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dreamgirlvibes · 3 months
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Thoughts on love: Someone who truly loves you and wants you would never have to convince themselves of it. It just is. There is nothing you can possibly do to give any type of reassurance to someone who simply accepts you and loves you wholeheartedly. You don’t have to impress them, don’t have to beg them, don’t have to remind them of anything bc loving something doesn’t require anything but what already is. When you find something you like- eventually love- you love it as it is and appreciate the growth. Prime example- coffee. Coffee lovers love coffee- the aroma, the taste, the layers, the flavor, the texture. In all forms, in all ways. They appreciate the “growth” which is the different TYPES- iced, cold, shaken, pressed, even decaf. It doesn’t matter if it’s meshed with food, in a cup, in a scent- they just love COFFEE for what it is not what they THINK coffee could turn into or what it could become to love it more. If your person does not love you AS YOU ARE- they will never love you if you were more. Love requires no explanation that’s why it’s the hardest thing to describe because when you love someone or something you just do. Of course there are ways to describe HOW you love it- things people say, things people do, things people are…but to TRULY describe WHY…..it just is. Don’t allow someone to come into your life telling you they love you but want you to be more of this and more of that and better this and better that. That’s not love. That’s just potential. And of course you should LOVE YOURSELF to want to improve any parts of your life that do need the improvement but that’s between you and YOU. And you can even allow other people to motivate you but it should never be for acceptance. It should be simply to just be happiERRRRRR with yourself and for others not to gain some sort of relevancy or adequacy. You should love yourself wholeheartedly and only allow someone in your life to love you just as much, even more. Purely. Genuinely. Wholly. All that other shit is cap.
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pomegranatet3a · 1 month
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i have a strange feeling
that i’ve known you forever
that i’ve said your names
a trillion times
in different dialects,
in the different accents,
in the different universes…
either way it all comes out the same,
with the same rise of my lips
after the same breathy laughter
and the same soft gaze
i found out a long time ago
that we’re twin flames
i think that counts for something
cause you burn so bright, so warm,
and i’ll feel your gaze, your touch, your laugh send atoms ricocheting through my body
till i feel the warmth of your flame
all through my soul
and i have this strange feeling
you’ve touched my hand like that
in a trillion different lifetimes
and i think you’ve kissed me like i imagine, just like that, in a trillion more
is it too early to know? because i have this strange feeling, this strange bubbling that occurs
when i see your smile,
think of your eyes,
think of the way my names sounds on your lips,
so yes, i have a gut feeling you could say,
a feeling that i’ve seen you before
- to them
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living-dead-girl515 · 2 months
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Love should be freeing. It should not be restricting. Love should be a sanctuary you return to, not a prison you are confined to. Love should be encouraging, of progress, of growth, of friendship outside of your love. It should not be confined within the terms of me and only me. Love should be accepting and grateful, not expecting and entitled. Love should be fun, and euphoric, and full of laughter. Most importantly, love should be gentle.
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crawlingrottingthing · 4 months
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what if orpheus looked back, not because he doubted whether eurydice was there, but because he doubted that she actually wanted to be there.
id follow you to hell my love, but i couldn't bring you back. id always be left wondering if you resented me for your ressurection. for the way the wind stings your skin. for your hunger.
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unfilteredversionhere · 4 months
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I crave love so badly but i couldn't find the one for me. I've been searching for it my whole life but even the platonic ones are not real. What happened to people? Where's true love gone? Where's genuineness and kindness? Where's understanding and caring? They say, "if you love yourself enough, you don't need external validation that someone loves you". Okay sure self love is important and being selfish is good but to what extent. Are we a part of humanity if we don't find real genuine connections? No matter if it's platonic or romantic, everyone needs love. Period. And finding the right ones is hard but never give up on love, not yet. They may be one step away or 1000 miles away but never stop searching until you find it and don't look only for romantic loves because platonic loves are as important as romantic ones.
-A
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sassyscribe · 9 months
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Which are you?
1. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2. Out of sight out of mind.
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heartweary-writing · 1 year
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My heart is floating with the moon
Saying, “I wear the craters, dealt
From a past love,
Too.
Yet look how we glow,
Me and you.
Love comes in phases,
So it will always come again,
It’s true.”
J. K. L
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grandmoments · 1 year
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Cyberpunk: Edgerunners
Love... Wasn't it so easy, even to make you question how you hadn't figured it out before? And didn't you realize how impossible it was, afterward, once a source of warmth became an aching in your chest?
And you know, it's okay. It's okay that your heart aches, that's as natural as muscle tissue tearing. It's even okay if you haven't felt such an aching before in life. Because life isn't a grocery list that you have to go through.
