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arielleslipgloss · 1 month

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i feel like i am less important than other ppl. oe that i dont matter , inferior something like that :(

Hii doll!! Tysm for asking me this 💗

Let’s Talk Self Worth!!

”I just take a book with me everywhere. It’s a habit.” - Rory Gilmore

Why do you feel this way? Well, the root cause is most likely your surroundings. Those around you, social media, and maybe yourself? Maybe others make you feel unimportant? Maybe social media is telling you others are more important? Or maybe your just always judging yourself? If not, take a moment to think of when you started to feel this way. Then, why you started to feel this way. You can journal this in a notebook or your notes app. Now, describe the wave of emotions you get when feeling this way. Let it all out, it’s ok. Lastly, think of how you can heal from this!

2. Mentality!! Let’s say you get bullied, harsh things are said to you I would believe. The people bullying or saying mean things to you, say you’re “unimportant.” Then those words go to your mind and you start to believe them. Next thing you know more negative words are said. So, your brain continues to believe them as if their affirmations. Your brain now doesn’t even have a say in what you think about yourself. Why? Well, because now you only live by your bullies words. What your bully thinks of you, is how you think of yourself. Now, do you really want to live your life like that? I would hope the answer is no. Ok, so you need to work on becoming secure in yourself. So secure in yourself that when someone says something about you. Guess what, YOU DON’T CARE. You need to start living by your words (and Jesus’s) instead. For example, you like your hair and someone else doesn’t? So what! You go rock that hair of yours cause you like it!!!

3. Stop Comparing Yourself!! Not everything you see and hear is real. Not everyone tells the truth. Plus, what’s the point in comparing yourself to someone your whole life? There is none. What there is, is your older self disappointed thinking back to you now. Not only your older self, your younger self too. They wouldn’t want to see you comparing yourself. I would hope, your present self doesn’t want to be comparing yourself too. In my opinion, comparing yourself is a waste of youth. You spend your whole day, week, month, year, life wasting youth. It’s pointless because it really doesn’t get you anywhere. It just continues to make you more insecure. Therefore, remove what you can that makes you compare yourself. A little example would be deleting social media! If you can remove it from your life, do it.

4. Stop Punishing Yourself!! In other words, stop being so hard on yourself. Just because you got a bad grade isn’t an excuse. Just because you did something “embarrassing” isn’t an excuse. In fact, there is no excuse for punishing yourself. Be nice to yourself instead. You deserve so so sooo much love from yourself. For that reason, give all of that love to yourself. Leave that mistake in the past. Learn to embrace your mistake too. It’s ok, you’ll be ok.

5. You’re Only Human!! If there is one thing I want you to remember from this blog. It’s that you are only human. You can’t be “perfect” and you can’t be happy all the time. Your feelings and struggles are important. We all deal with a bunch of things everyday. It’s in our nature to feel this way at times. Maybe you feel this way more than others, and thats ok. You are only human. Maybe you act different than others, and thats ok. You are only human. Maybe you hate your life, and thats ok. You’re only human. Maybe you can’t do things others can, and thats ok. You’re only human. Maybe you struggle with healing, and thats ok. You are only human. You are only human, imperfectly perfect. You can really only choose to love yourself and have fun. Oh, and remember that you’re only human.

Love you so much dolls!! Remember God loves you and stay pretty 💋🎀

“If you’re gonna let one stupid prick ruin your life, you’re not the girl I thought you were.” - Holland Taylor/Professor Stromwell (Legally Blonde)

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knowitsforthebetterr · 3 months

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celestialblueboy · 6 months

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Crowley watches Pride and Prejudice to cope with his divorce.

Maybe he will end another Armageddon to win back his ex. What? Like it’s hard?

#good omens #good omens fanart #crowley #aziraphale #ineffable husbands #aziracrow #crowly x aziraphale #elle woods #what like it's hard?#pride and prejudice #david tennant #legally blonde #good omens season 2 #good omens spoilers

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rmd-writes · 6 months

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hello rmd!! as i was rereading what like it's hard for the nth time, i just realized that they never said i love yous in real time (does that make sense???) or there was never a scene where they said their first i love yous because it was 12 mos later when it was on writing (which is perfect) so i wanted to ask if you have any ideas or scenarios or hcs in which they said if first??? like idk from your drafts or something?? obvs cannot get enough of this au!!!

hi nonnie! I saw this ask on the weekend, didn't have time to answer it and then forgot until just now - sorry!

