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transmascchiato · 4 months
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inkskinned · 2 months
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there's a video on instagram of a man kicking his partner's door in. the top comment is (with over 4 thousand likes): "how about you tell us what you did to make him that angry?"
barring emergency, nobody should be kicking anybody's door in. many of us lived in houses where it was always, somehow, an emergency. there is a strange, almost hysterical calm that comes over you in that moment - everything feels muted, and you almost feel, however incongruently, like you should be laughing. you are living inside of "the emergency." oh my god, you think. i am now a fucking statistic.
there is another comment with 2.8 thousand likes: "if this was a woman doing it to a man, nobody would give a shit."
do people give a shit now, though?
barring emergency, the door should remain standing. the emergency should be panicked, desperate - "i'm coming in there to protect you." many of us know what it feels like when the emergency is instead "i'm coming in there to get you."
1.5k likes: "and yet you post this for notes. glad to see being the victim has become your whole personality."
hysteria is a word connected to womb, from greek. what you're experiencing is so senseless and inhumane that you (a rational creature) try to find any ground within what is irrational and cannot be explained. one of the most frustrating things about staying in bad situations is that we also lie to ourselves. we also ask ourselves - wow. what did i do?
women can be, and often are, also abusers. abuse is not gendered. abuse is not just a "straight person" problem. abuse does not have a face or figure or sexuality. you cannot pick an abuser out of a crowd. an abuser could be actually anybody.
and then so many people rally behind the man kicking the door in. here is something nobody should be doing, right? you want to ask every person that liked that first comment: do you ask this because you side with him? do you ask this because it helps you feel safe from this ever happening?
in some ways, you're weirdly sympathetic to the top comment, because it is the same logic you see frequently. the idea is that the average, normal, sane person doesn't just break down a door. doesn't just shoot up a school. doesn't stalk and kill women. doesn't threaten sexual assault. doesn't run over protesters. doesn't shoot an unarmed black person. doesn't scream at underpaid walmart employees. doesn't just "lose it". something had to have happened, right? because the default (white. straight. cis.) - that is someone who is always, you know. "sane."
(right?)
on a podcast, you hear a sane, normal, rational person. "if you piss me off, i'm going to need to hit something. sorry but i'm not apologizing. that's just who i am that's how it is." his voice almost sounds like he's laughing.
you think of the door, and how you were almost laughing behind it, too. ironically, every real emergency in your life has almost felt peaceful in comparison. fire, car accident, flash flooding - these felt quiet, covenant to you. you'd stood in all of them, feeling them pass over and up to your chin, never actually overwhelming.
but when the door was coming down, you had felt - is there a word for that? there has to be, a word, right.
surely one of us has figured out the word for that, i mean. it's such a large fucking statistic.
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gawki · 2 years
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Wip ✂️🔪🪓
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phi-guy · 7 months
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I actually enjoy Kanan’s short hair look a lot. I think he’s very handsome with it.
Bonus Kanera!
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nightthinker-08 · 3 months
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*Taps mic* Yall gotta promise me to be normal about this or Im never drawin em like this again alright? Okay. Anyway hope yall enjoy this twink Pomni
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iliothermia · 11 months
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Aries
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fizzytoo · 8 months
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i had to get my hands on them BADLY
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saeiken · 4 months
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🔥🔥🔥🔥
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tepli-mravenci · 1 year
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do you ever have a problem you want to vent about on tumblr so you start writing the post but you end up ranting so much that by the time you finish the post you've had an epiphany and basically solved whatever problem you had and now you're like well I don't have to post this anymore cause the problem is gone so you just delete the post and the world will never know
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jaypentaghast · 5 months
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roach practice
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bloodrock-lobster · 6 months
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"duergar are ruthless and cold and cruel and bald an-" dONT CARE
JOY, HEAVY METAL/RED DEAD LOOKIN, DUERGAR CLERIC OF ILMATER BE UPON YE
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fubarfaggot · 9 months
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man something about top surgery really fixed something in my head. like now im putting aside money for tattoos and piercings and experimenting with my hair for the first time in years and actually taking ownership over what my body looks like? its so fucking weird. ive heard ppl say that they felt dissociated from their bodies pre-op and i didnt know what they meant until after i got the surgery bc now my body feels like mine and now im aware that it didnt before. its like popping your back and realizing how uncomfortable you were now that the discomfort you had normalized is gone. trippy man
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angelmush · 2 months
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it looked sooo pretty outside today :)
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toothr0tt · 7 months
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I found out today you get top surgery with your arms fully outstretched to the point of it being painful when you wake up and something something i have christian religious trauma
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marioistrans-a · 8 months
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how do you think wario's top surgery went
TOP SURGERY?????
IN THIS ECONOMY ?????????
WAH WARIO BINDS!!!!!!!!!!!
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lazycranberrydoodles · 7 months
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phone studies 🎉 you know the tan line from either ruoye or the cursed shackle would be AWFUL
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