Because life is only when you live. Embrace it all, with a smile, and charge forth to be alive, until you run out of breath.
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appareils-futiles · 1 year
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To fall in love...that would be an exquisite endeavor 💗
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scamomile · 13 days
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Is it really love if it's mandated? When you have a house, you keep it clean. Wipe off dust, take out the trash, clean the bathroom. This is not love, this is responsibility.
I wish I was just the dust on the shelf but I fear I'm the mold in the basement that's going to be the reason people move out.
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untitledroughdraft · 7 months
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Variations on an eatly spring 3 - 24/03/2023
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dreamgirlvibes · 1 year
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I believe you can love someone but your affections can change towards that person. Love is strictly commitment and committing to someone no matter what- even if they love you back or not bc your word and actions are what matter. Setting your affection towards someone is to care about them, all those butterflies etc just being enamored and “in love”- it’s not merely just a commitment- but a desire, if that makes sense. You can love your job and that’s why you stick to it no matter what bc you made a choice but your affections can be set on something else- your desire for something else. And that’s why people move on to other jobs, new passions. And that’s why people move into new relationships bc although they love someone- they committed to them- affections can change and affections change based on love- actions, what you’re “missing out on” etc , cheating. That’s what cheating is and why you can still love someone aka be committed and still have your affections on something else- something lustful. This is why we both need love AND affection. Both to have someone to fully commit to you and fully desire you at all times, no matter what.
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inertia-m · 2 months
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since when have people accepted timing and reality and destiny? where are the people who'd rebel and fight to change the course of things? the only time you should accept things is when you're stuck in a losing game.
also nobody expresses feelings in order to preserve their dignity these days? there's no such thing. you either live knowing that you tried or you live with regrets.
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kafkamybeloved · 2 months
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what no one ever talks about in college is how you could see all your friends fall in love, experience heartbreak, have hookups, relationships, everything.. and you just, sat there. And you were so damn angry. Cause you saw those young souls you love so much make all those stupid, really stupid mistakes, because what else can they do when they're nineteen and in love, and you just thought to yourself: if only this happened to me. If only this happened to me. You knew, you just knew you could do better. You knew how to love, you knew who to love, when and how to show it, but... you had no chance to, right? maybe you were a bit too different, not that cool, not that outgoing, but if only, right? if only it happened to you. and maybe after a while you start to realize that love is not for you, right? it's something that doesn't occur to people like you, in this day and age. so you decide to give the love you have stored to the world around you. you paint a pretty picture and you pet a few cats, you walk around the block and you give a compliment to your barista. but the feeling never goes away, right? the world never lets you forget, not when you look at your "twenty-five years and still in love" parents, or the two middle schoolers holding hands as they walk outside your window. it's always there, this ghost that reminds of Sylvia Plath, "it's not for you" it whispers. It's not for you. It's the thing you want most in your life, it's all around you, everyone has it, but it's just not for you.
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sheddr · 3 months
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As much as I miss you
I'm scared
To ever meet you again.
And maybe only than to realize
That this whole time
In our unending stormy love
I was alone
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krethes · 11 months
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You believe in true love until death does part you.
Yes and no? Uh...lots of words incoming 🤣 short answer: I believe it's possible, but not a guarantee and not "for" everyone (like not their style) and that's ok!
See, love is tricky. I personally am married to someone I've been with for over 10 years. Love isn't just the words you make at a ceremony in front of a bunch of people or when you sign a legal document binding your finances together... It's something you HAVE to work for and fight for and choose, every day.
I know, for myself, that I will love my husband until the end. Like, hands down, he's my person (even though he thinks he's a burden with his physical and mental health issues), and I choose him every day I wake up and I've never looked back and genuinely wondered "what if" or have had regrets. He's not the same person I married in 2016, but neither am I. We grow, we adapt, we learn.
But our love is not everyone's experience of love. I think some people fall in a love that is genuine, but perhaps not a long-term thing, and that's okay. There is NOTHING wrong with divorce, and we need to destigmatize that shit. Life happens! Love and relationships come in all shapes and sizes and colors and sounds and vibes and like, just be good to each other in the end, whether that's splitting up or figuring your shit out.
As for until death... The facts are that my husband is very likely to predecease me. He has type 1 diabetes and about 8 other things assaulting his body, and we've had long talks about what happens then. He told me he wants me to live my best slut (affectionate) era and if I find someone who makes me happy, amazing, don't weigh myself down with the memory of what we have/had. Even still, I don't think I'd ever stop loving him. I'd just build another room in my soul for another person.
I'm not even sure I answered this correctly but...those are my thoughts on love. 🤣
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