I'm so glad you like this story, it really means so much to me that you've reread it at all, let alone more than once! 💖💖 What you said does make sense and when I was writing it, I wrestled with Alex and Henry not saying their first "I love you" on screen so to speak because I wanted to give them that moment, but I also needed to move the story forward!

I don't have drafts to share because I never actually wrote the scene but I have thought about it and I think that they would have both known that they were in love for some time before they actually say it.

A couple of months after the baseball game, Alex is in the middle of trial prep and working impossibly long hours (more so than usual). Henry hasn't seen him for over a week beyond Alex crawling into his bed at midnight and passing out with his chest pressed to Henry's back, then rolling out of bed again far too early in the morning to go to work. So, in a bid to actually see his boyfriend while he's awake, Henry stops by Alex's office one night with dinner.

Alex is running on more caffeine than is advisable (his usual intake is inadvisable, he's exceeded that. Brianna has refused to bring him more coffee so Alex has resorted to getting the junior staff to do it for him instead, to much disapproval from Bri). When Henry texts him to say he's downstairs with dinner at 8pm Alex realises that he hasn't eaten at all that day except for a shitty muffin that Bri stole from a conference room and just about forced down his throat at 2pm because she was sick of Alex being hangry. He races down to the lobby to see Henry and almost knocks him over because he hugs him so hard. He takes a second just to rest his head on Henry's shoulder and inhale his scent because he fucking misses his boyfriend.

Regretfully, Alex doesn't have time to sit and eat with Henry, if he's going to have any chance of making it home (no, he's not going to think about the fact that he just thought of Henry's apartment as 'home', it's just an expression, don't fucking mention it) while Henry is still awake.

"Fuck, I love you for this," Alex says, kissing Henry lightly on the lips before taking the take out container that Henry offers him and walking away.

He doesn't clock what he's said until he's halfway back to the elevator. He turns around slowly when it hits him and Henry is still standing there, smiling.

Alex walks back to Henry. "So, I said what I said," he says, almost defiantly.

"You did," Henry replies, amusement dancing in his eyes.

"And I fucking meant it." Alex takes a breath. "I love you."

Henry's smile lights up the lobby, hideous fluorescent lights be damned.

"I love you too."

They kiss for far longer and with more passion than is advisable in Alex's workplace but neither of them care.

"Go finish your work," Henry murmurs against Alex's lips.

(Alex makes it back to Henry's apartment at 10.30pm that evening. He tells Henry he loves him with his whole body, writing it into his skin with his words, the press of his lips and the cut of his teeth. Henry says it back over and over and over again, as he presses Alex into the mattress, with the featherlight touch of his fingers and the roll of his hips and his breath warm against Alex's neck as he speaks.)

don't estop me now series (aka rwrb lawyer au - I'm begging you to please read them in the order I've published them in for maximum enjoyment)

#rmd answers #rmd writes: rwrb snippet #rwrb fic #firstprince fic #lawyer au #what like it's hard?

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stonecoldsilly · 2 years

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episode ten we’re finally gonna get the ruehob pvp we’ve all been waiting for! when we said hootgrowl endgame we meant combat to the death didn’t we guys?

#BEARBOWL GET HYPE #oscar wrecks brennans whole ass in his own dome #in his first game #what like it's hard?#you simply love to see it #a court of fey and flowers #acofaf #dimension20 #dimension 20 spoilers #captain k.p. hob #delloso de la rue #battlemaster of ceremonies #ruehob girlies keep losing

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serious-goose · 7 months

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why is it so hard for people to have a nuanced take on a morally gray character of color?

#what like it's hard?#ofmd #our flag means death #ofmd s2 spoilers #fandom rant

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justabarbiegirl05 · 5 months

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The key part about using "What, like it's hard?" for motivation is knowing IT IS hard. That Elle struggled the whole time, and worked harder than she ever had. This was all in the face of being bullied, harassed, doubted by everyone she knew, and wasn't seen as anything more than her looks. Yet she persevered and still rose to the challenge to defend her innocent sister, protect the truth, prove her worth and how valuable she was. She even remain true to herself and was almost always consistently dedicated to her new passion.

"What, like it's hard?" YES. It IS hard and you will cry, be scared, doubt yourself and your goals; but more importantly you will make it out on the other end stronger, braver, and smarter than you were. You will get through this and be victorious. You can and will prove how valuable you are / your worth, that you are more than people think you are based on your looks, go through so much but make it look effortless and shove it in the face of the people who doubted and wronged you.

anyways I drank an energy drink for the first time and this is what happened in my brain thank you for listening

#what like it's hard?#elle woods #legally blonde #never let me have caffeine again #motivating quotes #motivation #study motivation #reese witherspoon #pink #girlhood

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fruitsbasketcase · 2 years

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Chapter 68.1 of Spy x Family without context

Frankie: so you’re going to create an animated series without any knowledge or training on how to animate?

