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peterokii · 5 months

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high school trauma or why i cant make friends

#vent #personal #toxic friendship #adhd rsd

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chaosmagicwanda · 9 months

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No matter how good you could be to somebody, no matter how much you love them, they can and will turn their backs on you.

#sad post #sad posting #sad thoughts #betrayal #fake friends #fake people #toxic friends #toxic friendship #toxic people #toxic behavior #grieving a friendship #friendship breakup #friendship loss #breakup #losing a friend #grief #heartbroken #heartbreak

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robinsnestwoutrest · 4 months

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How I’ve Been Feeling // A Friendship is Burning To Ashes (And I’m Not Sure If I’m Angry Or Just Tired)

Be Nice To Me - The Front Bottoms // Tired - beabadoobee // ritikajyala // Tucker Edwards // aidashakur // Best Friend - Lauren Aquilina

#how I’ve been feeling #a friendship is burning to ashes #idk if I’m tired or angry or just empty #webweaving #web weaving #web weaving: friendship breakups #friendship breakup #friend breakup #losing a friend #toxic friendship #words words words #lyrics #quotes #oof ouch ow #personal #mood #she blames me for everything and then wonders why everyone leaves her #hmmm I wonder why

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furiousgoldfish · 2 years

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me trying to be in a friendship/relationship: i just don’t want to hurt them, I will go above and beyond just to avoid causing them any pain or discomfort, I’m ready to shrink my problems so they don’t affect or upset this person, I do not want to leave a scar on their life like a lot of people have left on mine

me, some time later, after some shit went down: OH. They don’t care if they hurt me.

#betrayal #navigating friendships #navigating relationships #trauma symptoms #one-sided protectiveness #heartbreak #toxic friendship #toxic relationships

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dontknowwhyiam · 1 year

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i don’t know if it hurt more to know you or to let you go

// pinterest // phoebe bridgers, waiting room // pinterest // audrey emmett // pinterest // vladimir nabokov // pinterest // steven espada dawson, elegy for the four chambers of my brother’s heart //

#web weaving #boygenius #phoebe bridgers #losing a friend #toxic friendship #friendship

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it-was-yxu · 9 months

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How the fuck do you have absolutely no self-awareness about how you treat other people, even your closest friends?

#toxic friendship #toxic relationship #friend breakup #friendship breakup #storage #fox

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jirai-princess-annabelle · 3 months

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Running into your toxic friends, standing up to them, and cutting them out of your life be like:

#my post #pien #ぴえん #pien kei #ぴえん系 #pienblr #my melody #kuromi #sanrio #toxic friends #toxic friendship #fake friends #mental health #mental health matters #honestly i wish it would happen so i can stand up for myself like i should have

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coolmaycroft · 5 months

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It didn't scare me enough back then... It does now.

#the coffin of andy and leyley #tcoaal #andrew graves #ashley graves #toxicity #toxic friendship

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cherriblossumsblog · 11 months

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moonlightsapphic · 10 months

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wait wait wait wait so are we just not gonna talk about Nimona’s homoerotic childhood best friendship with Gloreth who turned out to be a brainwashed terf and then how it all ended with a traumatic breakup ooorrrrr

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starlightsweetheart · 9 months

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Some friendship... (also I'm fucking up past and present tenses, but idgaf)

You know I just realized how absolutely humongous a crock of shit the whole Maya turning into Riley because she's getting better grades thing is, and that Riley only was accusing her of that because of Lucas. I mean, I knew it was bullshit before, but I never really though of how gigantic a 💩 it was until today.

Girl Meets Father is the fourth episode of season one. In that episode, Cory gives Maya an F on her test. Maya gets upset that she failed the test.

Maya tells Riley that "sometimes, I'm not so proud of who I am".

Maya tells Riley and Cory that she "tried to write like I was smart", Riley responds that Maya is smart.

Cory corrects Maya on one answer of the test saying "it's a tiny difference but an important one. Because if you know it, Maya, you don't fail". Maya then replies "I want to not fail".

Riley was encouraging Maya, while Cory was quizzing her on the subject of the test.

Maya says to Cory: "I just don't wanna fail, Mr. Matthews.

We go from that (Riley encouraging Maya to grow and better herself) to season three, Girl Meets Triangle, where Riley accuses Maya that the person that Maya has grown into is not who she really is.

Riley tell the art teacher that "Maya's a rebel". That Maya dances on teachers' desks, is the queen of detention and the president of Mayaville.

Riley is saying that Maya needs to be fixed because "she's been getting good grades, she's behaving all over the place".

Maya tells Riley, "I'm me! I've always been me, I'm always gonna be me! Nothings going to change that!", Riley retorts with"you haven't stood on a teachers desk or been in detention for a long time. You sold your house in Mayaville and you moved to Rileytown."

