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honest-moth-of-silver-grove · 3 months

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ough I am so sorry if your askbox is closed for the matchup thing, the pinned post says it’s open but the actual like, button, says it’s closed. So if it is just ignore this lmao.

ANYWAY my tavs name is Dmtryo and I’m gonna be submitting this for him :0

He’s a lolth drow, and a pretty ambivalent durge, he’s meant to be a bad person, but not a tried and true villain yk? Still saved the gate and allat but also fucked over isobel and got the slayer form bc he thought the prize might be cool.

Masc pref, poly or mono is fine!

Traits (bc most of them can’t be cleanly sorted into good and bad)

hugely protective of the things and people he likes. (Often to the point of excess.)

Seems like a shit show. Very well put together.

Often comes off as cold, but is far friendlier than people think. (As long as he doesn’t perceive you as a threat)

Will very happily murder anyone who does come across as a threat.

Brings his partner the severed limbs or bones of the creatures he has killed like some kind of fucked up cat

Violence is his go to solution for conflict but he is hesitant to kill innocents (unless he’s getting paid)

On the note of getting paid, there’s very little he won’t do for a pouch of gold and the promise of gore.

A/N: Hey, no prob! @cakeboxie (LOVE your blog handle btw lol) I just waited until the ask box reopened to answer this, lol. So now that the time has come… Let me see… Hmm. Because you specified you wanted a male match, I match your Tav with… Astarion!

🩸Astarion would be the perfect match for your Dmtryo! Astarion is pretty ambivalent himself- he’s certainly not a golden hero, but I couldn't exactly call him a villain either. He does possess a moral compass, but it’s broken, and often centered around what’s best for himself, which is one of the reasons I think he and Dmtryo would be good together.

Astarion is fiercely protective of his things, and the people he finds himself coming to love. Everything he ever had was once taken away from him by Cazador, so anything he does manage to attain, be it physical objects or relationships, he feels he must guard intensely. Once Astarion falls for Dmtryo he is very protective, almost possessive over him. Realistically, Astarion knows that Dmtryo is his, but that doesn’t stop him from being suspicious of every NPC they talk to. I mean, who knows? What if they’d try and steal his love? He has to stay on guard.

Although he’s not a drow himself, Astarion is no stranger to fleeing from the sunlight, and operating in the dark. He’s lived as a vampire spawn for two-hundred years after all. Although he may harbor some residual suspicions about lolth-sworn drow, so long as Dmtryo’s loyalty to Astarion and vice versa comes before their loyalty to any God, Astarion has no qualms about being partners with a lolth-sworn drow.

I also loved how you described Dmytro as a fucked up cat because if any of the companions were to be compared to a cat, it’s Astarion. He’s sneaky, and secretive, and very persnickety when it comes to certain things. He also has a tendency to swat/claw anyone he perceives as dangerous, and being rather vulnerable, that means most people he meets end up on the other side of his blade. But the great thing is that it isn't a problem for Dmytro. Dismembering or murdering people, so long as it’s the right people, is just fine with him!

I can honestly see either Spawn!Astarion or Ascended!Astarion working out with Dmytro long term as well. Spawn!Astarion more so if your Dmytro chooses to try and fight the dark urge inside him, and Ascended!Astarion if Dmytro chooses to embrace his Bhalspawn heritage.

Either way they end up a notorious power couple, one very few in Baldur’s Gate would dare to cross.

Be it by taking on mercenary jobs or ruling as their respective godly selves, I see a very lucrative, very influential couplet taking charge of their future. ;)

#astarion x tav #bg3 x tav #baldurs gate 3 imagine #bg3 matchups #bg3 imagine #astarion x durge #bg3 #baldurs gate 3 #matchups

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xocowilde · 11 months

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Johnny and Tania's headcanons

Because someone asked me but honestly I want to share a bit of the story of these two guys (especially Johnny) and have a place where I can come back and check it too and not forget details

All of this began because I was shipping the Punk guy from behind a scene with Steddie... I do blame in part @ /vivalski and this fanart . After that I keep building ideas and stories for him so... ig he is an OC now :)

More headcanons around their band [x] Their playlist [x]

So, if you are interested in a small timeline~ let's go. (isn't small guys, I got excited)

Cw: Drug use, toxic relationship with ex. Addiction.

His mother Caroline Dyer and his dad Andrew Wallace met in NYC and moved to Indy, where 1965 this little crazy Johnny Samuel Wallace was born.

