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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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I’m very much so that girl in real life.
I meet men in Saks who end up footing the bill.
I’m always approached when I’m alone at the bar by men who plan on providing how I demand.
I use the airport as my playground for affluent men who would love to taste this arm candy.
A lifestyle, not a phase
$TufaniTalks
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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MY BODY IS A TEMPLE
Ok, I’m not playing any(more) games with myself. I’m buckling down and finalizing a body upgrade plan that I can bring into 3D fruition.
Im going to write down whatever resonates with the temple itself.
Mind. Body. Soul.
MIND
Meditation
Reprogrammed thoughts
Ability to still the mind
Negative talk towards self is immediately dismissed by positive reassurance
Subliminal music
Visualizing current reality
BODY
Yoga infused with womb healing/divine feminine meditation
Cosmetic surgery upgrades
Practice intimacy magic (IYKYK)
Regular workout routine
Thorough body skin care routine (including waxes, exfoliating, healing habits, etc.)
Communicating with inner voice
Actively attracting soon reality of desired body by writing, visualizing & researching.
Breast massages with proper herbs and oils
SOUL
Commit to self education of spiritual research, dating back to African royalty
Live life moving based on faith & trust
Daily gratitude
Music more (lyrical/favorite artists/instrumental)
Healing inner child
Deep shadow work
Reading, rereading and annotating
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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My Knowledge Is My Power
Scholar first, seductress immediately after.
The more I invest in my knowledge, the more I evolve into a bundle of abundance.
I prioritize my daily reading goal of an hour
I prioritize my schoolwork
I prioritize my self care
The more I direct the focus on improving self, all of my external desires will gradually manifest
Ph.D me please!
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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REINVENTING MYSELF-Femininity
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Simply put, I don’t like the woman I am now. I am a manifestation of my parents neglect, insecurities rooted in me since a child, along with suppressed and very obvious trauma. I want to see better, I want to do better, I want to attract better.
In preparation for spring (the actual “New Year”) I am currently throwing away EVERYTHING and starting completely fresh. Clothes, wigs, sheets, I even thought about tossing my diploma not a soul asked me for (not even school, everything is electronic).
This is she, me. Anew
Personality
She is mysterious, yet has a welcoming aura about her. You know she’s not the woman to step to unless it’s worth her time, but intimidating isn’t the feeling that comes over the admirer. She’s playful, actively laughing and playing with her dogs. Publicly and privately. A hopeless romantic, though a seductress first. Her love (and lust) is earned. She’s very hard to get.
Hopeless Romantic
Adventurous
Rebellious
Creative
Bookworm
Athletic
Hobbies
She’s always trying something new to see if she finds something she likes. Fear of dislike is never on her mind. As a curious spirit, she not only has hobbies but works to advance and meet those who share the same hobbies as her
Art museums
Theatre
Cooking & making recipe books to pass down
Scrapbooking
Learning about nature (plants, Survival skills, history)
Baking (for anyone)
Chess
White Wine
Astrology
Teapot Collecting
Reading research articles
Boundaries
Again, she’s very hard to get. Hard to impress. Hard to convince. Hard to plead to. As warm as her aura may be, she’s very no nonsense. She is in tune with her inner voice and intuition, who are the first to advise her about whatever you’re telling her.
No sex before substantial financial/personal commitment
Limited debates, always held with class and even tone. Never arguments or fights
Not surrounding self around people who don’t share the same ambition
I come first. My safety, my priorities and myself, period.
No unannounced guests (gift deliveries excluded)
I don’t entertain conversations with men after a certain time
I am selective about what I choose to listen to, so I cut all unproductive/negative conversations very short
Goals
She is an “overachiever”. Whatever that means.
Purchase first property
Travel to 5th country
Obtaining black dermatologist
Selling select art pieces for over ($XX,XXX)
Approved for American Express Platinum Card
Accepted into Ph.D program
Complete first few books/scripts
Learn Spanish and ASL fluently
I went deep into depth privately, and I highly suggest you do the same. Sometimes, it helps to have an organized, detail breakdown of who you are, who you want to become, and most importantly who are you leaving behind.
$TufaniTalks
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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Modern Black Royalty
Charity Events. Country Clubs. Private Fine Dining. Founder & CEO. Theatre Shows. Wine Tasting. Ballroom Dancing. Multi acres properties. Multiple Passports. Caviar & Cocktails. Yacht Parties. Basketball Court in our Backyard. Wine Collector. Billion Dollar Business Deals.
✨My presence commands respect.
✨The more I treat my staff with respect, the more they not only treat me as, but respect me as royalty.
✨My legacy will be one worth building.
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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THIS COOCHIE IS CLOSED UNTIL…
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My Celibacy Commitment
I value the power I possess in my intimate areas. I no longer use intimacy as an activity, but as an adventure. Any man who wants a piece of me, must prove himself worthy beforehand.
Before any man proves himself worthy to me, I must prove to myself that I have the discipline to not crack under any amount of pressure, no matter how tempting the offer is.
My Commitment Tasks Include:
Read all of books on reading list (reread a few of them to study tactics)
Complete coding course
Study wine
Learn how to bake
Enroll in school
Complete cosmetic/physical upgrade
Have a year of rent set aside
Start at least three business ventures, two passive
Have at least $300K in the bank account (checking and savings)
Commit to workout routine for at least three months straight, no excuses
Become skilled in dining etiquette
Learn chess
Become comfortable speaking Spanish and ASL/Begin French
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REPEAT:
I am worthy of any wait
I would rather be high maintenance than low quality
My aura exudes royalty
As long as I believe I am magnetically seductive, so I will remain
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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Mrs. Millionaire
I can’t believe I did it. I manifested this. The acres. The multi million dollar deals. The investments that went in my favor. Everything went my way.