Loid: what, like it’s hard?

#spy x family #Loid forger #he makes it look so easy #as if animating wasn’t one of the hardest things ever to learn #what like it's hard?

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luanneclatterbuck · 11 months

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BOOM. I’d never changed a headlight bulb before. Watched one video of some guy kind of showing what to do but not actually doing it. Bought the right replacements. Installed them. They work.

#🤘🥳🤘#also topped off my washer fluid while I was in there #what like it's hard?

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angel-girl-2014 · 1 month

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when people call me stupid because of my grades but i’m literally trying my best and i understand school doesn’t define my intelligence

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onichophora · 3 months

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Catch-22 would kill a Booktokker

#reading comprehension #i hate the term media literacy but here we go #kill an unproblematic tumblr grly stone dead too #problematic #that is also a term i hate #i see so many posts about fools who can't read even when they can and then fool myself I read some of the comments #derogatory #catch-22 #what like it's hard?

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arielleslipgloss · 5 months

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How to Study like Elle Woods!

Get inspired! We all know once Elle gets motivated or inspired she is driven, hardworking, and ambitious to get what she wants. Which then turned into discipline to keep going. So, if you’re ever tried and don’t want to study, do it tried. You need to have discipline to keep going!

2. Always be prepared! Before any big test, school year, class, always be prepared. Make sure you have all your stationery, books, tools before you start anything. Before a test ALWAYS study beforehand and pay attention in class for the correct understanding. Ask questions so you know if you do have a quiz, exam, or essay, that you are ready and understand.

3. Provide yourself with cute stationery! Getting cute stationery items will make learning more fun! Invest in pom pom pens, cute notebooks, a smooth writing pencil, or just anything that interests you.

4. Have your role models!

If you are ever doubting yourself or don’t have any discipline. It’s always great to have your fair share of role models. Role models can help us feel inspired, motivated, driven, and they are just great people overall to look up to. Elle Woods is a great example of a role model. She is smart, dedicated, hardworking, passionate, and enjoys her life. Make sure that your role models don’t influence you into bad things. Nobody wants to live a dreadful life knowing they wasted time doing what their “role model” did.

5. Trust yourself! A big trait about Elle that people might not notice is, that she trusts herself. She trusts herself that she will do wants right. She trusts herself that she will make it into Harvard Law School. Overall, trusts that whatever she does even, in doubt will be the best decision.

#elle woods #legally blonde #study motivation #clean girl #wonyoungism #becoming that girl #it girl energy #that girl #glow up #wonyoung motivation #what like it's hard?#It girl #girl blogger #girl blogging #pink pilates princess #coquette girl

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pennyngram · 2 years

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Original post from msjausten on Instagram

#pride and prejudice #dracula daily #dracula #Legally Blonde #Elizabeth Bennet #elle woods #what like it's hard?#lucy westenra

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pharawee · 3 months

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kimkenta anon here, just glad this weeks episode doesn't force the fic to be too off-canon yet! and i'll get to include the jeffalan agenda. anything to take my mind off the way/babe scene bc. ouch.

negl I'm secretly glad I haven't been proven wrong yet either. 🙏

And since Kim wasn't in today's ep at all (which is an outrage tbh) I'll just imagine he's currently busy leading the rebellion in Tony's omegaverse prison with all the secret info Kenta gave him beforehand.

But yeah, the scene between Babe and Way was hard to watch - even if I knew what was going to happen. I was kind of hoping they'd tone it down because Nut makes me love Way far too much for my own good...

#ask #pit babe #kentakim #lmao imagine everyone getting ready for the big finale #and then kim just pops up all bloodied and bruised with a gaggle of rescued kids in tow like #what like it's hard?#i swear if we don't at least get a hint of kentakim i'll riot #also stil excited for that fic aaah 💜💜

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flowerrsworld · 6 months

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She and Elle literally drive me to work hard and slay

#elle woods #what like it's hard?#academia barbie #studying #studyblr #pink academia #beauty and brains #legally blonde #law school #study motivation #study inspiration #studyinspo #kim kardashian #the kardashians

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gostudyorillcomeforyou · 7 months

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This blog is only for the hot and overeducated

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