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#that to request of him to have dealt with the most traumatizing element of his life in a healthy way is truly laughable
icharchivist · 3 years
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just so we’re clear since i see some of my chikage joke post being spread: i am 200% a Chikage apologist. I not only think that his crimes were justified, but also i think they were sexy. Any post i make about Chikage come with the underlining understanding that there is nothing here but LOVE for Chikage.
if by any stretch you don’t like Chikage, you cannot possibly relate to my Chikage posts, don’t even try. 
This is a PSA.
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misaki-ffxiv · 7 years
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LFC: Misaki Ito, Mateus
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Gender: Female.
Race: Hyur midlander, Hingan.
Height: 5 fulms even.
Eye Color: Dark brown.
Hair Color: Black.
The Facts -
Name Day: 32nd Sun of the 2nd Umbral Moon.
Occupation: Hostess, refugee, former geisha.
Sexual identification: Heterosexual.
Romantic identification: Heterosexual.
Alignment: Neutral good.
Criminal History: Conspiracy, subterfuge, and violence against the Garlean Empire. Not on Eorzean record. 
Relationship Status: In a relationship.
Sweet on: Etsuji Goto.
Favorites –
Favorite food: Basically any variety of ramen, and rolanberry mochi. Favorite drink: Whiskey or green tea, and sake on special occasions. Favorite artist: Misaki admires her “sister” and teacher from the geisha house, Rei, for her skill in dancing, and was always eager to learn from her and to watch her. Favorite scent: The sea, florals, Etsuji’s cologne. Favorite person: Etsuji Goto. 
Randoms –
Ten facts about your muse:
⚫ Misaki was a geisha of high esteem in Hingashi for her talent in music and dancing, for her natural grace, her beauty, and her lightheartedness. She was highly requested by the guests of the ochaya, known to always bring a quick wit and a listening ear to the room with her. 
⚫Before she was a geisha, Misaki was the bastard child of a Hingan lord and one of his wife’s handmaids. For five years, she was permitted to live in the castle, though once the lord’s wife had a son and child of their own, Misaki was brought to a faraway geisha house - personally delivered by the lord himself. Despite having fond memories of her father, Misaki resents him for abandoning her and not putting his foot down when his wife insisted they banish her.
⚫The family legend surrounding the Ito family is one that brought Misaki unwanted attention from the Garlean forces. It’s believed in Misaki’s village that the Ito family began long ago with the spawn of a dragon turned hyur and a hyur woman, and that any child of Ito lineage born beneath a blood moon would inherit the blood of the dragon. Misaki was born beneath just such a moon, and when she first cried, every cherry blossom in the vicinity burst into bloom. This lead the village to believe she was a daughter of the dragon, and the Garleans to believe her family harnessed some sort of ancient Allagan technology, or worse, that they were the spawn of a primal. 
⚫ Though untrained, Misaki has a natural ability to control the elements. 
⚫ She has two younger brothers that she’s aware of, but has never met, beyond holding her baby brother the day he was born. To this day, she hasn’t heard from her parents since she was abandoned at the geisha house. 
⚫Misaki was kept for a period of several months by a high-ranking Garlean official as a pleasure slave. During this time, she was also tortured and experimented upon to explore the possibility of her possessing ancient Allagan technology. 
⚫ It was a Garlean primus pilus and a Garlean doctor who rescued Misaki. The pilus was an infrequent guest of the ochaya, and one that Misaki found to be of slightly softer heart than his comrades. She was able to get a message to him telling him of her situation through the Garlean doctor, who was able to trickle it down to Etsuji’s gang. This group effort allowed Lucius, along with the doctor, to bring her and several other former geisha to Eorzea - though only the Garleans, Etsuji, and Misaki survived a crash landing into Thanalan.
⚫ A close friend of Misaki’s - someone she considered a brother - was a samurai to a lord who frequented the ochaya. He taught her self defense through martial arts, something she took to quickly. 
⚫In recent months, and during her time kept captive by the high-ranking Garlean official, Misaki has been working to liberate Doma from the Garleans. She specializes in gaining vital information and passing it on to other rebels, often going undercover and using her charm to garner such information. 
⚫ Misaki was, for the most part, happy in her geisha position. She has a natural warmth and kindness, and despite becoming slightly hardened by the circumstances she was put in and her nation was put in, she remains a gentle woman. Staunch and stubborn, she has refused to let traumatic experiences steal her sweetness from her. 
Five Things -
Things they like:
Animals - especially ones of the soft and fuzzy variety. 
Music and dancing.
Quiet places, like the sea late at night or deep in a forest.
Flower arranging.
Helping other people.
Things they dislike:
Garlemald and most Garleans. 
Unnecessary violence. 
Needles. 
Dark, unfamiliar spaces.
Dirty spaces. 
