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haruharuz · 2 years

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Subtle ways to change how people view you:

Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation

Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace

Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things

Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume

Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent

If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.

Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.

Stop messing with your little imperfections only you notice. There’s no need to straighten your shirt, rub your hand down your pants etc. Leave it be and you will appear more confident.

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swabian-princess · 11 months

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My current beauty routine

Monday: - am: brush teeth with whitening toothpaste. wash face with microbiome friendly foam cleanser. mix toner with vitamin C serum and apply. use hyaluronic acid serum while face is still damp. use sunscreen. brush hair and use gisou honey infused hairoil. put hair in clawclip. apply deodorant. apply perfume. - pm: dry brush. use clinique balm to cleanse face outside of shower. take cleansing balm off in the shower. use microbiome friendly body wash 2x. double cleanse with BHA gel cleanser. apply babyoil on the body while skin is still wet. step out of the shower. let body air dry. use toner on face. apply chemical peeling on face. moisturize face. apply jojobaoil on face and neck. use deodorant. use perfume. brush hair and massage serum in. do a low ponytail.

Tuesday: - am: the same - pm: the same but with shaving. use microbiome friendly body wash with an exfoliating glove. scrub body down. shave. use microbiome friendly bodywash again.

Wednesday: - am: the same - pm: the same but with facemask. cleanse face with clinique balm. double cleanse with BHA gel cleanser. apply BHA mask. let it sit for 15-30min. wash mask off in shower. do skincare after shower. switch jojobaoil for laneige cica sleep mask and apply thick layer.

Thursday: - am: the same - pm: the same but with shaving and hair washing. wet hair throughouly. apply bond repair shampoo. massage with silicone scalp massager. apply bond repair conditioner. let sit for 5-10min. rinse. wrap in microfiber towel for 40-60min. apply hair serum. apply heat protectant. blow dry with dyson airwrap. use gisou honey infused hair oil. do a low ponytail.

Friday: - am: the same - pm: the same

Saturday: - am: the same - pm: the same

Sunday: - am: the same - pm: the same with shaving, hair washing, facemask and hair removal. pluck eyebrows. trim eyebrows. cleanse face. shave off facial hair.

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swingingbaby · 1 year

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HE APOLOGIZED

So I woke up this morning to get ready for school and i find a text message from him

This just shows that if you ignore a man for long enough he’ll come running back.

#high maintenance #high class heaux #dark feminine energy #high value woman #trophy heaux #spoiled gf #hypergamy #luxury #luxury heaux #heaux tips #rich heaux

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red-pill-to-swallow · 7 months

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Doing your part in a relationship

Hey babes,

it’s Monday – a new, fresh week and the ultimate opportunity to make some changes.

I don’t know why it feels so much better to start a new routine on a Monday than it does on a random Wednesday.

I took some time after I posted my last two posts and really thought about the relationship dynamic between my man and me.

I thought about changes that I would like to make and what could help us to become a better couple.

Honestly, I was pretty shocked after all my thinking because it turns out that my man is the rock in this relationship and I am not sure why he is still sticking around when he could probably do so much better.

But let me explain:

I gave up working in my full-time job around January 2023 and have been home ever since then.

My man was aware that I was totally burned out from my job and offered me that I could stay at home and take care of the household chores.

Previously we used to split the chores around the house roughly 50/50. It was very fair and in some weeks he did more than me and some weeks I did more than him, like it’s in every relationship.

I would say that I am fairly good at housekeeping. I know how to cook, how to clean and how to do laundry.

However – I never before was responsible for everything. From going grocery shopping and planning meals to cleaning the bathrooms every week – suddenly all of this was on me.

I struggle really bad with organizing myself, this was one of the reasons why I was so burned out from my previous job, and I started slacking.

I would do the laundry one day and take three days before I started folding it. My man literally had no underwear one time and flipped out because that’s obviously disgusting and instead of improving – I started to get mad at him.

It wasn’t only the laundry, it also began affecting my cooking – which I loved doing before – and I would start making only frozen meals or just serving cold meat cuts with bread.