No matter what Maya says, Riley keeps insisting that Maya turned into her, blah blah blah.

Riley goes on about how Maya's style has changed towards Riley's style.

So, in the beginning of the series Riley was encouraging Maya to grow and do better. Maya even told Riley that she's not proud of who she is. Maya does mature and grow...

THEN Riley finds out that Maya likes the same guy as her. That can't happen, she can't have Lucas choosing Maya; so she accuses Maya of becoming her and wants Maya to become that failure that Maya thought she was in the beginning of the series (plus telling Maya that while Riley will have one husband, Maya will go through 5 husbands and that Lucas won't be one of them). Riley accuses Maya pulling the fire alarm, of stealing from the cafe (for me, that kind of accusation is something that a friendship can never bounce back from) and she basically forces Maya to revert back to the person she wasn't proud of being, to believe that she doesn't deserve good things or good guys... all because they like the same guy.

Thus, by the end of the series; Riley destroyed all of Maya's growth and forced Maya's regression and Riley became a hypocrite.

#girl meets world #gmw #lucaya #my take #realization #realisation #anti riley #anti r*cas #maya hart #Maya deserved so much better #Riley is a hypocrite #Maya's regression #toxic friendship #how was Riley the main character?#she's soo opposite of a protagonist #I don't understand how Riley/Rucas fans don't see this #smh smh #breaks my heart

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hsgrace · 1 year

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not to be dramatic but i’m really upset and unhappy today.

all those words and i still don’t feel like i got this feeling out or even really managed to say anything of value about it at all.

#vent comic #trauma #manipulation #emotional abuse #toxic relationship #toxic friendship #digital art #illustration #sketchbook #i thought about what you said

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chaosmagicwanda · 9 months

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“Sometimes self-love shows up as the willingness to release people who have no interest in learning how to love you. You deserve to be handled with care.”

- Michell C. Clark

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hatefilledsuggestions · 1 year

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Interesting to see those manipulative posts making rounds blaming people for their own low self esteem and claiming that their traumatic life filled with abuse and loneliness is their own fault, comparing it to having “main character syndrome”.

Just feels like op hates trauma victims and finds them annoying, and not wanting to feel guilty for feeling this way, has passed the blame onto the victims saying it’s their own fault they feel unloved and hurt. Real abuser type shit.

Anyway, if you feel unloved and hurt and lonely, you’re valid. If you have a low self esteem and feel like the world is crumbling around you, you’re valid. If your whole life has felt like a tragedy because of all the pain that’s been inflicted upon you, you’re valid.

It’s not your “ego” it’s not feeling “special” it’s genuine traumatic events sculpting your perception of yourself. We are only a reflection of what others have done to us. Our brain chemistry is literally fucked all to hell because of the massive amounts of trauma and abuse.

If people around you have made you feel unloved or unloveable through abuse and manipulation, that’s not your fault. If people around you have traumatized you and made you feel like the scum of the earth, it’s not your fault. And it’s ableist to insinuate otherwise.

We can’t just magically erase life long trauma that has literally influenced absolutely every aspect of our lives, and we shouldn’t be expected to do so just because some neurotypical fuck thinks we’re annoying for being justifiably upset and hurt.

#abusive relationship #actually traumatized #ptsd #toxic relationship #trauma #abusive people #actually cptsd #rsd #toxic friends #toxic friendship #bpd #cptsd #actually ptsd #abuse #mental illness #abuse victim #actually bpd #mental health

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lucayapie · 1 year

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Riley & Maya are kinda bad for each other

I hate this whole good influence / bad influence thing Riley and Maya got going on, which sucks for me because that’s basically the whole show.

It has just always felt like the two had this weird toxic view of each other. Maya idolizing Riley(’s life) and never disagreeing with her, never acknowledging the areas in which she might be lacking and also shielding her from the real world which prevents her growth. And then Riley only seeing Maya as this bad girl and not letting her grow out of that persona in season 3 with that terrible “you turned into me” arc.

It’s just really weird and such a missed opportunity for a show which tagline is “people change people” to have their two main characters prevent each other from actually growing up

#girl meets world #gmw #maya hart #riley matthews #lucas friar #farkle minkus #lucaya #riarkle #lucas x maya #riley x farkle #sabrina carpenter #rowan blanchard #corey fogelmanis #peyton meyer #disney #disney channel #toxic #toxic friendship

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ketterdamswinchester · 5 months

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So after getting out of a toxic friendship and a toxic relationship on two separate occasions I’ve learned that you don’t realize just how toxic the friendship/ relationship was until you’re out of it and that’s probably the hardest part about it.

#mental health #toxic relationship #toxic friendship

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