is wrong.....that's petty)
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themoonmothwrites · 5 months
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Hi friends, this is your reminder that unless someone explicitly states their sexuality, you can't actually tell just from looking at them. Doesn't matter who they're married to, or who they've dated in the past.
Don't be a biphobic silly billy :)
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every time there’s a fictional situation where anyone’s like “wouldn’t it be better if these two just stayed platonic friends?”, my answer is literally always NO
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the-private-eye · 3 months
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WHAT IS KISSING. I DON'T- I DON'T UNDERSTAND. IT SEEMS SO SWEET BUT AT THE SAME TIME IT MAKES NO SENSE OF WHY SOMEONE WOULD GO: MMMMM LIPS"
Like WHAT?????
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💛Smoshblr December Asks Day 1💙
Who are your top 3 cast members, that you always hope to see in a new video?
oh hi !! well.
i will actively click off a video if i want to see spencer agnew and my guy isn't there.
i will watch a video just for the honor of looking at olivia sui.
if this were months ago, i would have said jackie uweh. in our time of great loss (and great gain for jackie i hope she's having a fucking blast), i would probably say tommy bowe.
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hoperays-song · 10 months
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How can I be homophobic?
Johnny: Dad, are you homophobic?
Marcus, just trying to cook dinner: *sighs* Number one, you’re gay. 
Marcus, points to Nooshy on the couch: Number two, I have a lesbian child.
Nooshy: *waves*
Marcus, gesturing at a family photo: And number three, your uncle’s bisexual and your mom was omnisexual. How can I be homophobic lad? Please, tell me.
Johnny, holding up his hands defensively: Just making sure!
Marcus, shaking his head: Sometimes Johns, I worry about you.
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jasontoddssuper · 10 months
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I take back what i said about hating skaters,i just imagined transfem!Percy as a skater girl and got a lil flushed emoji
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hazmatazz · 1 year
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y'all's gender ever boy (public), girl (private)
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dootznbootz · 3 months
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Thank you for the ace content btw. Cookie for u
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Of course! :D Thank you so much! (I love frosted cookies too so it's perfect >:D ) I mean it's a part of me and it's nice to talk about! I know there's a lot of arophobia and aphobia right now and it makes me sad that it's happening again. I hope we can go back to our silly memes and our experiences in the tag again!
Honestly, there's a lot of truth to the whole "If you're ace/aro/etc. your faves are now like that." because it's so hard to understand that type of attraction, and since aspec/arospec people are on a spectrum it can really fit anyone >:D
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venulus · 1 year
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Giles and Leo are two of my faves... this is bad.
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highflyartist · 1 year
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Bruh I just realized that Ace Week is also for Demisexuals-
Uhhhhh.
Okey. -draws something random-
Here we go!
HAPPY ACE WEEK!
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geekns · 1 year
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You can’t be Christian and a ‘bisexual’ you disgusting sin riddled mutt. Repent and fix yourself or you will NEVER see the light of Heaven. Pig.
If you actually read my profile you will see that I'm not bisexual, I'm bambi bi. Or I guess it's called squirrel bi according to some? Which means "biromantic" not "bisexual." And right next to that it currently says that I'm ace, though it's said demi in the past because I'm hoping that I'm actually demisexual and will actually fall in love with a Yah-fearing man and will desire to have sex within marriage. You obviously do not understand at all what I am communicating, but I will explain it once again.
Straight up: I am a VIRGIN. I've only been kissed a couple of times and it grosses me out. However, a fellow Christian, who is Chinese and female, was friends with me in Japan and she would hold my hand, walk arm in arm with me, lean on me when we sat together, etc. This is called "skin sisters" in Korean. There is nothing sexual involved. These are socially acceptable ways for girls to be affectionate with one another that part of the world. Get your mind out of the gutter, perv.
If you actually read the Bible, you will discover that we are all sinners. Also portrayed and encouraged: John leaning his head against Jesus' breast during the Last Supper, greeting people with a holy kiss, etc.
I've already repented, repeatedly, of any sins that the Lord has seen fit to convict me of. However, showing platonic affection towards males and females alike does not seem sinful to me. Do you have a verse to back up your accusations?
TLDR: you don't have the right to judge me, my Heavenly Father is aware of my heart's condition, you aren't.
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becaexists · 1 year
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I know I'm demi but jesus will someone just kiss me just to kiss me, take me in their arms so I can, for just a moment, forget how dark and cold it gets, and be the last shred of truth in the lost myth of true love?
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So in the span of 18 hours I have said both the most asexual thing I've said in months, and the least asexual thing I've said in months
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