We started fighting a lot more because my man was sad, that instead of relaxing at home he would need to help me with my chores – after a full workday.

I had my epiphany a few weeks ago (when I made this blog) and realized that my man has every right to be mad at me. He does his job. I am not.

So, let’s see – my man works really though hours. He leaves the house early in the morning and comes home in the early evening. He’s usually stressed because his job is very demanding and he is responsible for a lot of people.

Imagine coming home to your girlfriend, who’s staying at home, and almost nothing is done. The fridge isn’t restocked, the floor is dirty and there is no food. After your shower you realize that you have no fresh underwear because your girlfriend didn’t wash any.

I would flip out too.

My behavior was/is borderline disrespectful and I am honestly ashamed because of it. I would have broken up with me if I was him.

But here we are – still together and I don’t plan on dodging this second chance.

I think many girls that want the lifestyle of a spoiled girlfriend or a stay at home girlfriend don’t realize how hard it is to organize a whole household on your own.

Yes, there might be some men out there that are so rich that they don’t mind employing staff to help around the house, but I don’t think that this is achievable for a woman in her twenties without having various high value connections in the right circles. At least I don’t have those connections.

I am responsible for keeping the house clean, making food and going grocery shopping. That takes maybe 5 hours of my day and the rest of the time I can do whatever I want.

My man only wants to come home to a clean, organized house with a stocked fridge and possibly a hot meal on the stove.

Honestly – he is the one that is working his ass off every day, not me.

The worst is, that I even started to neglect my appearance. I used to shave every second day and that slowly progressed to only once a week. I used to color my hair religiously and worked out at least three times a week.

Now I haven’t touched up my hair in over three months, my roots are disgusting and I am very ashamed because of it. I mean, even though my man pays for my beauty appointments – I couldn’t get my ass up.

However, I cleaned our whole house today. From the bottom to the top. It’s spotless. I did laundry and went grocery shopping and I made a plan on how to maintain all of those things.

I won’t share the plan just yet because I want to make sure that I can actually follow it before I share it with you.

What should you take with you after reading this rant?

Be careful that you’re always a responsible partner. Don’t be like me. If you’re telling your partner that you plan on doing something – actually follow through and do it. Don’t disappoint them all the time.

Make sure that you acknowledge what they do for you and thank them for it every once in a while.

It is unattractive to be lazy and not being able to keep up with your standards. It’s unfair to your partner to let yourself go and they have every right to be upset about it.

Think before you speak and start an argument. Are you really right? Is it worth to start an argument about something that is your responsibility?

I mean, my man made it clear in the beginning: If I want to stay at home and live a cozy life – I have to take care of the house while he works and provides for us both.

He does his part of the agreement. Every single day.

I’ve only done my part of the agreement when I felt like it and that is not okay. But I am changing and I know that he has already forgiven me for all the hassle.

See you soon

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insiderfemme · 2 years

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You deserve to thrive in your femininity and be with a masculine man. A masculine man that plays his role, therefore giving you space to be in your feminine and live your ultimate soft life. Don’t settle! Real men are out there, just make sure to use this time to prepare and work on yourself so you can attract- not chase.

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karinakan · 2 years

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How I will level up and also marry a Wealthy man✨

Hi, Nice to meet you! Call me Karina. Basically this blog is for me to keep myself accountable for my goals on becoming a high value version of myself.

Goals:

Have a morning and night for week days and weekends

Make time for other hobbies (ukulele, language learning, reading, spiritual stuff)

Perfect looks

Health:

Make a diet plan/ cut out unhealthy foods little at a time

Go back to intermittent fasting

Start a workout routine and stick to it

Listen to subliminal

Take medicine every single day

Create a morning and night routine

Mental health:

Start therapy

Journal every other night

Make time for meditation, spell work, and deity worship

Physical:

Start building wodrobe

Achieve dream body

Master everyday Makeup look

Find a hair style that fits your face

Make sure nails and toes are ALWAYS DONE

NEVER leave the house not looking your best

Rich bitch shit:

Master seductiveness and flirting

Learn rich people hobbies like (golf, horse riding, real estate etc.)