I changed my mindset, my thought patterns, and my limited beliefs I had about my potential. I can do it all, and I’ve accomplished plenty so far.
Things were difficult. I had a lot on my shoulders, but the transformation was beautiful and I’ll do it all over again.
Keep going, it gets great(er)
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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Shout Out to The Woman I’m Becoming
I love this for me. I can feel myself transforming into the woman of my desired reality. I act how I want, I radiate how I want, and most importantly, I receive what I want with easy ease.
She’s no longer fearful, now fearless.
She no longer moves with caution, now confidence.
The books I read, the environments I place myself in, the people I choose to follow & entertain all shaped me into the legend worthy Goddess I am today.
I do not know what the Universe has planned for me, but I must say I’m very pleased and grateful thus far.
I AM BLACK FEMININITY AT IT’S FINEST
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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MORNING ROUTINE OF A RICH GROWN WOMAN
An easy day, but a productive day nonetheless. First things first, I wake up as soon as my alarm goes off and begin my refresh routine.
Skincare Routine
Morning Affirmations
Vitamins
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Next, I prepare to do yoga. I mix meditation with yoga & I like to do a warmup routine following along with a professional. It’s important to make sure you’re stretching properly and challenging yourself regularly.
Open my playlist of saved yoga videos
Brew a cup of tea
Practice having a still mind and not entertaining busy thoughts
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Yoga is a cute workout, but I still like to go to the gym. I don’t only utilize the gym for fitness purposes. At Equinox, I use their classes to meet acquaintances. I also take classes around the city and network that way as well.
Spoiling myself with workout clothes to ensure that they’re seen, worn and used as motivation to work out
Using a personal trainer to pinpoint personal goals and have professional help to make sure I get there and stay there
Adjusting my diet to give me the support I need, especially after a workout
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So we are back home and very hungry. I love to have fruit in the AM. I try to stay away from coffee, however it can’t stay away from me. I drink it with a straw though so I don’t stain my teeth.
Use juicer to make fresh pineapple juice
Cook instead of buying food outside
No sugar, use honey as sweetener
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Oh I almost forgot! I have an appointment at Cartier. Let me throw something cute on for the mall
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Cute and comfy, ready to go! Cartier laid the red carpet out for me. I appreciate it, especially since I’m here at least once a week. Champagne me, please!
Treat myself to the five digit priced piece I’ve been eyeing for a few months
Upgrade my statement ring
Stop at other stores in the mall, since I’m here
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Busy businesswoman things, I have a quick business call. Cartier was kind enough to let me use their VIP client room. Talk soon 💋
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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I WANT…SO I WILL…
I usually do this in my journal, but I’ll share it with you today. “A goal without a plan is just a wish”- Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
I want to level up & be seductive with ease so I will use my time wisely and do the work by watch YouTube videos, reading books, using the advice I learn on Tumblr, and reflecting everyday on how I can be a better woman
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I want the ability to purchase my desires without hesitation so I will not only focus on tripling my own income, but also focus on securing a few sponsors to fund my lifestyle for me
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I want to be the woman I visualize in ten years so I will make it a priority to complete my education, focus on my career, my passions, and overall work on implementing permanent discipline in my life
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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THIS BLACK GIRL’S FEMININITY
My femininity journey became a lifestyle. I love embracing activities I wasn’t exposed to earlier, such as opera and tennis.
My favorite new hobby is playing the violin. I wouldn’t even call it a hobby, it’s more of a priority. I admire how I take time out of my day to practice what I learned in class.
I’m also embracing more exquisite options of sushi, instead of playing it safe. Once I began to open my taste palette, my mind and opportunities began to open as well.
I have friends that can travel to Dubai at the drop of a dime. I have lovers who splurge on me randomly and frequently.
Life is good. Life is lavish.
MY AURA ATTRACTS ABUNDANCE
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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✨Feminine Shadow Work✨
1. Where do I lack femininity?
2. What masculine habits did I exhibit/see in my childhood?
3. Why did it take me until now to work on my femininity? What caused the hesitation or denial?
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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The Beautiful Black Feminine
You are the art in the museum that’s guarded with overnight security.
Your essence is exquisite, a delicacy
Organic beauty at its finest, no need to cosplay
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I HONOR THE BEAUTY OF THOSE BEFORE ME
🤎The beauty in my blackness is valuable yet priceless
🤎Honoring my melanin ensures my desires are fulfilled
🤎My essence catches the attention of those who intend to invest in me
Soar beautiful black feminine. The world is your oyster 🦪 (and let your suitors be your glass of Sauvignon Blanc)
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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I am expanding. I am evolving.
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✨The influence I have never goes unnoticed
✨My evolution includes unlimited abundance
✨I am entering my elite era
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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Matcha lemonade. Telfar collection. Frequent vacations. Fine dining. Floor to ceiling windows. Skyline views. Dinner in the Sky. Aesthetic water bottles. Equinox membership. Açaí bowls. Homemade smoothies. Cleaning service. Groceries delivered. Rising before sunrise. Flowers delivered. Gifts received. Financial abundance. Perfume collection. Lemon Drops. Lady Dior.
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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LIFE OF A TROPHY WIFE
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Thank you Divine Goddess for blessing me with the opportunity to be taken care of immensely and generously. I wouldn’t have the Mercedes Maybach, the 4 acres home, nor the multimillionaire husband who thinks I walk on water if it wasn’t for you.
My patience has paid off. My self love journey has evolved. I am benefiting from the seeds I’ve sowed.
I visualized this. I brought this into 3D, so just imagine what else I can have blossom in my favor
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