Good traits:
Loyal. Once her loyalty is earned, it is unwavering. Misaki is a friend for life, unless you do something to truly betray her trust or use her. She will always go out o fher way to help someone she cares for - and even people she doesn’t know well, or at all. 
Kind. Misaki has not let past experiences define her present self. She has maintained the sweetness, compassion, and empathy she has always had to the best of her ability. In her, one can always find a shoulder to lean on or an ear that will listen with sympathy and gentleness.
Talented. Receiving an education in grace, music, and dancing with the geisha has its perks. Misaki is talented in entertaining, with a pretty voice, the ability to play the shamisen and koto very well, and is skilled in traditional Hingan dancing. 
Intelligent. Misaki would not have survived Garlemald’s subjugation if she wasn’t bright. Being clever and able to think quickly on her toes has saved her and others numerous times, when she has not been able to charm her way out of a situation.
Protective. She is unafraid to defend those weaker or meeker than she is. Misaki will insert herself into potentially dangerous situations, even if it means she herself will get harmed, to avoid an innocent person being hurt. This natural instinct is only heightened when it comes to those she’s close to, or around children. 
Bad traits:
Guarded. Sweet as she might be, Misaki is not an easy person to truly get to know. Her bare personality is hidden with one she puts on in public or around those she doesn’t know. It takes a persistent person to see her true personality. She is slow to genuinely trust people.
Hot temper. Misaki is not always slow to anger. When she’s angry, she has a sharp, hurtful tongue, and a harshness that often comes as a surprise to others. There is venom behind her bite, and she makes no effort to hide it when provoked. 
Slow to forgive. Since gaining Misaki’s trust is so hard to do, it is near impossible to gain it back once it’s been broken. Feeling betrayed is something that cuts her deeply, and it is not easy to gain her forgiveness. 
Manipulative. She will manipulate you with her beauty and charm if she believes that you’re a bad person with good information. This is mostly applicable to those dealing in the underworld or those who have information that could assist in harming Garlemald. She will try to manipulate bad people into trusting her and then do something to damage them, either physically or emotionally, especially if she knows they’ve harmed an innocent person. 
Stubborn. It’s hard to talk Misaki out of a bad idea or into a good one once she has her mind set upon something. If she’s decided she’s going to throw herself into a lion’s den to pull someone from it, there’s virtually no convincing her to do otherwise. 
Personalities they gravitate toward:
Intelligent, educated types.
Other Hingans and Domans with strong ties to home.
Entertainers.
Sweet, kind-hearted people.
Father figures. 
Those who don’t get into drama often, or for the fun of it. 
Personality types they avoid:
Arrogant, know-it-all, edgy jerks.
People who constantly play the victim card.
Relentless flirts. 
Garleans, or anyone else with a superiority complex.
Racists, xenophobes, bigots, and anyone else who falls into that category.
Fears:
Being imprisoned by Garlemald again.
Losing touch with her roots
Being alone.
The dark. 
Unwanted physical contact.
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Misaki is definitely a character I feel comfortable in having pre-established relationships for! She was kind of a queen bee in the geisha community. Maybe your character was a rival, or one of the wealthy patrons who frequented the tea house and enjoyed her singing, dancing, and conversation.
The Ito family and its legend was well known in certain regions. Maybe your character heard whispers of the dragon girl who made flowers bloom who disappeared all of a sudden, with not much comment offered about it by Lord Ito and his royal house.
Her significant other, Etsuji Goto, is a good boy who fell in with the wrong crowd - essentially, the yakuza. A rival gang burned Misaki’s tea house to the ground, killing several geisha and the house mother along with it before turning them in to the Garleans searching for the geisha girl herself. Was your character one of the rival gang members? A Garlean who dealt with the geisha girl? Who knows!
Other entertainers! Now in Eorzea, Misaki is enjoying herself trying to meet other entertainers, especially any from Doma or Hingashi. 
Though she definitely drifts more towards good characters, for the sake of storylines and fun writes, my boyfriend and I are looking for criminally aligned characters to stir the pot a bit. Etsuji is still involved with his yakuza ‘brothers,’ and there are plenty of shady dealings to be had. 
You can reach me either here on Tumblr via IM, or in-game on: Misaki Ito, Isolde Grey, Belle Haillenarte, or Qara Noykin.
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ibloggingkits-blog · 7 years
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New Post has been published on Blogging kits
New Post has been published on https://bloggingkits.org/what-humans-need-at-the-quit-of-existence/
What humans need at the quit of life
IN 2016 The Economist and the Kaiser Family Basis, an American non-earnings focused on health care, polled human beings in America, Brazil, Italy and Japan approximately their hopes and issues for their quit-of-existence wishes. We located that what’s most crucial to human beings on the stop relies upon on where they live. In The us and Japan now not burdening families with the expenses of care became the very best-ranked priority.
