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shesonthecorner · 2 years

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I was told to post this. Owned

#mine #me #girlsthatkissgirls #girlsthatlikegirls #lesbian #sapphic #beach noir #trophy girlfriend #sugar mama #loved #owned

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pedigreebaby · 2 years

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Tea - #1

I've been busy recently, but that's a good thing. The busier I am, the more money I make. The more money I make, the more changes I can make when I get back to school.

I have divided the things I want to work on into two lists.

Stuff I will do right now, and stuff I will do after accumulating my savings i.e. when school is in session again.

There's a lot, but that's another post.

Wish me luck.

#black hypergamy #hypergamy #hypergamyblr #lady of leisure #spoiled girlfriend #trophy girlfriend #black women in leisure #black women in luxury #luxurious black women #healthy wealthy #trophy lady #dating into high society #leveled up mindset #leveled up woman #trophy #spoiled trophy girlfriend

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theereina · 4 months

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Guy I’m seeing called me “a trophy girl” this a good thing? I was like like thank you lol I didn’t know what to say

I personally don't like the terms "trophy girl" or "trophy wife". It feels like being objectified, to be honest. It depends on the nature and context of the conversation.

Really, it's all on you.

#trophy girlfriend #trophy wives #inbox answers #answered asks #ask response #anon ask #anonymous #inbox

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teentoospoiled · 3 months

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Try.

With each try, you make progress.

Progress leads to completion.

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haruharuz · 2 years

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Subtle ways to change how people view you:

Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation

Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace

Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things

Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume

Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent

If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.

Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.

Stop messing with your little imperfections only you notice. There’s no need to straighten your shirt, rub your hand down your pants etc. Leave it be and you will appear more confident.

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swabian-princess · 1 year

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I refuse to complain.

I have no right to complain, not about my appearance nor about my health.

I have all the tools and knowledge to transform myself into the best possible version and until I tried everything, I simply refuse to complain about anything.

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lewdo · 10 months

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landonorris: P2 and a 🏆 at my home race!!!!! ❤️ you guys are crazyyyyyyyyyy 💙

#JHFVLIEHEBFVLJHSDFVOJHBDSDCLJHBWDFLJC #BREAKING NEWS: LANDO NORRIS HAS A TROPHY GIRLFRIEND HE POSTED A PICTURE OF THE PAIR KISSING TO HIS INSTAGRAM #lando norris #ln #f1 #formula 1

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red-pill-to-swallow · 7 months

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Doing your part in a relationship

Hey babes,

it’s Monday – a new, fresh week and the ultimate opportunity to make some changes.

I don’t know why it feels so much better to start a new routine on a Monday than it does on a random Wednesday.

I took some time after I posted my last two posts and really thought about the relationship dynamic between my man and me.

I thought about changes that I would like to make and what could help us to become a better couple.

Honestly, I was pretty shocked after all my thinking because it turns out that my man is the rock in this relationship and I am not sure why he is still sticking around when he could probably do so much better.

But let me explain:

I gave up working in my full-time job around January 2023 and have been home ever since then.

My man was aware that I was totally burned out from my job and offered me that I could stay at home and take care of the household chores.

Previously we used to split the chores around the house roughly 50/50. It was very fair and in some weeks he did more than me and some weeks I did more than him, like it’s in every relationship.

I would say that I am fairly good at housekeeping. I know how to cook, how to clean and how to do laundry.

However – I never before was responsible for everything. From going grocery shopping and planning meals to cleaning the bathrooms every week – suddenly all of this was on me.

I struggle really bad with organizing myself, this was one of the reasons why I was so burned out from my previous job, and I started slacking.

I would do the laundry one day and take three days before I started folding it. My man literally had no underwear one time and flipped out because that’s obviously disgusting and instead of improving – I started to get mad at him.

It wasn’t only the laundry, it also began affecting my cooking – which I loved doing before – and I would start making only frozen meals or just serving cold meat cuts with bread.

We started fighting a lot more because my man was sad, that instead of relaxing at home he would need to help me with my chores – after a full workday.

