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witchyykitten · 1 year

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#actually traumatized #childhood trauma #trauma #trauma survivor #dysfunctional household #dysfunctional parents #dysfunctional family #dysfunctional relationship #toxic ex #toxic mom #toxic mother #toxic family #toxic parents #toxic love

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femmefatalevibe · 11 months

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Femme Fatale Guide: How To Learn To Love Yourself & Heal From Toxic People

Allow yourself to feel all your emotions and thoughts, authentically and without self-criticism or judgment: Acknowledge that you're grieving. Accept that you need to mourn your loss. Even if it is better to move on in life without these people, it is healthy and completely valid to grieve the relationships you had with these people – regardless of whether they were one-sided, deluded, or otherwise toxic. Allow yourself to cry, be angry, lie in bed, etc. Hit a pillow, sleep in all day on a weekend, or wear a set of pajamas for a WFH day. Give yourself permission to engage in self-soothing behaviors without any type of self-harm or self-sabotage.

Rest, relax, and pamper yourself in your leisure time: Spend time taking it easy – reading, watching TV, doing a face mask or another indulgent skin treatment, using a body massager, cooking dinner in a silk robe and slippers, lighting a candle, cozying up in a blanket, etc. Allow yourself to feel at peace. Create a sanctuary in your space.

Take time for introspection and self-discovery: Being in any type of relationship with toxic people is draining and can cause you to feel as though you've lost a part of yourself by trying to make the relationship succeed. Now, it's time to reclaim yourself after you've courageously cut out these toxic people from your life. Consider and honor your deepest desires, values, interests, hobbies, lifestyle, goals, aesthetic, food, sexual, entertainment preferences, etc. Go on a self-discovery journey to figure out who you really are, what you believe, and who you will work to become as you enter this new, exciting chapter of your life.

Journal, read, eat healthily, work out, drink plenty of water, and sleep: Go back to the basic healthy habits. Try to journal for at least 5-10 minutes a day (using a 5-minute journal, morning pages [writing 3 pages of stream-of-conscious thoughts first thing in the morning], journal or shadow work prompts), make 2-3 whole food, plant-based meals with carbs, veggies, fruits, proteins, and healthy fats, find some ways to incorporate movement into your day – 30-minute walk or yoga session is enough if that's all you can manage consistently, have your body weight in ounces of water daily, and sleep for around 7-8 hours a night. Do some inner child healing by taking care of your core needs.

Indulge in all of your favorites: There's a lot of fun you can have when you have total freedom regarding your daily activities and choices. Give yourself permission to enjoy this solitude. Wear your favorite outfits every day (occasion-appropriate options, of course), including pajamas, loungewear, lingerie, and accessories. Make your favorite meals and snacks throughout the week (incorporating some healthy options in there to feel your best – I love a good oatmeal bowl, frozen grapes, baked Japanese sweet potato, or a hummus and vegetable plate). Watch your favorite TV shows or movies. Indulge in a glass of wine you love or reread a favorite book. Create a masterful playlist. Plan a day of your favorite activities (a long walk, getting a coffee, indulging in a spa day, going to a farmer's market, going to a yoga class, etc.) Treat yourself like your own best friend.

Get comfortable doing things alone: Honestly, no one cares or is paying attention to if you're doing activities alone or with someone else. If someone shows too much interest in your solitude, they're probably projecting their own insecurities regarding their perceived social ridicule. Take yourself shopping, to the nail salon, out for a meal, to the movies, etc. alone. Personally, I love doing most of these things alone anyways. Running errands alone gives you some space to clear your mind and think freely.

Define what an ideal social life and/or relationship looks like for you: Once you've become comfortable with yourself and living life on your own terms, it's time to embrace your desire for human connection and socialization. Consider the types of people you want in your life – their values, personalities, interests, goals, favorite activities, relational boundaries, etc., and where/when/how often you want to interact with them.

