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im writing this while im shaking and crying so i don't know if something i say will be misspelled but i feel the need to tell everyone who went thru so much shit just for being asexual, i feel you. I feel you so much and it hurts as hell, i still do therapy to heal myself for so many things i went thru when i was so young and had no idea that "there was nothing wrong with me. I could have said no. But it's not my fault i didn't said no. It was not my fault for being manipulated to do stuff i didn't wanted and that just made me uncomfortable and disgusted. It was not my fault and there is nothing wrong with me." For everyone who's aspec, aro, ace, aroace you guys are amazing, you are valid, you exist and your existence is enough there is nothing wrong with you and you are not alone. I felt alone and i still feel alone for being aroace to this day, im still figuring things out but i know im not alone. I know that. Not only that but also there was a lot of xenophobia and racism happening towards us, brasilians. This is awful, makes me feel sick and heartbroken. But im also proud to be who i am, im proud to be brasileira im proud to be aroace. Your hateful comments makes you a sad existence, it's terrifying to know that people can say so much shit without a single feeling of empathy. To everyone who felt hurt, who had to deal with anxiety, everyone who also had a hard time seeing so much hate, to you who still in pain, im so so sorry, im so sorry this is happening but we are in this together, you are not alone. Don't be afraid to be yourself, be proud of your nationality be proud of your roots and don't be afraid to bloom be who you are, be proud of your sexuality be proud of your identity be proud of your existence. Im so happy you are alive. A lot of hugs and love, we need it.

Be kind. (to yourself too)

E pra todo mundo que tá lidando com essa situação difícil, não podemos deixar que tirem nosso orgulho do Brasil, eu sou brasileira e sou extremamente feliz por tudo que as minhas raízes, a minha nacionalidade me faz ser. E também pras pessoas assexuais, por favor se cuidem essa situação agora pode dar muitos gatilhos gente pfv se cuidem, bebam água, respirem fundo, vc não tá só! Estamos todos juntos, um grande abraço do fundo do meu coração, vai ficar tudo bem ok? Tamo junto ❤️‍🩹

Can you add "i disagree with this label" or something bc just saying im familiar feels like im saying i support

No.

URGENT EVACUATION FOR LGBT+ ACTIVISTS

"On 30th November Russia’s Supreme Court recognized the “international LGBT movement” as an “extremist organization”. It implies up to 10 year prison sentences, especially for LGBTQ activists and human rights defenders, the scale of planned repressions is inpredictable. 

We decided to urgently expand the program of evacuation of LGBTQ activists under persecution from Russia.

Today we have experienced a dramatic increase in the number of requests. EQUAL PostOst receives up to 12 requests per hour, we see that people are panicking."

wtf goin on with linked universe rn

Nothing to do with the comic or Jojo. Some rando decided it would be a good idea to make a conservative christian LOZ/LU server and advertise it on the main tag. Which in of itself is weird, though hardly a crime, but they specifically spouted queerphobic nonsense and talked about queer ideology being "predatory" and not allowed on the server. Just your average spewed bigoted bile, but coming from an especially bizarre place considering they are on the Gay Trans Website advertising to a Gay Trans Fandom. Not sure what they thought they'd accomplish here other than a wave of spite posting, which the LU fandom is great at any time some snivelling conservative with a victim complex shows up. God speed guys

trying to draw croma around my phobic family

I’m not popular, so when I got this in my ask Box I knew it was spam

I’m not going to explain why this is wrong but

1) why anonymous? Are you a coward?

2) where’s your proof?

Also when I click on the pfp, the page that comes up when you click on a deleted account comes up so idk

99% of mass shooters are cisgender, white and straight. But the one time a trans person is the murderer of course the fascist right wing loses their minds. This is bad. As if trans people in the US weren’t already in danger. They’ll assume every queer person is violent now too.

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TW: Slight child abuse and anti-kin/lgbtq/plural mentions

Oh nice, my anti-furry/kin/neopronoun/lgbtq/hazbin/helluva ex-friend is also anti-plural and thinks child abuse in literature is funny.

I'm so glad I've stopped talking to her and shes stopped interacting with me, but I hate being in her toxic environment.

Making me upset with her comments are one thing, but I will NOT have her insult or upset my headmates. Some of them (our main protector and main emotional regulator, both traumagenic) are already aware of her and come to the front because of her. They're already aware of her bullshit, but if someone like Pentious or Sageyz came to front while she was around, I might have to step away for their safety. We have 3 littles and a middle in this plurality, and I won't be risking their safety around her.

Sorry for this rant, but I needed to let it out :')

"Russia’s highest court found in favour of a motion filed by the Ministry of Justice which claimed the LGBTQ community risked “inciting social and religious discord”, in violation of Russia’s Law on Countering Extremism, according to a statement from the UN condemning the decision."

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I've done it. After a horrible Friday 13th that almost turned me superstitious (I received my very first queerphobic assault; didn't get hurt but I had a mini panic attack afterwards), I'VE BEEN DIAGNOSED AS AUTISTIC!! AAAAA :D [open mouth smiley].