Read up on current events

Know where the old money wealthy people usually hangout/ network to get into these circles

Find eligible bachelors

#spoiled heaux #black femininity #sugar bowl #spoiled trophy wife #trophy wives #spoiled gf #high value heaux #hypergamous heaux #hypergamy #sugar dating #heauxlife

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haruharuz · 2 years

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If you want to be her you need to start acting like her.

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swabian-princess · 1 year

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5 life lections with me

Hey girlies,

I’ve come across many delusional posts in the last few weeks and I‘ve wanted to put my two cents.

Please, take all of this with a grain of salt because I am only twentythree and not some old oracle.

Lection 1: You probably won’t marry a billionaire, no matter what you do

I know, many feminity and levelling up influencers tell you that eveything is possible if you do this and that.

Some swear that manifestation works and some tell that Jesus Christ himself blessed them after they joined certain church groups.

Okay, but let’s speak facts: the chances that you’re marrying a billionaire are very low.

The chances that you’re marrying a young, good looking, wants you to be at stay at home girlfriend billionaire are even lower. Those men have their established social circles and tend to marry women within those circles. If you don’t have the right background, social network and education it’s nearly impossible for you to get in those circles.

However, your chances on marrying a handsome looking, appropriate aged man with a good paying job are very high if you put the work into it. I‘m talking surgeons, dentists, lawyers or engineers.

Lection 2: You have to do the work

My dear @memoirsofmimimango recently wrote a post about modern trends (highly recommend checking out her blog, she’s speaking straight facts.) and she touched the subject manifestation.

YES, manifestation can alter your thoughts and put you in a better headspace to stay motivated and reach your goals but that’s it.

You won’t get abs because you wrote it 36 times on a piece of paper, no. You’ll have to eat right and work out.

You won’t magically find your soulmate because you wrote down a character description of them and put it under your pillow, no. You’ll have to go out, meet people and actually talk to them in order to build a relationship, wether it’s platonic or not.

Lection 3: Learn from your mistakes and forgive yourself

Everybody makes mistakes. Everybody. Yes, maybe those mistakes hurt like hell and drag you back down to rock bottom but you have to move on.

You have to move on and forgive yourself, even if it hurts a lot and even if you loose people on your way.

Let’s say you fail 9 times but have succes at your 10th try – you would never know if you didn’t try it one more time.

Lection 4: Value friendships

I go out and make an effort to make friends and keep them. It is so important that you have a couple friends you can trust. Yet, like every relationship friendships are not build over night.

We live in a time with unlimited messenger options, please, for the love of god – text your friends. Call them. Ask them how they are. Make them feel important and valued.

Lection 5: Health is wealth

It is so important to be healthy. Physically and psychically.

I live in Germany and I am very privileged to have 40 paid vacation days. I schedule those days so that I can have at least a few days off every few months and time for a bigger vacation every six months so that I don’t burn out.

I also go out of my way to eat healthy, cook and prepare fresh food and try to stay away from drugs, alcohol and cigarettes.

I get bloodwork done regularly and supplement accordingly. I’ll have to work on my workout routine but I try to get my 10k steps in every day.

Don’t take your health for granted, you’re still young and many people only think about how they’ll look and feel when they’re 80+.

Well, but between your twenties and eighties there are also a few years and you still want to look and feel good when you’re 40 or 60, so work on your health.

Selene

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swingingbaby · 1 year

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My talking stage with R is officially over.

I started to like him towards the beginning of October after we first kissed at the grade 11 dinner. He was my best friend and I thought he liked me too but he rejected me the next day when I told him I had feelings for him. It was the end of that.

He called me on November 28th and he confessed his feelings for me, he said he rejected me because everything was just so confusing because exams were coming up and he was just so overwhelmed.

I liked him so much so of course I let him come back. He seemed to have been putting in effort for the first 2 weeks but after that it was clear he was losing interest. He would always switch on and off with me. He wouldn’t talk to me for a couple days and when he would come back he’d pretend as if it was normal.

