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pinkandpurple360 · 5 months
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Triggering material: Dangerous SA victim blaming rhetoric of the HBoss fandom that’s sending a dangerous message and hurts real people:
Pretend this isn’t about your ship or your faves, just listen objectively.
[character] guess who, of HBoss is not a victim of r*pe / SA by [character] because:
The guy doing it to him is an abuse victim himself
This is not an excuse.
The guy doing it is sad and crying. His mascara is flowing. He’s on anti depressants.
I’m sad you think that’s an excuse to SA someone regularly.
The guy doing it doesn’t mean it.
Still doing it.
The guy doing it is a queer man!
His victim is a queer man.
The guy doing it has repressed sexual urges he needs to let out, his wife and him didn’t have a good sex life and she’s a bitch. He makes him feel better.
Hell fucking no. Just no.
You’re playing into the stereotype of gay men being sexual predators.
You’re defending the sexual abuse of a queer male character. An abuser can be any orientation. How many lgbt+ victims are afraid to speak out on their SA by another lgbt+ person, in case they also fuel stereotypes, do you think?
The guy doing it is offering him something in return
He’s holding his job and entire livelihood over his head and knows he can be killed by him at any time.
The guy doing it doesn’t understand consent cause he’s very sheltered, he doesn’t mean it. He’s actually in love.
Id argue that he doesn’t understand love because he’s sheltered, he actually just thinks consent doesn’t really matter. And a victim shouldn’t worry about the abusers rationality.
He (the main character) is just a sex worker so he can’t be a victim of SA, you’re a prude who hates sex workers
He is not willingly a sex worker this is not his choice of work, he has no choice in the matter. And sex workers have higher rates of SA and r*pe than any other member of the population!!! Sex workers are human beings who get to say “no” who shouldn’t have to sleep with people who abuse them and who people they find repulsive. They should choose who they want to be with, on their terms. Sex workers do not have to be down for everything!!!
It’s kinky and meant to be dark
If it’s meant to be dark it should stay dark, and stop trying to make the SA a comedy and then into a sad romance. It also worryingly, correctly portrays something sex workers have to deal with, Johns imposing increasingly violent, damaging, possibly fatal kinks on them with each session, and coercing the person to go along with the elevating kinks out of their comfort zone because they know that they can’t really decline.
He’s the top, he’s tough and he’s masculine. He’s confident in his sexuality. He can’t be a victim of SA
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Girl. Go home. That is sick. This is the worst fucking one for me because when are we going to let the myth die that only effeminate or weak virginal people can be victims of SA
He deserves it because he’s hypersexual to other people too, and he stole from the guy and played with his heart.
Nobody. Deserves. S.A. No matter what. Scream. Also being objectified in this manner actually triggers an unnatural hypersexuality as a way to claim back a feeling of control over the situation. That is no excuse either, but it shows that SA only leads to more SA.
(Some micro-aggression about bisexual/Pansexual or polyamorous people or anyone who is promiscuous in general, being down for everything from everyone at all times)
Stop.
He’s a bad person too! He’s just as toxic!
Bad people don’t deserve SA. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE A GOOD PERSON TO BE A VICTIM OF ABUSE
The guy doing it thinks He likes that sort of thing.
He was told “Stop it.” In that same scene. He won’t stop.
He’s a grown man who can make his own decisions.
You can be any age or gender and be a victim of SA, his decisions have been taken away from him. That is not something to be ashamed of. Small decisions being available don’t downplay big decisions not. His abuser is a grown man too.
Ok, it is SA, they need to break it off, make character growth, and then they’ll get back together healthier. Redemption!
“He can change!!” “I went back to him Martha, he changed just for me!” Once you get SA’d by somebody, PLEASE NEVER GO BACK TO THEM. YOU DONT OWE THEM SHIT even if they’ve changed. The reward for you not being shitty anymore isnt the love of the person you abused.
He secretly wants it and enjoys it, he’s playing hard to get. He hates himself too much to admit he loves it and is afraid to let it develop into love…the guy doing it is the real victim here.
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Jesus fucking H Christ hopping on a pogo stick Batman go to gilded jail
I know this last one is probably what the writers are trying to do but that doesn’t make it any less fucking disgusting and vile.
Lust shouldn’t be about force. And there’s no going back once you have forced that.
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When the giant gun store in your neighborhood celebrates Halloween with a Purge-themed window
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matarsack · 1 year
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your child goes to the street with empty hands to protest against the regime. they kill your child. they steal the body. you have to pay them 15x the minimum wage just to take back the body of the child they killed. they station guards at your house and cemetery so you won’t have a funeral. They put snipers on the roofs to shoot at people who attend the funeral. They kill more people.
your brother goes to the street with empty hands to protest against the regime. they kill your brother. you’re afraid they’d steal the body. you put the body on the backseat of your car and drive around town all night.
they kill your child. You’re afraid they’d steal the body. You go to the neighbors to ask for ice so you could keep the body at home.
They kill your boyfriend in front of your eyes. You stay on the street of the morgue for days so that they won’t steal the body.