His childhood is moving between Indy, Hawkins, and NYC because of his dad's work. Johnny liked all the loud music he could get his hands on, matching pretty well with Tania Dyer's energy (his cousin, two years older than him) and she is the one who made him know about metal and punk music.

Around 11-12 yo, he returns to Hawkins and meets Eddie Munson and Jonathan Byer. Eddie doesn't remember him because Johnny was all long hair, no tattoos, and no piercings. He would say he looked very dull. But actually, both joined the D&D club before Johnny had to leave again. Jonathan does remember him because of the music and he had a... tiny crush on Johnny. He never tried anything.

At this age, a lot happens; first, back to Indy for a year, Tania joins Johnny and his family living with them for a while. This makes their relationship even stronger, calling themselves siblings around the school. She and Johnny buy their first bass guitar. They began to practice together because they only had the money for ONE. So they would move it around their houses (wasn't that away from each other on Hawkins when they come back)

13 yo he gets his first boyfriend, he is very excited and happy about it but his parents tell Johnny they don't mind he likes this guy, but other people wouldn't react the same. This relationship wasn't long but this other guy (two years older) introduced René to Johnny's life. After this, even around he begins to date Steddie, most of Johnny's relationships are poly, mainly because he is always around Rene (relatively very older than him btw) but has other boyfriends (even one girlfriend because he was curious)

Around 15 yo he gets his first band. Doesn't work that well with a fight with his bass guitarist because Johnny is kind of a perfectionist and if he isn't playing the bass he doesn't like it. The first time he broke his nose and one finger.

His relationship with Tania isn't as close as they had, primarily because of his boyfriends and the band. And because he took the bass without her permission. She actually learns to play the keyboard and writes music, because Tania can't live without music. Dw, their relationship goes back to being as if they were siblings.

and now some angst~

When he is 17 yo his father dies. Johnny may be a punk hardcore guy that loves to fight but he had a very close relationship with both parents, so this hits hard and bad. Leaves school to mourn and decides to put everything on his lyrics. Doesn't help he is around this Rene guy, which means: sex, drugs, and alcohol. All the rock n roll life. You know, he really has some bad months around these things, some staying on his life (he keeps the drugs mostly). Thanks to his mother and his family (especially Tania) he goes back and tries his best to keep going at least with school.

More broken bones and the nose.

And a new band.

This time, he doesn't want anyone else to play the bass if isn't him or Tania, so she jumps in. Both are bassists, and both are voices as well. They get a guy Tania knows that plays the drum (they actually asked this girl in Johnny's class... her name? Ah yeah, Robin Buckley. Not actually his friend but they talk from time to time) And their guitarist is this guy

Around this time they win a band war and Tania begins to don't like at all this guy Eddie Munson and his fucking music band. She just don't like him tbh, nothing deep.

The next years Johnny begins to works on a coffee shop and the flower shop from his mom, still have the band. He wants to go to college but first he wants to save some money.

Tania keeps studying and with the band, working on Hawkins library and from time to time moves to Indy to play on bars. She helps on her aunt's flower shop.

21 yo Johnny begins to flirt and like this Harrington guy. He knew it from before ofc but now is more interesting. He wants to woo him so he does tries. But he also realizes he likes/dates Eddie Munson. Great... He likes the guy too even if in a past band war he won and Eddie never liked him anymore. So Johnny wants to be around these two.

Meanwhile, Tania is working mostly on the band. She actually tried to have a relationship before but isn't something she worries about. She wants the band to grow and know new places. She actually really likes Steve as Johnny's possible boyfriend, but ain't happy her cousin has a crush on Eddie... But totally hates René.

Johnny finishes as part of Steddie relationship as something sexual but they grow to something more personal and romantic. Thanks to this he realizes this is a healthy happy relationship and not whatever it is he has with René.

And that's mostly Johnny and Tania's timeline. She has a most calm one, while Johnny is a mess but with a big heart.

That's it. If you have questions, there's my DM and I'm actually writing part of stories after all this and AUs

Everything is tagged as Pretty Punk Metal / Steve x Eddie x Johnny. In case you want to mute it or follow it ❤️

#Johnny wallace #Tanya Dyer #steddie #steve x eddie x johnny #Riot against God and Win #stranger things original character #stranger things oc

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theunderneath · 3 years

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Can you write for yandere poly main crew? (Not chopper he is a deer). And if not then just the main 5 (zoro,luffy,nami,usop,sanji). It can be platonic if romantic makes you uncomfy! I’m a different anon who is starved for yan one piece 😅

Long post, also liked how you had to add not to do chopper because I would’ve for the shit post. BTW I prefer writing for romantic yandere, it just comes more naturally to me than platonic. But I will still do platonic yandere, it just might not be good like my romantic ones.

