sorry i need to vaguepost real quick (its not about anyone here) bc i am sdgjkl so nauseous from this fucking up my nervous system on another account but GODDD i wish ppl wouldn't assume that if ur criticising a spiritual practice u must not know what ur talking about :'''))))
also the fact that ppl seem to think "well, it's a spiritual/religious/etc practice, so that means it is above criticism :)" drives me up a fucking wall,, with the huge rise of new age spiritual practices and belief systems, that is such a garbage way of thinking
so much of new age spirituality is based in racism and/or encouraging maladaptive thinking patterns and behaviours that can easily push a person into psychosis and/or white supremacy and im just...... head in my hands.
i know what the fuck im talking about bc i was deep in that world for years lmfao and it can be extremely scary in there. i still dip my toes in every now and then bc spirituality and religion and the bit where they intersect is fascinating and oftentimes very beautiful, but I have to be so careful to not fall in too deep or I'll end up in a very fucking bad place yet again lmfao. i just wish ppl wouldn't assume that "oh u said xyz spiritual thing is bad, so you must just not know what you're talking about" BRO TRUST ME. I KNOW FAR MORE THAN THE AVERAGE PERSON, AND I ALSO HAVE A VERY OPEN MIND. if i am criticising smth it is with good fucking reason !!!
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My opinion on Kelly is that I wouldn't necessarily call her a gold digger. I would say that she has chosen not to do real productive work and have a real job and honestly it's not really a bad thing. With that little income that she gets, at least she's happy. I mean if that's what she wants to do and that's what makes her happy then she has every right to do it and honestly there are many people who want to do and do tik-tok as a job and we have never criticized many of them and so I don't think that it's fair to criticize Kelly because if she is passionate about the fashion industry then she can do what she wants but I would say that if anyone has ever been in a relationship they would know that the man does like to pay for almost everything because its called being a gentlemen. I think it's quite ridiculous to say that she lives off of Max when you know maybe Max wants to do all of those things for her. Come on Max makes 50 million euros per year and you're telling me if u had the opportunity to get everything Kelly gets you wouldn't do the same. Although I will say she is only an influencer bc of Max and the attention she gets from being is girlfriend. I know Kelly isn't a good person and I don't like her but it's unfair to make these assumptions based on what we see from her account
Yeah idk what makes people so comfortable complaining about this person or that person not having a “real job” as if that’s a prerequisite to being a functional person. 99% of people have jobs as a way to survive, not because they’d be there if they didn’t have to be. So why should people who need jobs keep one? Just to make the irrelevant public happy? Not worth it lol
And on this whole “she lives off her boyfriend” narrative that people like to run about any woman near a successful man…saddening. I know we’ve taken men doing the absolute bare minimum and repackaged it as “equality” but if your man is making 8 figures a year and still wants to split bills with you and needs you to be working a 9-5 and won’t ever buy you a gift sorry to break to you but I think he hates you. Like properly secretly hates you. So congrats to Kelly, Carmen, whoever else everyone likes to whine about, for finding boyfriends who actually care about them? And to everyone who finds that unpalatable or strange…do you need a hug?
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saw people on twitter ranting about how sydcarmy shippers are antiblack and can't stand to see sydney stand on her own and how it's acephobic to want to see syd in love. here's the thing: storer had a ridiculously strong reaction when he saw people shipping syd and carmy and not for any of those aforementioned reasons. he didn't have any phony concerns about ace rep or seeing a black woman being strong on her own [I'd barf]. he legit scoffed at romance/sex in the show when he saw how a *very small number* of people liked the darkskin black woman and the white man together. and then he introduced claire. if you are not mentioning these things or feel the need to twist what sydcarmys actually want out of the ship, your arguments are not in good faith.
the show is not void of romance or sex at this point. and I've already talked about this in depth. so no, I won't be satisfied with sydney [the only black female character in this show!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!] not having a romantic storyline, and I'm saying this as an ace black woman. at the end of the day, the people who don't want to see sydcarmy together outnumber the number of people who do [by far]. tumblr is a bubble. and I've yet to see a sydcarmy tweet go viral like any of the ones against them. it's never any ranting about any of the actual racist shit syd/ayo go through by fans of the show. it's always "swirl ship bad." like c'mon.
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Normally I wait until the TCB translations to post anything from the leaks but
Yuuji eating the skin off his arms down to the elbow is so fucking sick and heartbreaking.
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Bro ocd pisses me off so fucking much like hands i dont need to wash you all i did was touch my phone (which someone else touched recently) the wrong way why are brains like this give me a squirrel brain squirrels don’t get phantom tingles after touching shit the wrong way i want to have a little brain and a little body and my only worry is where i left my nuts in the winter
Let me just collect nuts all day and be a little guy that probably has rabies. It sounds fun.
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