Create an action plan: Reconnect with the people in your life who continue to show up for you and have been a light through these toxic relationships and their lasting effects over the months or years. Decide on the places, groups, and ways you'll reach out/try to meet these people. Figure out how to expand your network, and make new connections. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there. You won't vibe with everyone you meet, but it is worthwhile to engage in small talk with several strangers if even one of these new faces, later on, becomes a good friend or acquaintance. A varied social circle is a great way to enrich your life.

Take small steps, then strides: Be gentle on yourself throughout this entire process. It is perfectly okay to take one day at a time during the grieving process. Everyone's healing journey will look different and evolve at a different pace. Don't let these toxic people remain in your heart, mind, and spirit. Remember that you deserve love, kindness, happiness, success, peace, and patience.

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mrsdoubleagentstarr · 2 years

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I just want you to love me the way Iloveyou

#thoughts #writing #depressing quotes #sad life #toxic ex #breakup #sad qoutes #quotes #im lost #quote #anxious #depressing post #depressing shit #heartbreak #poetry #sad quotes #sorry for being depressing #spilled ink

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whyamisposts · 1 year

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honestly the most pathetic feeling is when you get in a fight with someone because all you did was express what made you upset and instead of apologizing, they find a way to make you feel bad about it so you’re left regretting even saying anything at all.

#fall in love #mental health #i love you #something in the orange #why am i talking #bpd life #fall into me #falling into your smile #i'm sad #im sorry #loving you #protect your mental health #toxic friends #toxic love #toxic ex #toxic positivity #feelings

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kissesbeneaththescars · 10 months

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🎉🎉 I WISH I WAS DEAD 🎉🎉

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scryarchives · 2 months

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𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐞 - 𝐬𝐮𝐤𝐮𝐧𝐚 𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧

seeing his ex at an after party, but hey, who's to say he doesn't believe in second chances?

my masterlist | vogue collab masterlist !

✭ pairings: sukuna ryomen x oc actor! au

✭ warning: angst. sukuna trying to win his ex back. established gojo x oc. actor au.

✭ author’s note: first time writing for kuna!! gotta say, it was fun writing angst :)

✭ word count: 1k words

disclaimer: i’m not of japanese descent and am unfamiliar with japanese honorifics, etc. feel free to correct me!

“Oh fuck.”

Sukuna’s eyes widened, muttering in shock. His confident smirk dropped the moment Gojo Satoru walked into the room, seeing the cocky smile on the white-haired man’s face, his sky-blue eyes hidden beneath his rectangular dark blue glasses. However, the sight of Gojo didn’t catch him off guard. The sight of the black-haired woman with striking lilac eyes left him speechless.

Himiko Nakamura. The memory of her just sends a shiver down his spine, and he can feel her fierce gaze through the crowd. No matter where she went, an overpowering presence followed, even in a celebratory award-afterparty such as this. She made her name as an actress at an early age – and it was one of the things that drew him in.

Sukuna couldn’t help but plaster his pompous smirk back on his face, but the little twitch in his was evident when he spotted Gojo’s arm around her shoulder. He hated that Gojo could hold her so freely, so casually. He hated every second of it, he hated the way he smiled at her, he hated the way she gave him the smallest of smiles back. He hated the way she didn’t shove him off when he neared her, and most of all – he hated that it wasn’t him holding her in that way.

His red eyes followed Gojo with a burning stare, watching the way the white-haired man had his arm slung so casually around Himiko. He waited patiently, taking another sip of his wine as he swirled it around in the glass.

A minute or two passes before Himiko finally pulls herself away from Gojo’s arms, and Sukuna smiles to himself with a soft ‘Finally!’ as he exhales. He sees her walk further away from the popular white-haired actor and towards the row of tables filled with drinks and snacks, and his feet take him closer to her.

He takes a step closer to her, one foot in front of the other and he feels his heart pumping harder in his chest. He adjusted his scarlet suit jacket, smoothing his pink hair down with his other hand, and he couldn’t help but admire the way the dark violet dress she wore complimented her figure, the shimmer of the fabric and glitter with every little move she made.

