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#voice dysphoria
transgenderpolls · 8 days
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*if your voice has changed to your satisfaction through hormones/training, you can answer for how you felt prior to that change
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temporaryphase · 8 months
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self love
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arielthedaydreamer · 3 months
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What ppl don't tell you about being a trans guy is that after your voice drops, everytime you get dysphoric or insecure your inner monologue will shift back to your old fem voice and you will have to remind yourself that you don't need to worry about sounding like that anymore.
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transenbyconfessions · 8 months
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i fucking hate my voice. i'm ftm and i hate hearing myself speak, i hate hearing myself on recording. i hate my voice so much. it's so fucking feminine and every single time i hear it, i want to cry.
Submitted July 14, 2023
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ninyyya · 8 months
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me when i try again but i have to listen to myself
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Shoutout to headmates with body and/or voice dysphoria!
It can be quite challenging existing as a member of a system, and having to share a body that doesn’t look or feel like yours. Here’s to headmates in systems who experience dysphoria as a result of this!
Shoutout to therian, otherkin, or nonhuman headmates who get species dysphoria from existing in a human body!
Shoutout to headmates who look visibly different from the body and get dysphoria from seeing their reflection!
Shoutout to headmates with voices that sound different from the body’s and get dysphoria whenever they hear themselves speak!
Shoutout to headmates whose body and voice dysphoria stems from being a different gender than the body!
Shoutout to headmates who receive hormone replacement therapy or voice training, who dye their hair, get tattoos, paint their nails, and do other things to help themself and their headmates relieve some of their dysphoria!
Shoutout to headmates who have dysphoria in a mostly non-dysphoric system!
Dealing with dysphoria can be overwhelming, discouraging, and quite painful. If you or someone in your system is struggling with this, we wish you hope, healing, and peace with yourself and your body. Hopefully you can one day transition in a way that helps you live your best life! If not, however, please know that there are people in your life who love and care for you just the way you are and see you the way you want to be seen! You don’t have to be physically nonhuman in order to be accepted as one. You don’t have to be fully transitioned in order to be accepted as whatever gender you are!
We wish the very best for you and your system as you continue to live with body and/or voice dysphoria. Please know that things will get better one day! And until then we’ll be here rooting for you!
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poognthebrainbois · 2 months
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Me: *being quietly depressed about being trans this very moment, have not said anything out loud, have been consistently nonbinary to family for like a year and have not suggested otherwise to them recently.*
Dad, just now, no warning: You don't wanna be a guy. Guys are assholes. You can be nonbinary, that's perfectly fine. Flip between whatever as your day-to-day, but you don't wanna be a guy. (Something something) the world doesn't need more men. (A couple more sentences trying to talk me out of wanting to be a guy) You're so much better off being a they/them in between (something something) androgynous, y'know?
Sooooo were you eavesdropping last night when I talked to my friend? Or are you just scared I'll add another problem to my list? Why are you so against the idea of me being genuinely trans? And also, that just proves that you see nonbinary as "the safe option" because you view nonbinary as they/them pronouns and androgynous clothing and no other changes because you don't actually know how queer people work and you don't want me to be "like them". Cool.
Like how the fuck--
But yeah no cool. That absolutely made me feel better and cured my trans thoughts! I'll be they/them forever and never change! Thanks dad! :D
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Me when I get voice dysphoria and am scared my voice is too high pitched and feminine but the part I can sing best in les’mis is javerts-
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selectivechaos · 5 months
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it is completely and utterly OK to mess up when speaking. it isn’t a tragedy. it’s awkward and hurts to have voice issues, and not many people understand. but it doesn’t make you wrong or bad.
go fuck up speech,
go get the wrong word order,
take your time,
get the volume wrong,
slur your sentences.
mess up loudly.
talk in the voice you hate.
🌹im sick of being scared and ashamed of messing up. i am bad at speaking. i have very little practice because years of mutism. the last bit is about ppl with voice dysphoria. 🌹
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mewo-personal · 3 months
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I fucking hate it. I hate my voice. I hate this so much. This isn't a suicidal situation, but this is shit. I don't wanna do this anymore. I wanna change out my vocal chords.
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liliththelazy · 5 months
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I often think about how often I sang as a kid. I loved singing, I sang along to every song that came on the radio with my sisters. I still remember when puberty started to show it's ugly face. The day I tried to sing and the cracks began to show. Until one day, all that came out was air because that pitch was now out of reach. I remember crying because I couldn't sing the songs I wanted to anymore. People said that it was weird that I liked songs sung by women anyway. I loved them, I obviously now know why it was so devastating to not be able to sing them anymore. I'm proudly out now and happy with who I am, I just feel robbed. I know that voice training can help a lot, I just don't think I could ever get back to what I used to do. So long story short, male puberty absolutely sucks, and I wish I knew I was trans before I had to experience it so I could've gotten on puberty blockers. I hope to one day sing all the songs I want with the voice I want.