I told him that it killed me whenever we wouldn’t talk and he read it as if it were nothing. He didn’t even wish me merry Christmas which really hurt but it should’ve even clear to me that he never wanted me. I can’t keep wanting people to prove themselves to me if they aren’t even willing to try.

He wrote me a paragraph about how I was his comfort person but if I really was he wouldn’t be treating me this way. I feel like such an option. I keep telling myself that I’m done with him but whenever he shows me just a micro spect if attention I go running back to him. I just blocked him but I wouldn’t be surprised if I unblocked him.

I always wanted him more and all I wanted was for him to talk to me. I can’t keep doing this. If he wants to talk to me, he will and if he doesn’t then I guess that’s that end of it.

When I went for vacation to swakop I go him a mood ring, a German sticker that reminded me of him and our zodiac charms because I wanted to make matching necklaces but now I’m f-ked because he’s the only Sagittarius I know.

I even wrote his name in the sand

For a while I’ve also been getting suspicious of a girl he has been getting close to. He seems like he would interested more in her and not me. I would of appreciated it more if he just told me. If he told me that he was losing interest he could of saved me from feeling like a complete idiot.

I told him to treat me the way he wanted to be treated and he said he didn’t know how he wanted to be treated. Maybe he shouldn’t be looking for a relationship then.

If I knew he was so selfish and emotionally unavailable —maybe I wouldn’t of fallen for him

#the other woman #men suck #talking stage #toxic relationship #toxic men #heartbreak #heartbreak hotel #hypergamous #hypergamy #spoiled #spoiled gf #secure the bag #high value heaux #dark feminine energy #divine feminine #high maintenance #high value woman #high class heaux #trophy heaux

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red-pill-to-swallow · 8 months

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Introduction

Hey babes,

welcome to my blog!

I’ve been lurking on hypergamyblr and leveling up blogs since forever and the advice I got from there actually helped me to achieve some of my goals.

A few weeks ago I stumbled upon a subreddit called “RedPillWomen”, and it was eye opening. Don’t get me wrong – I don’t necessarily support every theory on there but right now it just makes sense for me and my lifestyle.

But let me tell you something about myself, so you get an idea:

I am a white woman in my early twenties

I have a finished degree

I live in Europe

I am in a longterm relationship with my man (+3 years)

We live together in our own apartment

My man is very succesful and has his own company

I love to cook and to bake but I don’t really like cleaning

I am a homemaker and a spoiled girlfriend (can you be both?)

I am happy and content with my life but I want more. I promise you, that I’ll always tell the truth on my blog and the truth is, that the relationship with my man isn’t the best right now.

We’re not constantly fighting and there is no toxicity or jealousy in the relationship but it is lacking affection, gratitude, sexual attraction and date nights.

Sometimes it just feels as if I’m living with my platonic best friend which isn’t bad at all but I want to bring this sparkle back into our relationship.

I am a firm believer that every relationship needs work. It’s never like in the books or movies, where everything just comes together and somehow works out for decades. It’s hard work.

I also understand if someone would rather break up with their partner than try to fix the relationship, there is no shame in doing so. Especially if there is any sort of abuse, toxicity or lack of attraction to the partner involved.

However, that’s not how it is in my relationship. I still think my man is hot, he never was abusive or nonsupporting to me. Never.

Besides that – he is financially stable, he has goals he wants to achieve and he works hard to provide for us. It would be dumb as hell if I would break things off with him, just because I don’t feel “the” spark right now.

Yes, maybe I would have more fun with another man, who is not working as much and has more free-time – but I have to think about my future and my goals. I have to think about my life in 30+ years.

I know what I want from my life and I know that if I’m staying with my man this life could come true!

What I want from life:

I want a soft life without worrying about being able to pay the bills

I want to be a homemaker

I want children and I don’t want to worry about being able to afford them

I want my children to be able to experience everything they want. No, I don’t mean spoiling them rotten with materialistic things, more like being able to finance them an exchange year in another country or attending a boarding school – if they want to do so. I also want them to be able to pick their hobbies freely, without worrying about money.