Sukuna cleared his throat, his mind running wild with all the ways he could greet her, but none of them came up as he saw her bright lilac eyes stare into his crimson ones, and his heart stopped. She was just as beautiful as the day she left him, yet her cold gaze brought him back to reality.

“Sukuna,” Her voice called out, and the bitter way she said his name had him rolling his shoulders back.

Her tone was an ice dagger to his heart, her disdain for him evident just by how she held herself. She stood proud and tall – like the walls she had built for herself when she was with him.

“Himiko,” His smile grew, and he eyed her up and down. “Aren’t you a sight for sore eyes?”

Her sneer deepens, eyes narrowing as she speaks in that icy tone of hers, “As if you’d miss me.”

Sukuna’s eyes soften the slightest, but it flickers back to his cocky demeanour. He sees it in her eyes from how she tilts her head – she knows. Neither of them said a word about it, the pink-haired man glancing at his wine glass with an amused smile.

“You’re sharp as ever, darling.”

“I’m not your darling,” She mumbles, “Not anymore. I think we both know that.”

He lets out a bittersweet smile, red eyes locking onto her lilac ones, “A man can dream, can’t he?”

“He certainly can, but it doesn’t mean that it’s reality.”

“But he can try until it is.”

She gives him a look, her hold on her glass tightening, “Sukuna, don’t.”

“I’m not saying anything specific,” He rolled his eyes, but his tone was uncharacteristically soft. “But… but what if I were to try again?”

Himiko’s back straightens, “I assumed so since you did hint at it, but you know why I left, Sukuna.”

“I do. But I can change, you know that Himiko.”

“Do I?” Her eyes narrowed. “Sukuna, I left you because you were so, so manipulative, you did anything to make me stay with you. I couldn’t take it, and you knew it, so forgive me if I don’t believe a single word you say.”

Sukuna opened his mouth to say something else, but a hand on his shoulder halted him, his red eyes met sky-blue ones, and the dreaded Gojo Satoru smiled over at Sukuna with a lighthearted grin.

“Hey Sukuna, long time no see!” His grin was too wide for Sukuna’s liking. “I see you you’ve met my sweetheart.”

This irks Sukuna to no end, a smile of disbelief growing on the tattooed man’s face, “You’re her sweetheart? Himiko, he’s going to ditch you for someone else by the end of the week.”

“Nonsense!” Gojo grins widely, pulling Himiko to his side. “Miko, has he been bothering you with his bad jokes?”

“...Yeah, definitely,” Himiko mutters, leaning into Satoru’s touch. “Let’s get out of here. I’ve had enough partying for tonight.”

Sukuna could see it in her eyes, the way she avoided his gaze now. Her posture remained upright, but everything in her body language was enough to tell him she was giving him the cold shoulder. He narrowed his eyes, ignoring the way his stomach tied into knots.

“It was nice to see you around, Sukuna,” Gojo grins, but it holds a dangerous glint. “But hey, it was fantastic seeing you again.”

Sukuna rolled his eyes red eyes with a grumble, but he fell silent as Himiko eyed him as she passed, Gojo’s arm a bitter reminder that she’s not his – and he doesn’t have a chance at redemption; not like deserved one anyway.

As she passes, the speakers blare a song, almost as if fate was mocking him, heck he barely stood a chance the moment Gojo Satoru walked in with his arm around Himiko’s shoulders. Kali Uchis’ voice rings through the venue, the upbeat tempo a sickening reminder of his failures.

‘Why can’t you see you’re dead to me? Just leave it be, you’re dead to me.’

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justaweirdonothingtoseehere · 26 days

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My friend after I told them not to get back with their abusive ex:

#good omens #crowley #ineffable husbands #aziracrow #good omemes #good omens shitpost #apology dance #toxic ex #fucking idiot #i love them but #theyre so stupid

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etherealsign282 · 1 year

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it's weird, when you're finally learning to set up boundaries everyone who seems to care says they're proud of you. Until the boundaries apply to them too.

now they're mad.