(Cough cough hot cough cough)

The next pirate king, Monkey D. Luffy

“(NAME) LET’S PLAY!”

He would be the one that causes the most problems. This is because he doesn't understand that he shouldn't butt in when you're with someone else. He is always looking for you and wanting to do something together. This makes him the clingiest out of everyone. He literally is tasked with nothing except trying to keep you happy and to be the watchdog.

On the note of him being a watchdog, he isn't a very good one lol. This is because he doesn't really understand punishments because he's delusional. So if you want to get away with someone do it with him. He won't tell on you if you make him promise BUT if you're really acting out. Like screaming at him and trying to jump off the boat, then he'll tell the rest of the crew. Since in his little baby sweet pea brain, he thinks something wrong that he can't fix.

On the note of punishments, he doesn't participate. Mostly because as a captain everyone HAS to listen to him. This makes it hard for others to do punishments because he doesn't see anything you could do worth that much cruelty (Cruelty being isolation). So he hates it and stays away from such things. Sadly, he is easily manipulated by his other crewmates.

(Damn I wish they would redo a lot of the early ep so they looked as good as this)

The three-sword-wielding combatant, Roronoa Zoro

“Fucking hell.”

I feel like he is a little soft but at the same time is angrier? Kinda like a tsundere but a bit more level-headed. He’s soft if you are nice and listen, he’s more ruthless if you fight back and be an asshole. I'd also like to say that he'd probably make some mean snide comments depending on certain behaviors he doesn't like within you. This is because he wants you to be the best version of yourself but doesn't really know how to go about it.

He is the one tasked with protection and watching for escape attempts. He makes this easy by just "napping" while around while you are alone or even with more easygoing shipmates. He looks unassuming but keep in mind he is ALWAYS awake when you're around.

He’d be the one to take punishments waaaay too far. This is because he is always the one to feel particularly betrayed when you act out. He has no reason for this but he just gets so upset. He seems like he'd be the lazy yandere that keeps you by his side by just sitting there, but he isn't. He has fierce loyalty and expects the same from you.

(Sexy bad bicth)

The thief and navigator, Nami

“LUFFY I SAID PUT THEM DOWN!”

She is the one to to discipline Luffy into sharing more with the other, while also wanting you all to herself. In short, she's a hypocrite. She manipulates people into giving her more time with their darling even though she already has enough of it.

She is the one tasked with taking care of you hygienically. So she is always bathing with you, brushing your hair, or even brushing your teeth. She enjoys all these tastes and sometimes makes other people dirty you up so she can take care of you. Like suggesting Zoro trains with you for a little ("It's good for their health!") only to come snatch you up when he's too tired to notice and you're too sweaty to refuse a bath.

In punishment, she would probably try to act tough but end up crying later to Robin because she feels bad. Soft bad bitch kinda moments. She is the one to say so many cruel things to break you down to nothing, but once that door closes and she leaves you in that room. She tears up at how cruel she is being but justifies it in her brain because she needs you to love her! You can't keep trying to leave like that! She has feelings too, you know!

(WE NEED MORE GIF OF THIS MAN!)

The cowardly marksman and inventor, Usopp

“I-I’m sORRY!”

He gets so happy and "confident" when you're talking to him. When I put confident in quotes, I mean that he tells you more tall tales. He loves keeping you entertained with his stories and acts. It always brings a smile to his face when you laugh at one of his jokes. Although he isn't so confident when you demand things from him, he would bend over backward to get you everything you could want.

He is the one tasked with keeping you entertained by telling you many stories and lies. He also takes it upon himself to get you anything you'd like or even MAKE anything you'd like. Sometimes he'll make some traps to set on the ship to see if you escape, sadly he had to stop when Luffy got caught in one.

This dude has no spine at all when it comes to punishments. He couldn’t do any punishments because he get's talked out of it so easily. All you have to do is shed a few tears and say your sorry even if you aren't. When you do this he folds so hard it's almost funny how desperately he wants you to like him.

(looks like he could kill you but is actually a cinnamon roll)

The cook and martial artist, Sanji

“MY LOVELY (NAME)! Make sure you finish your plate honey~”

Sanji is also really spineless but not as much as Usopp. He knows when to harden up ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°). That was a joke, maybe. He treats you how he treats most ladies in One Piece but he gets surprisingly soft when alone with you. He'll tell you about his past while preparing snacks for you, with no huge flirting or yelling. He just sits there calling you sweet nicknames and giving you soft looks.

