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moonlit-positivity · 3 months

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Very gentle reminder that if you're reading this text post then most likely you're not in a state of emergency. You can relax. You can breathe. You can pause. You're not there anymore. There is no urgency or immediate need to get your safety met. You are loved. You are surrounded by warmth and protection. You are allowed to release the tension in your muscles, unclench your jaw, roll your neck, wiggle your arms, move your legs, and take a deep breath. You are safe.

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mydarling-suggestions · 2 years

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you and your sparkling eyes when you smile and your wide toothy grin, i don't ever want to lose that look on your face.

#mod cara #my own #this was writtena bout one of my best friends #i love them so much #romance suggestions #love suggestions #crush suggestions #warm suggestions #concept suggestions #soft suggestions #wlw suggestions #mlm suggestions #gay suggestions #sapphic suggestions #iloveyou #softcore #lovecore

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inkskinned · 3 months

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there's a video on instagram of a man kicking his partner's door in. the top comment is (with over 4 thousand likes): "how about you tell us what you did to make him that angry?"

barring emergency, nobody should be kicking anybody's door in. many of us lived in houses where it was always, somehow, an emergency. there is a strange, almost hysterical calm that comes over you in that moment - everything feels muted, and you almost feel, however incongruently, like you should be laughing. you are living inside of "the emergency." oh my god, you think. i am now a fucking statistic.

there is another comment with 2.8 thousand likes: "if this was a woman doing it to a man, nobody would give a shit."

do people give a shit now, though?

barring emergency, the door should remain standing. the emergency should be panicked, desperate - "i'm coming in there to protect you." many of us know what it feels like when the emergency is instead "i'm coming in there to get you."

1.5k likes: "and yet you post this for notes. glad to see being the victim has become your whole personality."

hysteria is a word connected to womb, from greek. what you're experiencing is so senseless and inhumane that you (a rational creature) try to find any ground within what is irrational and cannot be explained. one of the most frustrating things about staying in bad situations is that we also lie to ourselves. we also ask ourselves - wow. what did i do?

women can be, and often are, also abusers. abuse is not gendered. abuse is not just a "straight person" problem. abuse does not have a face or figure or sexuality. you cannot pick an abuser out of a crowd. an abuser could be actually anybody.

and then so many people rally behind the man kicking the door in. here is something nobody should be doing, right? you want to ask every person that liked that first comment: do you ask this because you side with him? do you ask this because it helps you feel safe from this ever happening?

in some ways, you're weirdly sympathetic to the top comment, because it is the same logic you see frequently. the idea is that the average, normal, sane person doesn't just break down a door. doesn't just shoot up a school. doesn't stalk and kill women. doesn't threaten sexual assault. doesn't run over protesters. doesn't shoot an unarmed black person. doesn't scream at underpaid walmart employees. doesn't just "lose it". something had to have happened, right? because the default (white. straight. cis.) - that is someone who is always, you know. "sane."

(right?)

on a podcast, you hear a sane, normal, rational person. "if you piss me off, i'm going to need to hit something. sorry but i'm not apologizing. that's just who i am that's how it is." his voice almost sounds like he's laughing.

you think of the door, and how you were almost laughing behind it, too. ironically, every real emergency in your life has almost felt peaceful in comparison. fire, car accident, flash flooding - these felt quiet, covenant to you. you'd stood in all of them, feeling them pass over and up to your chin, never actually overwhelming.

but when the door was coming down, you had felt - is there a word for that? there has to be, a word, right.

surely one of us has figured out the word for that, i mean. it's such a large fucking statistic.

#spilled ink #writeblr #warm up #this is so disorganized #i just saw that video and the comments made me want to vomit #it's actually like. in the way it's funny that you got into a car crash and got the flu within the same 24 hours #it's like.#it's funny #because certain people will blame everything on mental illness #even being transgender.#they will not #however #at any point - even vaguely suggest that a man should maybe get therapy.#like. a guy busting down a door isn't a danger-to-himself-and-others #(you just pushed him too far).#but a young adult looking for top surgery should be institutionalized for even wanting to change their body.

