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metamorphesque · 1 year

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touch as a love language

Margaret Atwood, Christophe Vacher, William Stafford, Alphonse Osbert, Shauna Barbosa, Sherrie McGraw, Natalie Diaz, Mark English, John Keats, Megan Howland, Marya Hornbacher, Ron Hicks, Sanober Khan, Ron Hicks, Banana Yoshimoto, Ron Hicks, Ocean Vuong, Anne Magill, Mary Oliver

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devilry-revelry · 4 months

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One of my headcanons for friendship Astarion is that he’s physically affectionate. Like touch is his love language. Not in a sexual way, but in a “I crave genuine connection/love/care”/“Oop maybe I’m a little touch starved” kind of way.

Like at first he doesn’t really realize because he’s never had the proper agency and rule over his body, and avoids contact until it’s absolutely necessary. But eventually the accumulation of these very casual but wayward touches gets him to realize.

It’s shoulders brushing during travel. It’s moments in battle when he’s offered a helping hand. It’s the friendly commaradary found around the camp fire. It’s the warm steadying hand when his nerves are frayed…

And then he’s coming up with ideas to initiate touch, because gods forbid he just come out and ask for a hug.

He comes up with a rather cunning ruse where he pretends that he can’t manage his own hair, and so he gets Tav to brush it and help tame his waves and curls with a casual and slightly annoyed, “Fix this for me, won’t you?” And then that turns into him returning the favor with an almost rebuking, “No, no. Let me. You’ve somehow created quite the rats nest.” As he brushes Tav’s hair. This turns into a sort of unspoken ritual. Tav doesn’t realize when it does or how it does. They just know that Astarion brings the comb and they take turns brushing.

It evolves from there with the help of time, and trust. Holding hands in moments of uncertainty or loneliness. Warm inviting hugs when he’s feeling particularly frazzled as the city of Baldur’s Gate comes into view. Sometimes him and Tav share a tent and share a quiet space reading books and mending clothing. After encountering Cazador he can’t find rest unless he’s holding Tav’s hand…

And he’d put on a show of being put out and annoyed for every ounce of it, but in reality he’s thankful for Tav’s acceptance and soaks up every ounce of it like a greedy cat.

#baldur’s gate 3 #Bg3 #bg3 astarion #baldurs gate astarion #astarion #headcanon #friendship #touch as a love language #but not in a romantic way #touch starved #just thinking my little thoughts #Tav as a security blanket

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always-tilting-at-windmills · 2 years

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From this touch

To this touch

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insanelydeadlybookcollector · 2 years

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Monica And Chandler Making Pointing A Sign Of Love Instead Of Disrespect

https://people.howstuffworks.com/why-is-it-rude-to-point.htm

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creativepromptsforwriting · 2 months

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Love Languages

Physical Touch

Expressing and receiving affection through touch, physical closeness, and other forms of physical connection.

hugging - just random, to give energy, to breathe them in

holding hands every chance they have

sitting close together, touching each other

gently massaging their partner

casually putting a hand on the other's body

pulling their partner on their lap

dancing together

being their big spoon

casually kissing their partner

warming their partner up by rubbing their body

running hands through their hair

cuddling on the couch together

letting them lay their head on their partner's lap

squeezing their knee in a public setting

pushing hair back behind the other’s ear

initiating sex and paying attention to their partner's preferences

#love language #love languages #physical touch #writeblr #writers on tumblr #writing prompts

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lotus-pear · 21 days

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"dazai would princess carry chuuya" "dazai would hold chuuya bridal style" no shutup dazai would pick chuuya up like he's a sopping wet kitten or a sack of potatoes

#its his love language to sling chuuya across his shoulder like a prized trout he just caught #skk height difference comin in clutch when dazai can hoist chuuya off the ground and dangle him in the air #and chuuya can bite and hiss and scream like a cat but his feet won't touch the ground #also sorry for not posting for the past month i got depression🥰#dw i'm back now #bungou stray dogs #bungo stray dogs #bsd #osamu dazai #dazai osamu #chuuya nakahara #nakahara chuuya #soukoku #skk #lotus draws

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vroomvroomwee · 7 months

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If I ever give you an interesting rock without uttering a word, you should know that that is the highest form of love I am capable of displaying and the highest honour I can bestow upon you

#words of affection #acts of service #quality time #gift giving #physical touch #no bro #rock giving #love languages #autism #autistic things #actually autistic #actually audhd #audhd #audhd things #adhd #neurodivergence #neurodivergent #neurodiversity

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lilbabyvalentine · 8 months

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yujateaandpi · 2 years

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Bless rottmnt for remembering that Splinter is an Asian dad.

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metamorphesque · 5 months

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Do you do web weaving requests? I've really been trying to find pieces about touch and love. Specifically from the pov of someone who's really not big into touch but somehow they make an exception for the one they love because they can't help but lean into them (as a sunflower would lean towards the sun), share their personal space with them. Touch as a language of love.

touch as a love language

#web weaving #asks #touch as a love language

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yvainart · 11 months

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