#this is probably the biggest hurdle i've had to face as an adult. truly
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trying to remember that good friends enjoy doing occasional favors for the people they love and it's not weird to ask them for help when you need it..............
#asking for help is literally a skill#one i have not learned in my life lmao#i was just talking to my brother about how neither of us know how to ask favors - big small or in between#''can you vacuum the living room'' is just as terrifying to ask someone as big things like ''can you drive me to the airport''#its so much easier to just figure things out yourself even if it sucks and its overwhelming and you have plenty of people who WOULD help#if you just asked#this is probably the biggest hurdle i've had to face as an adult. truly#because as a kid/teenager this behavior made me independent and mature for my age#but as an adult it makes me exhausted and lonely and i'm NOT capable of doing everything on my own#but instead of sharing that burden i just. let a lot of stuff go unfinished#even important stuff#and it's so hard to break this habit but i'm TRYINGGGG#even though 2024 is trying to kill me i'm trying so hard 😭😭😭
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