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triona-tribblescore · 20 days

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UH- UM- MY HAND SLIPPED-

Tw// suggestive material

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s0bk · 3 months

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sorry if this is too gay for the viewers (he/him)

#apri art #apri oc #oc wire #he's at the beach idk it's cold af out rn i'm thinking of warm weather </3 #suggestive #furry #dragon #anthro

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nartothelar · 8 months

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old timey train conductor and engineer fits 🚂

based on this photo:

#was taking warm up suggestions on the server and sunjuicy gave me this one #submas #emmet #ingo #kudari #nobori #pokemon #pokemon fanart #fanart

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bonsiii-art · 4 months

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Me, you, and the ghosts that decided to be my friends

(Yea, I can't think of a clever caption. But I got some art from this year I wanna post that I haven't yet so uh, don't mind me :P )

#cookie run #cookie run fanart #black garlic cookie #white ghost cookie #my art #bonsi's art #This was initially a warm up suggestion but then I made it a full drawing aaagh #sorry if they seem ooc; I only played like a minute of this event （；´д｀）ゞ

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muckyschmuck · 6 months

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and before you ask, we can’t record it

#they’re so toxic yuri #my art #furry art #furry #anthro art #anthro #digital art #oc #oc art #this is a warm uppdpppp #suggestive #cw suggestive #tw suggestive #only playing it safe bc they’re naked

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floralring · 2 months

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my sister and best friend

#collei #amber #genshin impact #shniffles they love each other so so much :')#ambers palm is as warm as the sun and. collei welcomes every lovely sunrise ...#not sure abt the best way to describe the pose any suggestions are welcome!

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the-husbando · 2 months

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ℑ'𝔪 𝔰𝔬 𝔣𝔲𝔠𝔨𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔯𝔢𝔳𝔦𝔰𝔦𝔱𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔱𝔥𝔲𝔰 𝔴𝔦𝔱𝔥 𝔭𝔞𝔦𝔫𝔱 𝔩𝔞𝔱𝔢𝔯.

#brahms heelshire #the boy #the boy 2016 #suggestive #shibari #shibari art #warm up sketch #sketch dump #sketchdump #slashers #slasher #slasher art #traditional art #traditional artist #graphite #graphite art #my art

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moonlit-positivity · 2 months

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Note to self: even if you are a "bad person", I'm still gonna love you. You're fine. Im still gonna be here for you when it's over. We're gonna learn what we needed to learn and do better next time. We're gonna apologize and hold ourselves in a better headspace while we hear whatever it is we needed to hear. We're gonna listen and learn how to speak up when we're hurt and listen to others when they do the same. We're gonna make it up to ourselves. And even if we don't, I still love you regardless of how you feel about me and regardless of how someone else has made me feel about me, too. I love you. ❤️‍🩹

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mydarling-suggestions · 2 years

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you feel like the intro of robbers

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spacecolonie · 1 year

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Um hello!! I'm truly a big fan of your artwork your art style is truly a masterpiece!

I have no questions in mind but can i ask you for a shadamy drawing?

I really want to see them in your amazing art style! Hope you have a nice day!

thank you so much 🥹 💖 here you go (shadow is not immune to pretty & cool girl)

#asks #shadamy #shadow the hedgehog #amy rose #my art #honestly i'm enjoying doing these a lot as my warm up for the day #if anyone wants to shove some doodle requests in my inbox pls do #i wont be able to do them all/forever but for this week... yes #ty for the suggestion anon i luv shadamy a lot. goth x prep supremacy

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ohno-the-sun · 11 months

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Haha I’m in danger

Based on sleuth jesters by the lovely naffeclipse

#fnaf daycare attendant #eclipse #sleuth jesters #been seeing him everywhere on my dash #this was meant to be a quick warm up sketch but it quickly derailed #this reminds me of the other piece I did #even the color scheme is kinda similar #don’t worry no one here really knows about it #cw gun #cw suggestive #my art

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gomzdrawfr · 2 days

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bonked

u know the thing cartoons have when their head's been bonked and they go

#warm up doodle jkashdkj #suggested by a friend #gummmyart #doodle #simon ghost riley #captain john price #PriceRaven #my oc #my oc art #cod oc #cod oc art #[oc]Raven #Raven[oc]#captain john price x oc #john price x oc #captain price x oc

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oliverinaestheticplaces · 12 days

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Stinky Bear Motivation ✨❤️

Fear needs to be met with comfort and safety. Anxiety is all about fear. Define the fear, put a name to your worries, and then meet yourself with comfort and make a safety plan for what could possibly go wrong.

You deserve to be comforted through the fears! Feel the fear and snuggle it anyway!

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