🌼, 🍬, 💘, 👍 (for Hyun 👀)

@theimpalpable | sex+romance headcanons!

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🌼 Would my muse prefer a big wedding or a small wedding? ALEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FKGHJ ;; Small wedding~ Just close connections, Miyoung, Seona, of course, who would Boram like to invite? :eyes: VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION, ALEX, I—NO okay but, getting my brain back into serious mode, I do think a small wedding. Even before captivity, and even more so after, Hyun’s always been a rather private person, especially with his feelings, his affections. He likes to keep things as these within close quarters, it’s his way of treating them as special as they are to him, by being selective with whom he shares them with, who he’d even let know, you know? So something homely, with home-cooked food, maybe, something that gives off the vibes of a garden tea party (I am weeping on the floor-) BUT WHAT ABOUT BORAM?? Because if Boram would prefer a big wedding, Hyun’s renting a stadium-

🍬 Is my muse a sub, dom, or switch? Touched upon before, but only in a general context. In a Boram-specific context, I feel the answer is a little clearer, while also sounding messier because of the Lena-Writing-It-Factor, oh boy- Intimacy is all about trust, Hyun would argue, no matter the nature of the intimacy. I’ve glubbered and blabbered before about Hyun’s reaction and relationship to first instances of physical intimacy and how it’d take him a moment to sort of crawl his way passed the various bases (which I find a silly way to refer to it, but also, linguistically speaking? Kind of cool~). Now, since this is all about trust to him, sort of losing all tension within him, I do think Hyun would naturally take on a more submissive role. Of course, I am of the idea, and my muses’ preferences probably reflect that, that preferences shape themselves according to the dynamic created between the given partners, so going into things stubbornly demanding to have it one way, I’m not quite sure if that would even work without it being at someone’s expense. And Hyun is the same, in the end things would settle into place between Boram and Hyun, I THINK OBVIOUSLY ALWAYS CORRECT ME WHEN I SPEAK OF BORAM, naturally and the dynamic would show itself as things happened, for lack of better way of phrasing it fkhlgkhlj. As a first response, reaction, instinct, Hyun would be more on the submissive side of things, though, because it’s almost his way of showing ‘I trust you completely’? But, honestly, it’s all about what’s preferred, sought out, in the given moment, he could just as easily take on a more dominant role if that’s how things are turning into, he’s not negated nor repulsed by the idea, honestly, he’s in it for the intimacy with Boram, he--

💘 What are the ways my muse says ‘I love you’ without actually saying it? COOKING~!! It makes my heart soars in ways I cannot hope to describe that I sort of know some answers here also from things we’ve spoken about before~ I LOVE YOU SO~ ♥ Ahem, so, cooking most definitely, generally things that show care for Boram’s well-being? Asking to be texted when he gets home, checking in at the first sign of exhaustion, paying enough attention, to notice if Boram is more exhausted than usual/slept less than usual. Remembering Boram’s preferences without ever wanting to make it obvious, because he doesn’t want it to be noticed in turn, he doesn’t like to be praised for caring, but remembering colours, tastes in particular. Remembering, I think, is a big deal. Noticing, you know? I don’t know if this counts, traditionally at least, as ways of saying ‘I love you’ without actually saying it, but it’s what came to me when I thought about it for Hyun. Watching. Paying attention. What upsets Boram and keeping it away from him, what brings him joy and bringing it closer to him. Never with the intent or methods that would take agency away from Boram, but, if he’s picking a film, why pick something that would upset him? And if he’s preparing them dinner, why not choose a flavour he knows Boram likes, if he can?

👍 Does my muse prefer to be asked on a date, or would they rather do the asking? BOTH! Hyun is particularly enamoured by the idea of things just… settling into place casually, if that makes sense? Hand holding because they can and because it’s natural and right for it to happen this way. He likes the idea of going somewhere and just considering it a date, he’s absolutely dramatic, of course, he will do dramatic things, but he’s also… Well, I’m leaving that in even though it might not make too much sense, but to try and answer better, and focus more on the actual question, most definitely both. He likes the idea of it just… coming up, without either party holding back because the other must ask. He wouldn’t care who asked more often, who had which idea, asking out for a date is ‘hey, want to spend some time together in a context that is specifically romantic?’, a question he both likes to ask and answer yes to.