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coyotepawsteps · 8 months
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my genderqueer autistic ass having an epiphany about my general dislike for vcing (voice chatting) while in the middle of watching neurodivergent & queer tiktok compilations
usually i’m pretty okay with & prefer being in vcs with people who talk while i stay muted, and most of the time i just say that i “don’t really like talking in vcs” without elaborating on that too much but like. i’m gonna spend some time using tumblr as a way to put actual words to a lot of the deeper reasons for this feeling that i’m starting to notice! bc who am i if not a little autistic creature who wants to infodump to people except it’s a lot more comfortable to do so using a platform that feels more like a personal journal than a social media site!! i write all this for myself but i also want it to be in a space where other people can see it, relate to it, share their own experiences, etc.!
(and, with that mention of people sharing their own experiences, please feel free to reply to or reblog this with some of your own thoughts or experiences on this topic, because i’m genuinely curious how other people feel about this kind of thing!!)
i feel insecure about the way i perceive my voice as “too feminine”, i want to present online as a vague gender-fucky creature most of the time but i feel like people hearing my voice will ruin that kind of presentation. after listening to some of those “this is my voice [timeframe] on t” clips, i kinda realized that if my voice was deeper — something more neutral, or vaguely “boyish” but not exactly — this specific bullet point wouldn’t be much of a problem anymore
again a point specifically about my voice itself — i don’t think that i can really regulate the..i guess emotion in my voice? sometimes i speak completely flat monotone, sometimes i feel like i talk in a tone that doesn’t properly convey my current emotions or fit the situation, sometimes i feel like i can be way too hyper-expressive especially when i’m like. feeling really positively, like if i’m happy or excited or laughing at something. i also feel like i talk more high pitched in those latter situations which doesn’t help with the vocal-based gender dysphoria
i frequently describe myself as socially awkward. i am kinda bad when it comes to having conversations with people. there isn’t really any time at all to like, properly process what the other person has said & then reply to it accordingly while having vocal conversations, most of the time you just gotta wing it and hope you get it right. texting is a lot easier for me because then i do have that time to process what was said, and think of how to respond to it, and i have time to reread my response (and change it if need be) before sending it
this is something that i do sometimes mention in my original “i just don’t like talking in vcs” statement to people (just not with this much level of detail & explanation to it) — i feel like i express myself a lot better through writing/texting/messaging than i do speaking. ties in a lot with my emotional regulation/tone of voice bullet point; i express emotions a lot better through textual means. if i’m particularly hyper or expressing strong emotions like anger, excitement, joy, etc. then i usually write in all-caps and type fast enough that i make frequent typos. same thing for if i’m laughing at/about something i find really funny, plus with an add-on of keysmashing (there’s no good vocal equivalent to a really good keysmash). emojis and/or emoticons are really nice to use for conveying emotion wordlessly (some personal usage examples: 😭 for laughing or sometimes genuine sadness/upset depending on the situation; 😂 is also good for laughing/amusement [although i go through cycles of how often i actually use it; some times it’ll often be the only emoji i use for laughing, others i use the sobbing one a lot more and almost never touch this one, and others i rely more on text emoticons or abbreviations]; my most common emoticons are xD, :D, :), and :( with some variations depending on circumstance [e.g. >:) for a more “devilish”/mischievous use]; and, though they aren’t exactly emojis or emoticons, i frequently use abbreviations like “lmao” and “lol” interchangeably with them, with lmao being for actual strong amusement and lol being like a more toned-down “ha ha” kinda thing.) there is, of course, also the bonus of tone-tags being an option in textual conversation, although i don’t tend to use them too frequently unless i’m aware that something i’m saying could be taken in the wrong way by the other person (e.g. if i’m saying something i really mean, i won’t really use tone-tags for it, like if i’m telling a friend “i like playing games with you”; but if i’m joking around with someone while using a flat tone — like a message without any emoji usage, caps, purposeful typos, etc. — i will usually use tone-tags there, for example “i hate you so much /j”)
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temporaryphase · 8 months
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i want to rip out my vocal cords
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silver-ace-of-spades · 2 months
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I wish I sounded like Zooble. Or Double Trouble. Or Silver the Hedgehog. Or Floofty. Or Goh. Or Lexi.
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transenbyconfessions · 11 months
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i don't know why but voice dysphoria hits especially badly. i feel so lost in this body, and i lack the proper voice to represent it. i experience a horrible kind of dysphoria and i lack the voice to properly convey how i feel about it. i feel so stuck within my body and i cannot express myself with the looks i possess on my face, i cannot express myself with the voice i use to tell others about it. there's no sign of me visible to others. i need myself back, this feels so isolating
Submitted April 27, 2023
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shejustshe · 5 months
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Days since being called a man: 0
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