I've waited for this moment for so long. I've always felt like a fraud for thinking I might be autistic, especially when I got tested a few years ago and didn't receive a diagnosis—the tests said I'd reached the threshold (hence why I decided to get a second opinion) but they didn't diagnose me because my scores weren't "high enough compared to the autistic average" *shrug*.

I'm so glad I was right, not only because knowing I'm actually autistic is immensely cathartic and explains my history of depression and anxiety and feeling like everyone else is on a different planet than me (and a million other things), but also because it would have been so humiliating to have to tell my parents they were right and I was "normal" after all—hooray for ableist parents! (/sarcasm).

I'm "level 1" autistic, which is probably why the first clinic didn't diagnose me since they had lots of level 2/3 patients.

The first clinic was quite the unpleasant experience too, because the doctor that interviewed me was kinda transphobic and refused to use my pronouns cause they were "not grammatically correct" (only neutral pronoun in my language is a neopronoun, so when she said that was too hard I asked her to at least switch between masc and fem and she said that was a selfish request??).

But yeah… If anyone wants to know more about the diagnostic process because they want to get tested, hit me up. Obviously every clinic is different, and I've only been to two, but if it can ease your nerves I can give you a general idea from what little I know :) [smiley].

Oh and also, I've already interacted a lot with the autistic community both here and irl, but I was wondering: are there any cool things specific to the autistic community that a new entry like me should know of? Such as the autism creature? Any interesting YouTube channels, pieces of media, memes, stuff like that? Thanks for reading my ramblings! ^^ [happy eyes emoticon].

consider the crow

fuck, I don't how to do this. but let's try. the other day I woke up in my little bed in my shitty apartment. made the mistake of picking up my phone first (same mistake every morning). dead kids on the news. people joking about world war three (they sound nervous). more ice melting--we're nearing a tipping point. pundits, preachers, politicians all saying they'd like to just . . . get rid of queer folks, and they seem more comfortable proclaiming that every day and--god. I'm already crying. fuck, I've got to work today. just don't think about it. there's nothing I can do, I tell myself. and I get out of bed and feed the cats. I put two slices of bread in the toaster and try not to pick my phone back up. but I'm thinking today, whether I want to be or not. I want to fight--give me the strength of a lion! god, I could kill over this. make me horrible and bristling and radiant and I'll do it, I swear it. but what throat could I tear out that would solve this? okay, okay. then I want to understand--give me the owl's wisdom, maybe then I could see all this at once, maybe I could fix this! but if I could see it all at once, I don't think I could stand it. and even if I had answers (because not just one would be needed, but millions, more), who would listen to me? untangling this in my brain won't untangle it in the world. okay, okay, fine. fine fine fine. make me a sheep, at least--so that while I eat my breakfast I do not have the fucking capacity to think about all this shit, because I don't think I can stand--

my toast is done. smear on some peanut butter, grab some of yesterday's coffee from the fridge. yeahh, the good stuff. eat by the window, stare at the tree branches, and I start to think maybe my sheep prayer has been answered. and that's when I see it, past the branches, in the back street behind the apartment:

there's a crow on the street, pecking away at some trash he must have grabbed out of the dumpster. just absolutely feasting on what might be day-old mcdonalds dregs. he lifts his head, pauses, caws twice. he sounds quite proud of himself. I smile, and think how funny it is that so many people through history, smarter and braver and calmer than me, would be chilled by the sound. bad omens and all. battlefields and corpses. and then something clicks for me. right now, I don't need to be a lion or an owl or a sheep. no. no, fuck it. make me a crow. make me a scavenger. make me resourceful. make me resilient. teach me to take up nothing but trash and refuse and decay and turn it into a boisterous black-feathered life. if I can learn from the crow--the raccoon, the possum, the mushroom--all of those hated and pitied scroungers and survivors and pests--maybe I can hack some home and some hope out of this shit. and maybe I can help someone, at least a little, the way that crow helped me. I don't know what all that means yet, exactly. anarchist action and community support? a little theory and a lot of diy? getting beak-deep in a dumpster while crowing with my birdbrained friends? I guess this place is an attempt to figure it out--to learn from the folks already doing this and helping where I can. blundering onward. caw caw, motherfuckers.

Also our government goes crazy again and wants to mark lgbt as extremism

Fun

-Pearl

rlly trying to stay positive but lgbtq hate and general bigotry is just making me fucking sad. i might be a little slower w art production n stuff bc of that, i’ll make sure to update the last day of my hrt countdown thing later today but aside from that i just don’t know. i don’t even know. i know i sound like a broken record at this point and the healthy thing would just be taking a big ass break and to stop being chronically online w my rants here but i’m so overwhelmed and stressed. i didn’t know that posting my art here would start such a shitstorm in my mind all bc ppl don’t care enough to ask before reposting my work to shitty hate filled image boards haha