I had my epiphany a few weeks ago (when I made this blog) and realized that my man has every right to be mad at me. He does his job. I am not.

So, let’s see – my man works really though hours. He leaves the house early in the morning and comes home in the early evening. He’s usually stressed because his job is very demanding and he is responsible for a lot of people.

Imagine coming home to your girlfriend, who’s staying at home, and almost nothing is done. The fridge isn’t restocked, the floor is dirty and there is no food. After your shower you realize that you have no fresh underwear because your girlfriend didn’t wash any.

I would flip out too.

My behavior was/is borderline disrespectful and I am honestly ashamed because of it. I would have broken up with me if I was him.

But here we are – still together and I don’t plan on dodging this second chance.

I think many girls that want the lifestyle of a spoiled girlfriend or a stay at home girlfriend don’t realize how hard it is to organize a whole household on your own.

Yes, there might be some men out there that are so rich that they don’t mind employing staff to help around the house, but I don’t think that this is achievable for a woman in her twenties without having various high value connections in the right circles. At least I don’t have those connections.

I am responsible for keeping the house clean, making food and going grocery shopping. That takes maybe 5 hours of my day and the rest of the time I can do whatever I want.

My man only wants to come home to a clean, organized house with a stocked fridge and possibly a hot meal on the stove.

Honestly – he is the one that is working his ass off every day, not me.

The worst is, that I even started to neglect my appearance. I used to shave every second day and that slowly progressed to only once a week. I used to color my hair religiously and worked out at least three times a week.

Now I haven’t touched up my hair in over three months, my roots are disgusting and I am very ashamed because of it. I mean, even though my man pays for my beauty appointments – I couldn’t get my ass up.

However, I cleaned our whole house today. From the bottom to the top. It’s spotless. I did laundry and went grocery shopping and I made a plan on how to maintain all of those things.

I won’t share the plan just yet because I want to make sure that I can actually follow it before I share it with you.

What should you take with you after reading this rant?

Be careful that you’re always a responsible partner. Don’t be like me. If you’re telling your partner that you plan on doing something – actually follow through and do it. Don’t disappoint them all the time.

Make sure that you acknowledge what they do for you and thank them for it every once in a while.

It is unattractive to be lazy and not being able to keep up with your standards. It’s unfair to your partner to let yourself go and they have every right to be upset about it.

Think before you speak and start an argument. Are you really right? Is it worth to start an argument about something that is your responsibility?

I mean, my man made it clear in the beginning: If I want to stay at home and live a cozy life – I have to take care of the house while he works and provides for us both.

He does his part of the agreement. Every single day.

I’ve only done my part of the agreement when I felt like it and that is not okay. But I am changing and I know that he has already forgiven me for all the hassle.

See you soon

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pedigreebaby · 2 years

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Foundation #1 - SAVINGS

I have goals for when university is in session again. (The regulatory body for lecturers is on strike, so we have an impromptu holiday?)

Body goals, lifestyle goals; If there's anything I've learnt through observation, it's that money attracts money.

I spent so much of my teenage years hiding my body because of body image issues, dressing frumpy as a sort of defense mechanism that it became a lifestyle.

I want to change that.

In order to change that, I have to change my wardrobe and that involves money.

I work at my parent's company as a supervisor right now.

I've been saving part of my salary and commissions for nearly three years now.

I think it's time to spend that.

I only have about 2,000 dollars tho... and I want to save more.

I'm aiming for another four thousand before school resumes.

This way I can afford a better apartment than the one I currently have, a new phone, I'm aiming for an iPhone 13... and still have enough left over to change wardrobe and set some aside as an emergency savings account.

I'm turning 21 in July and if this luxury lifestyle is what I want, I think it's time to make some changes.

Wish me luck.

#lady of leisure #black hypergamy #black women in leisure #hypergamy #luxurious black women #black women in luxury #spoiled girlfriend #trophy girlfriend #dating into high society #trophy lady #spoiled trophy girlfriend #black femininity

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luxuryandlilacs · 8 months

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