#boundaries #self help #emotional health #healing #gaslighting #Sorry you got too comfortable with my people pleasing and doormat behavior #toxicity #toxic ex #toxic parents #toxic people #mental abuse #mental health #manipulation

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wastedchildhood · 4 months

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apologies mean nothing to me. you’ll never change.

#ok to rb #ptsd #trauma #actuallytraumatized #vent #abuse #abuse survivor #mental illness #actually mentally ill #toxic ex #csa vent #abusive ex #abusive copycat #abusive relationship #abusive family

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feelingthedisaster · 3 days

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if i had a nickel for everytime i decided to not continue watching supernatural yet a few weeks later resumed watching, i'd had too many nickels bc she is like my toxic ex

#i need motivation to resume season 9 #i got mad at the writers for recycling plot said “thats it thats where i leave it” yet #I NEED TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENS #but i started watching another tvshow and like i cant drop her like that #but i really need to watch seasons 9-15 #see what i mean #toxic ex #spn #supernatural #supernatural fandom #dean winchester #sam winchester #castiel #destiel #charlie bradbury #spnfandom #supernatural brainrot

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lousydrawingsforgoodpeople · 2 years

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#breakups #doodles #bad art #lousy drawings #doodle #positivity #self love #healing #recovery #toxic ex #codependent #breakup #you will get over it #they sucked anyway

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wntrsnat · 1 year

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Regarding my last post… I do love 616 Clinatasha but lets not forget this:

Or this:

Or THIS:

AND KINDA THIS????

I’d add some parts of BW2020 by Kelly Thompson but I consider it horrendously ooc and the worst solo depiction of Natasha, so it doesn’t count 🥱

#clintasha #clint barton #616 clint barton #natasha romanoff #marvel #marvel comics #616 #earth 616 #toxic ex #explore #casual #chit chat #toxic

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mrsdoubleagentstarr · 2 years

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Don’t. . .

Don’t ever stop even though your heart is breaking

Don’t look over your shoulder at the love you left behind

They say life’s too short but they’re wrong

It’s so long

Sometimes the only way to go

Is to just go on

~JSE

#thoughts #writing #depressing quotes #sad life #toxic ex #breakup #quotes #sad qoutes #im lost #quote #anxious #poetry #spilled ink #depressing post #depressing shit #heartbreak #sad quotes #sorry for being depressing #spilled thoughts

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mystic-falls-poetry-by-janina · 1 year

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Es hat lange gedauert zu verstehen, dass dein Verlust nie ein Verlust war. Es war eine Bereicherung. Du hast mich immer klein gehalten, neben dir war ich allein. Seitdem du weg bist, bin ich mehr ich und so sollte es auch sein. Ich brauche dich nicht mehr.

@mystic-falls-poetry-by-janina

#eigenes #dein verlust #kein Verlust #besser ohne dich #besser als vorher #auch ohne dich #glücklich #narzissmus #narzisst #toxic ex #toxische liebe #toxische beziehung #toxische menschen #toxisch #vergangenheit

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aperiraa · 5 months

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my bf broke up w me bc i wont have sex w him bc the only thing i can get off to is using my rose n reading lo’ak smut 😭😭🫶🏽🫶🏽

First of fuck him second I think that might be a lil similar to what happened to me not to long ago and 3rd you r so real 4 that

#avatar #avatar 2 #avatar james cameron #atwow #avatar smut #atwow smut #avatar loak #loak #loak sully #loak x reader #break up #broke up #breakup #toxic ex

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oh-stars · 1 month

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Chapter Two of Fuck. I Think I Love You. is live!!

My first @strangerthingsreversebigbang fic is still posting, with chapter two now live!

Thanks again to @imfinereallyy for all of the amazing art and the playlist!! And to @lady-lostmind for betaing and cheerleading this story along!!

#steve harrington #steddie #ohstars fic #stranger things #steddie fic #eddie munson #robin buckley #toxic ex #fuck i think i love you #stranger things reverse big bang

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