(The japanese may be disturbing approximately the value of funerals, which could without problems reach ¥3m, or $24,000; Individuals can be stressful about clinical payments, which may be ruinous.) In Brazil, in which Catholicism prevails, the main priority was being at peace spiritually. What Italians wanted maximum on the stop was to have their loved ones round them. Medical doctors’ efforts to extend existence near its give up might not usually be aligned with their sufferers’ priorities: residing so long as feasible become deemed least important of the seven things that we requested about, except in Brazil where it tied with not burdening family financially. How Are we able to Enhance Great of give up Of lifestyles in Extensive Care? To begin with, I do need to factor out that I in my view agree with that every give up of existence scenario in Extensive Care is unique, relying on various elements which includes scientific picture, cultural/religious history and the Own family dynamics. Moreover, I additionally think that each situation wherein a Affected person is loss of life wishes to be put in context of the way of life inside the Extensive Care Unit and how proactive an extensive Care Unit is running toward a very good death. For instance, Gadgets who carried out a ‘care of the death Patient’ pathway might have a higher satisfaction rate among their team of workers and households, in terms of stop of existence conditions. I am positive all of us have visible health experts burning out, if the dying in their cherished one isn’t always treated nicely and we’ve got also seen households that have been both grateful of ways the death scenario of their loved one has been handled- or on the opposite side of the spectrum- they had been devastated approximately situations or the conversation technique or the timing of the stop of life state of affairs.
I additionally need to point out that I agree with we need to begin the usage of the term “Exceptional of give up of existence”, as I trust there is Satisfactory even at someone’s cease of life. I take a holistic view there and that i additionally have a look at the perceptions of the Own family in an cease of lifestyles scenario. From my perspective the households belief and perspectives count lots in a way to address quit of lifestyles and also how we can Improve the Best of end of life in Intensive Care or outside of Extensive Care with additional services.
Basic, it is hard to qualify what a “correct loss of life” in In depth Care includes, but I also believe that we as fitness experts in In depth Care need to feel highly privileged to be in a function to be part of a Patient’s give up of life. We ought to also sense privileged because we can help and guide households via one in every of their most worrying and maximum traumatic instances in their lives. I in my opinion get a whole lot of (job) satisfaction out of these situations, if the state of affairs is dealt with properly and if the multidisciplinary team is working collectively to attain First-rate of stop of existence. In any case, now not many humans cope with stop of life situations in their daily work.
Now, each person who is familiar with In depth Care and who has labored in Extensive Take care of a considerable time period has had their fair proportion of stop of lifestyles reports and situations.
In over thirteen years of ICU nursing experience, I truely have had my percentage of people dying in In depth Care experiences and conditions, a few top and a few now not so precise. Common, from my angle it relies upon on a number of of things that I cited before, whether the dying technique is experienced an awesome one or no longer so suitable one.
One thing that I’ve seen over time is the recurrence of some sufferers drawing close their give up of lifestyles over many weeks or many months in In depth Care, whilst being ventilated with a Tracheostomy. From my attitude, in those conditions the overall force of exposure to struggling, ache and vulnerability hits home, when a Patient is slowly death on a ventilator with Tracheostomy in In depth Care. all people who has witnessed the slow dying of a Affected person demise in Extensive Care, will in no way overlook the enjoy. I take into account a number of instances vividly over the years, however the one which probably stood out most was a younger girl in her mid-Fifties. After a lung transplant had given her some extra years to live, she now changed into readmitted back to Intensive Care where she turned into faced with the full pressure of respiratory failure and organ rejection. Over a terrific 12-16 week duration the female and her Own family went through hell. Not often sedated and absolutely aware most of the time, she slowly however honestly approached her cease of existence and anyone knew it. The girl occupied a bedspace inside the middle of the unit, obtrusive at folks who passed by. within the midst of this busy 24/7 thoroughfare in Extensive Care was this female, surrounded by using her devastated Own family. I vividly keep in mind her husband, who at the start of her ICU adventure changed into complete of strength and constantly very pleasant and ‘chatty’ with the staff. The longer he watched the suffering of his liked wife he changed into barely in a position to stroll with a sore lower back. I think he felt the whole pressure of what him, his spouse and the relaxation in their Family were going via, regardless of of all the marvellous efforts of the ICU body of workers.
Quality of quit of life is not a term Intensive Care Devices, health services or even palliative services use and that i trust that it’s miles exceedingly underrated. Should not ‘Palliative offerings’ be renamed to ‘First-class of give up of lifestyles offerings’? Should not we attempt to offer Satisfactory of quit of life, just as much as we strive to get patients out of Intensive Care in a higher situation than what they came in for? Isn’t it a privilege to offer Satisfactory at the stop of somebody’s life? I strongly agree with it’s far. loss of life is a part of life- and the sooner we accept and embrace it and make it part of our day to day dwelling, the extra creative and accepting we get of the fact that there may be High-quality, even on the give up of our lives.
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