He would be tasked with your protection and diet. He makes sure no one messes with you whenever you're in town. Since you're either with him shopping for food or the ladies just regular shopping. The food part is pretty self-explanatory, he takes your diet very seriously. He won't force-feed you but will make you want to eat with very enticing food. Since he knows what starving hungry feels like, and he knows you'll break once a plate is in front of you.

With punishments he is pretty lenient, but when you do something really bad he gets smart. He can only forgive so much. So the most you can get away with is talking to people about getting kidnapped, light escape attempts, pushing him away when he gets too close, and insults to his behavior. Things you CAN'T get away with are heavy escape attempts, hurting yourself, hurting other crew made with the intent to kill, and insulting his mother or cooking.

(I like her old hair cut, I think I just like the dark and gloomy style she use to have)

The archaeologist, Nico Robin

“(Name) make sure to be good, ok? We wouldn't want anything bad to happen.”

So she is the rock of the group that keeps them grounded whenever stuff gets really bad with you. She is just sensible overall when it comes to you. I'd also say she is a rock to you as well. Robin would talk to you, whispering sweet comforting words when you need them. She is always in tune with your feelings as well as everyone else.

Her job is to keep Nami under control and make sure she's gentle with you. She doesn't go as far as Nami with cleaning you but does enjoy bathtime with you. Also as mentioned, she is a rock for you. While she doesn't make this known to the rest of the crew, she goes out of her way to manipulate you into her arms.

Although she is your rock, she is also the one to do punishments. This is because she can deal with you and has a lot of self-control. She doesn't enjoy it but glady takes on the role. She only wishes that she doesn't have to do it. So Robin always warns you in between her honey-coated words.

(Nose)

The cyborg shipwright, Franky

“Careful with that, I don’t want you to hurt yourself.”

Franky seems the type to be overall just sweet and kind to you. While he isn't always around you, preferring to be in his workshop making stuff for the ship. He does enjoy when you feel the need to join him in his workshop. While Franky works you can sit there and enjoy some peace from the rest of the crew. Sometimes even Robin comes in to read with you while you stare off into space.

He is tasked with babyproofing the ship and making you your own room. He modifies the ship so there are locks on the doors and no sharp edges that you could hurt yourself. He also locks away all his sharp tools but sometimes he messes up.

He would leave the punishments to the people who can take it, which isn't him. This is because he just can't bring himself to hurt you in any way. Sadly he can't realize he makes the tools that allow others to hurt you. The room you get trapped in, the gag that silences you, the cushion cuffs that bind you. This was all made by him and used by some of the crewmates.

(My fav bone boy ♡)

The living skeleton musician, Brook

“Yo ho!”

Our resident Bone Boy is a pretty good yandere. He mostly just follows his darling around, being chipper and lightening their mood. He sometimes drags you away to listen to some music he came up with. He loves how you jokily (not really) insult his music, always taking it with stride. Sometimes he uses his spirit form to watch you through the walls.

He is also another person to entrain you and the rest of the crew. He fills the ship with singing and dancing so you feel welcomed. Although sometimes he can't bring himself to sing for you, especially after a punishment. Somethings he can't fix with singing which makes him sad. He, unlike Usopp, reports your condition to the group. Since there are just some things that need to be known to the group.

He doesn't do punishments since he doesn't really like it. Not that any of the crew does. I just feel like he is the type to lighten the mood with humor which he can't really do when you need to be taught a lesson. So he isn't the best choice to be the bad guy. That and no one likes a depressed skeleton.

(Yes he is included, bite me)

The fish-man helmsman, Jimbei

“Everyone please calm down.”

So you know how I said Robin is the rock of you and the crew. While that is true, Robin does take advantage of her position to manipulate you. While Jimbei is an actual rock of yours. The rest of the crew is running around causing chaos, and he sits there calmly. He waits for you to come to him with open arms. There is no judgment when you talk to him

While it isn't agreed upon by the crew, Jimbei takes it upon himself to keep you sane. You could spill your deepest secrets to him and he would never spill it to the rest of the crew. No matter how much they pester him. He is your true safe place and he likes that title. While he does have pride in his spot in your life he won't take advantage of it. He knows that your trust is easily broken. If you tell him something worrying though, he will try his best to talk you out of it.