They kill your child and bury the body themselves. You dig up the grave to take back the body they stole. They didn’t even put the body in burial sheets.
your child didn’t even have an ID. He had to leave school to work at a construction site. His biggest wish was to buy himself a cell phone so he could have an instagram account. they killed him during Friday prayers. you were afraid they’d steal the body so you kept it in the living room for 24 hours. 40 days later, his blood was still staining the carpet on which his body lay.
they killed more than 500 innocent people in 3 months. they imprisoned some 20000 more. They tortured and raped and traumatized and suppressed and ruined the whole environment and drove the economy into the ground and paraded around as a legitimate government and the world supported them.
they just executed a 23 year old. He was a gamer and was saving up to buy a ps5 and become a youtuber. All he did was to block a street and defend himself against a Basiji. He didn’t think they’d execute him for this. Now more innocent people are about to get executed.
Please. World. See us. Help us. Do something.
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agoraphobia-anxiety · 9 months
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My depression has gotten so severe that I don’t have the energy to go through with an attempt anymore.
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randomreasonstolive · 10 months
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Reason to Live #9152
 Not triggering yourself, having that self control from time to time.  – Guest Submission
(Please don't add negative comments to these posts.)
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shadilady · 7 months
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You'll have to be closer to me to know where that is.
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hobisexually · 2 months
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I have so many problems with karamo but the s8 finale… he sees an asian woman who has severe trauma surrounding her father due to (some) asian culture(s) not allowing people to properly talk to their parents about their emotions or issues with them because that could be seen as disrespectful, oui? so she hasn’t spoken to him after her mother died and that is hard, yes?
and this man chooses to surprise her in the car (after making her cry) with an unannounced FaceTime call with said father, which forces her to immediately talk about why she’s upset with him after three years of not speaking??????? without being prepared, without knowing what to say to a stubborn elderly asian man who never learned to deal with his emotions and fucked up because of it? REALLY?
the LEAST he could have done was tell her in advance so she could write it down for herself and so she could be prepared
sure they talked. sure they made a start. but at what cost. what violence did this wreak on her for no reason. jesus CHRIST THIS MAN ANGERS ME SO MUCH
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gramarobin · 10 months
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I just finished watching Shiny Happy People on Amazon Prime. I went out and did yard work for almost 3 hours to expel some of the jittery anger-sadness I felt afterward. So many memories, so much pain, and now immense regret for what I taught my own children. One adult child is out, one (along with my grandkids) is still very much a part of it all. Just breaks my heart. My hubs asked me why I was watching the documentary, I said because it makes me feel a little vindicated. I'm not alone in seeing the gross abuse, the misinformation and outright lies we were taught in my private chriatian school- that I turned around and taught my own kids. Horrible. I'm learning stuff at community college at 54 that was never mentioned in my xian high school. Infuriating! The whole "be a sweet doormat" was a message I lived the first 10 years I was married. I blame the bullshit I was taught in school and church for much of the dysfunction and periods of rebellion in my life. I'm incredibly angry the christian machine continues to abuse people with their teachings. *There must be something we can DO with our rage??* But what!?
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mech-mspec · 7 months
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Saw the original [bi] and wanted to do a few more
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luaa1111 · 1 year
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❤︎Skinny taste better than anything
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cassie-lmao · 1 year
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"i hope you know im not doing this to you on purpose" is not the apology you think it is. this means that even though i disclosed the specific things that can and will trigger an abandonment spiral, you did not care about them to the point where you straight up forgot their existence. this is even worse. like, if you hurt me this badly without even having a desire to do so, imagine how badly could you hurt me if you purposely wanted to?
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pinkandpurple360 · 5 months
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(Warning — Triggering, Abuse, Manipulation, SA)
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“I’m scared, dad…”
Horrifying thought that Stolas calling Blitz itty bitty imp and tiny imp and little impish plaything over and over and over again no matter how many times he’s told to stop, could trigger Blitz into remembering how he first met this man, as a terrified scared child who doesn’t want to do this, who could be killed if it goes wrong, but has to do this because nobody cares about his fear and protests, this Rich Prince enjoys being entertained by him, his performances as a clown and “performance in bed”, he has to do it for his family , his mother, and now his daughter and colleagues—leading to him deeply age regressing during their violent sexual scenarios and giving me fucking nightmares personally because then it’s even easier for stolas to control him and convince him he actually loves him and doesn’t need the Asmodean crystal
(If this was to be concluded realistically)
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“I’m sure your Big Royal Chicken he won’t let anything happen to his peppy little fuckdoll”
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How can they possibly be writing such a deeply layered twisted abusive “relationship” by accident. It just can’t be an accident. It’s a fantastically written realistic, layered, psychologically abusive relationship —-but I’m supposed to want them to go star gazing? I can only conclude from now on that he’s been pretending to find the owl attractive for so long that he’s starting to think it’s real and maybe even love even though he inexplicably hates himself more and more and becomes more hypersexual and predatory and violent himself after each month passes
Blitzs performance has never ended, he doesn’t know he’s still performing he won’t realise it until it’s too late, and the Owl has trapped him in his cage with him
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beingthisgayisart · 5 months
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I'm so sorry if I ever triggered anyone, I feel so bad
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TRIGGER WARNING
Suicidal thoughts / ideation.
This is the only place my family is not there and I need to get this it. I am seriously thinking about it. I am a liability to my family. I don't work. My health expenses are something we can't afford. It seems like the only logical thing to do. I have tried working. Nothing has worked out. I need to be out of their lives for them to thrive.
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agoraphobia-anxiety · 9 months
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I complain I’m alone but I hate people and push everyone away.
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howifeltabouthim · 8 months
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I felt tender and volatile, and worried that if I thought about anything too hard, it would make me upset.
Katherine Lin, from You Can't Stay Here Forever
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