I want a stable relationship without drama

I want to be able to buy the clothes that I want

I want to be able to do all the beauty treatments that I want (maybe shallow but it is what it is)

I want to have the house where everyone feels safe and welcome

I know that I have the right foundation to achieve all of those goals, I just have to work hard for them.

It’s going to be quite a journey but I’m very excited about it. I will start to apply Red Pill theories to my life immediately and see where this is going.

I hope to meet some mutuals through this blog – so please comment if you are one, so I can follow your blog!

See you soon!

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trixiestella · 2 years

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Boyfriends that buy you three desserts 😌

#femdoll #vlogger #art #femmefatale #spoiled heaux #spoiled trophy wife #spoiled girlfriend #spoiled gf

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viktoriakomova · 1 year

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not to be one of those annoying goalpost-moving heaux but lsu just making it to nationals after the shit they've been through this season means so goddamn much. i wont say that its worth a natty to me (maybe i would if they actually fuckin had one already lmfaoooooo) but it is indeed worth a final 4 berth in my heart of hearts. i dont even care how they do next week. i dont expect them to advance but i hope they give a last performance as a team that they can be proud of. they already won my Honorary "In The Trenches" Hardship Slay Trophy geaux tigers 💜💛👑🐅😭

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hihimissamericanbi · 10 months

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Tag Game

okay, onto my next email in my post-vacation catch-up: this delightful tag from @blackberry-sunset aka brown eyed dream girl ok here we go.

are you named after anybody? my middle name is an old family name, otherwise no.

when was the last time you cried? you know it has been a minute i am probably due. wait no i take that back i cried last thursday after a woof of a convo with my mother.

do you have kids? what a question Tumblr, who are you my mother? (see above). no, i have endometriosis, and now have the iud and am in love with pain-free and child-free life and in fact is a big reason i found myself here in the first place (if my body can't make a baby, might as well see what other shit it can get up to) (oh turns out i can write gay porn based on children's fantasy books cool) (also i like girls huh who'd have thought)

do you use sarcasm a lot? ??? we are fic writers? of course we are sarcastic little shits??? like literally look at my last sentence

what’s the first thing you notice about other people? def their style. i am that cliche partnered late-in-life queer bloomer who is all about "your vibe." specifically? shoes and hair probably. which is hilarious considering my hair is usually in a messy bun and i'm usually in birks. which, i guess, does give you an accurate picture. rip me

what’s your eye colour? blue-green, the kind that changes

scary movies or happy endings? Blackberry said it best: "real life is scary enough, why would i want that in my fiction :( "

any special talents? besides being horny on main? and like, writing? i paint and i give really good touches/massages

where were you born? idk this is too identifying for me so I'll just say USA

what are your hobbies? Blackberry ALSO said it best with "procrastinating." I will add pestering my husband literally 24/7 I love writing simping Sirius bc i relate so so hard

do you have any pets? my angel baby puppy dog!!! (she is not a puppy nor is she a human baby. but I treat her like one)

how tall are you? Lol I'm keeping Blackberry's answer here too: "tall enough to ride! ;) i’m 5′4″ (162cm), basic girl height"

favourite subject in school? oh babes you KNOW it was theater. I liked English too. But i was born an attention whore from day 1. but only for the stage. at a party I AM NOT TO BE PERCEIVED. but i *am* to be invited. and i am to be admired from afar for my killer style and sick tattoos and flawless hair and makeup, of course.

Might also explain why I like writing dramatic Draco...

dream job? I TOO DO NOT DREAM OF LABOR however having said that as an IRL trophy wife with no kids if i could get paid to write about smut and sex sice I am already doing it that would be v cool. Anyone have any personal linkups with the audio porn industry? I made an outrageous resume I'm dying to share

Tagging fellow theatre heaux @achilleslikespeas and fellow smut sensationalist @spookymoonie

#tag game #theater kid #smut writer for hire #finding queerness after infertility #that's got to be a thing right?

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