Jimbei as your rock doesn't take part in punishment even if asked. If he becomes the bad guy in the crew he could lose all he built with you. He even tries to actively stop some punishments when he finds them unfair. Sadly if you do do something bad he won't, like trying to kill a crewmember. Even this big softy knows that something can't be left unpunished.

STRAWHAT PIRATES

These pirates are kind and treat their darling well. Always wanting them to be happy while being around them. While they can't let their darling go, they all try their best to keep them happy. They don't do hard punishments like torture, preferring insulation and harsh words.

They take you on walks in town, buy you nice things, and even make you nice meals. They treat their darling mostly like a normal person, wanting them to grow attached. So it feels pretty normal with them even if it is worrying how easily they snatched you up.

All around pretty great yandere’s to have. They are all actually nice people (Ignore the pirate part shhh) If you're nice to them then they will treat you kindly as well. If you not, then reap the consequences. Probably the best yandere’s to have since their core beliefs are freedom and family. So yeah, you’d get lucky to have them as your yandere.

#male yandere #yandere one piece #yandere one piece x reader #yandere strawhats #yandere one piece headcannon #male yandere x reader #yandere monkey d luffy #yandere luffy #yandere zoro #yandere nami #yandere usopp #yandere franky #yandere brook #yandere robin #yandere nico robin #yandere Jimbei #Yandere luffy #Female yandere

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myharmonykitten · 2 years

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I am a 31 yr old cis female who is poly-flexable, also currently a stahm due to covid and health conditions. I have been married almost 9 years to my husband and with my other partner almost 6 months who is ftm. most of my past relationships have been Summer flings or short term because they wanted more while I wasn't sure what I wanted. I tried a serious relationship last year that ended in disaster and took a break from dating till I met my now partner. I was upfront and very open about being poly and married. he said he was fine with it as long as my husband wasn't involved , which he isn't as he Is mono. in the past almost 6 months my partner has witnessed everything that goes on in my home behind closed doors as we are always in video calls or the phone due to him being in Oregon and me in Virginia. I got to go meet my partner for his birthday in Sept and it was an amazing 2 weeks. the only problem was my husband had begone texting Me back handed jokes/comments about me abandoning him and that now that I found my soul mate he should leave, that I perfer plastic over him. this upset my partner of course and pissed me off pretty bad. my husband then made a public fb post about me turning into a "vagiterian" when he begged me to keep everything I did private. while i was with my partner he did sit me down and pointed out my husband's behavior that he witnesses was a type of emotional/mental abuse. he was scared and worried about Me and my daughters wellbeing back at home.

my husband has always had anger control issues, normally it was taken out on his games but since moving into our own home 6 years ago he now takes it out on me and my daughter. he's always screaming, he's always in a bad mood, simply tripping or dropping something sends him into a full tantrum. he has put multiple holes in our walls and doors and has broken many phones by throwing them across the house or car while driving. anything that happen in our house he Blames it on my daughter instantly and cusses her out to the point I have to get between them and threaten to beat his ass or throw him out if he doesn't leave her alone. we argue 24/7 and in the end of every argument he pulls they " I'm just a piece of shit and can't do anything right " card and starts crying. he never cleans the house, he never helps with chores and treats my daughter like the maid and never wants to do anything himself.

my partner convinced me to look up different types of abuse and while I can see that my husband's behavior is emotionally and mentally abusive I have no where for my daughter and I to go. I have no family left and my husband's side of the family never accepted us and refuses to believe he acts this way behind closed doors. my partner has been pushing more and more lately for me to leave my husband , at first it was because of how my husband was treating me but now suddenly my partner says he can't accept me being poly anymore. that he no longer wishes to share me and for me to have any other relationship. I'm okay with being mono, it can get lonely for me but I'm not going to just leave my marriage unless there absolutely no saving it.

I have talked to my husband multiple times about being unhappy in our marriage and that I'm considering his daily behavior as abusive, he pulls the self pity stuff, cries and tries to end the conversations. I have finally gotten it to were he has agreed to a trial separation but I don't have anywhere to go so I'm stuck living in the basement away from him because he refuses to go stay at his dad's farm. my partner is supportive but is still pushing for me to fully leave him.

I feel like I'm being torn apart, I do love my husband but I can't live like this anymore, I don't feel like he'll ever change for the better and I want a real separation from him but I also don't want to give up on our marriage.

I'm not sure what to do or if I'm doing anything right.

BTW yes my daughter and I are physically safe he has never put a hand a on us and I never will let him have the chances

#polyamorous advice #relationship advice

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