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yeesiine · 22 days
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The intimacy of deep conversation.
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addiesanatomy · 3 months
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Chilling, but feeling talkative! Yay for taking ADHD meds late in the day. Lol
I was planning to clean and do laundry. Lol
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superdanverstrio · 8 months
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Can u do a tony stark with fem reader that is talkative then one day she heard her friends talking about how she wouldnt shut her mouth now shes insecure then tony finds out about it the comforts her (sorry for the bad grammar) THANKYOUU
Fake friends
Warning: fake friends.
Parings: Platonic! Tony x daughter reader
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Being the daughter of a billionaire certainly had its advantages and disadvantage, one of the biggest disadvantages was that you couldn't really be sure if you had real friends or if they only wanted your dad's money.
After years of having fake friends, you finally thought you had found actual friends that didn't just want your money. Most time people didn't like you because you talk all the time, you were extremely talkative. But those friend didn't seem to mind your talking. You really loved them as a friend, and you thought they did too. That was until you caught them talking behind your back.
You all went shopping at the mall, of course you were paying for most of the things since you were really generous. You were at a table eating lunch that you paid, of course you were talking about school. “I'm going to go to the bathroom, I won't be long.”
When you came back a few minutes later you could hear them talking, you were curious what they were talking about. You listened closely, and you heard they were talking about you.
“Gosh! How long are we going to have to pretend to be friends with her, she is so annoying, I swear.” Lisa said. “I know but look what we got, we have like 4 bags just of clothing and all for free. And all we have to do is hear her talking for hours.” Dylan said. “I know, but she is so boring. I swear she is lucky to be rich, otherwise she wouldn't have any friends.” Holding back tears you stormed out leaving your bags to them, you called happy to drive you back home.
Before happy arrived, you had time to dry your tears completely. You got in the car and smiled. “Are you ok?” He asked, looking in the rear view mirror. “Yeah, why wouldn't I be?” “I don't know, you told me to pick you up at 5, and it's only 3.” “Oh, uh, one of my friends had something to do so they had to leave.” Happy nodded and you both stayed silent.
When you arrived home, both your parents were working, even though it was Saturday. You went in your room and tried to occupy your mind enough to not think about what they said. You tried in vain, but it is inevitable your mind kept thinking about what they said. And before you knew, your mom called you for diner, you want down and sat down at the table and started eating. Your fake friends made it clear that your insistent talking was unwanted, so during dinner you stayed quiet, which surprised your parents.
“Are you ok honey?” Your mom asked. You looked up from your plat and nodded at her. “Yeah why?” “I don't know, you just seem really quiet.” You shrugged and continued eating.
Some days passed, and your parents were really questioning your silence. At school your fake friends saw you stopped talking so much and didn't buy them stuff anymore after only 2 days they dropped you, they stopped being with you and talking to you. And now you were alone and you hated it.
“Alright, what's going on with you?” Your father entering your room. “What? Nothing why.” “I've never heard you this quiet before, what's going on.” You look down. “I hate being rich.” You say. “That not someone usually says, but ok. why?” He said, sitting at the edge of the bed. “Because I never know who I can trust to be my friend. I can't trust that they're my friend because they like me and not for my money.” Tony nodded but then frown. “What about Lisa and Dylan, aren't they your friend?” “I thought so, but no, they were just my friend to get free stuff. “ You say. “How do you know that?” “I heard them talk being my back, they said that I was so annoying, and I talk too much and if I wasn't rich nobody would be my friend.” You said tears being your eyes. "Oh, I'm sorry, honey. But don't listen to them ok they don't know what they are talking to them, you have an amazing personality people would love you no matter how much money you have.” He said hugging you. “Thanks, but you're only saying that because I'm your kid.” “No I'm not, I mean it, you're an amazing young woman, if you don't believe me asked the team they love you.” “Maybe but they are adults I want friends my age.” you said Your father got up and asked you to come with him.
“Where are we going, you asked, following him. “I want you to meet someone.” Getting in the elevator. “I told you j don't want to meet a friend of yours, they're too old.” “I wouldn't call him my friend, he more like my protégé.” He said, “where is he?” “He's just downstairs.” You looked at him funny when you say that.
“Why is he downstairs?” “Because I needed to talk to him. He's name is Peter, by the way. I just now realized but you guys go to the same school, he talks a lot too so no worries about talking too much and well for some reason he doesn't seem to care that I have money.” You nodded, he does seem like a really nice guy.
You got out of the elevator and entered a room where peter was waiting. “Hey Mrs. stark! Hey.” Hey, said to you and your father. “Hey kid, I would like you to meet my daughter. Y/N peter, peter Y/N.” You waved at him with a smile, and he did the same. “So you guys go to the same school, so I thought that. Maybe you too could talk. I'll let you two do that.” Tony said, and just walk away.
At first peter was kinda shy but as you kept talking he became less and less shy and you guy really got along. He even presented you to Ned and MJ who were really nice, fun and the most important they didn't care of how much money your father had.
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dumblr · 2 years
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When someone's stays up late just to talk with you >>>>>
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agavegator · 2 months
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my favorite activity
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ivrxquack · 11 months
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La la la la la Ok ok ok ok ok
Ghost x talkative reader
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“He’s totally whipped for them”gaz said as him and soap watched you talk to ghost who had a soft look in his eyes
“Totes”soap said nodding wiggling his eyebrows
“And then he slipped in it and he purposely ate it”you said with a gross look on your face talking about krueger slipping in horse poop
“What?”ghost said and you just nodded
“Kruegers always been so weird in elementary school he bit kids ate crayons erasers he was interesting”you said laughing as he smiled under his mask
“How do you even know him?”He asked
“We went to elementary school together”you said as he nodded
“The first things he said to me were and I quote “my mom lets me eat the bed bugs and roaches for dinner”you said laughing as ghost shook his head
“He’s honestly a pretty good guy everyone has their flaws”you said continuing on the talk not even noticing the look ghost was giving you
‘I’m gonna marry them one day’ he thought as he nodded along to what you were saying happily
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reanimateobjects · 2 years
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yeesiine · 3 months
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A mature relationship is when yesterday's fight doesn't affect today's communication.
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randomreasonstolive · 2 years
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Reason to Live #7631
 To be talkative with someone that doesn't make you feel like you're annoying. – Guest Submission
(Please don't add negative comments to these posts.)
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luvflowers · 3 months
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is it too late for me to stop school and just become a wizard? no? cool
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churutu · 4 months
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You Should Be Proud of Being an Introvert
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Photo by Cassie Boca on Unsplash
It’s Saturday night, and I’m home alone.
While the whole city around me is probably out partying, I’m in my room listening to my favorite lo-fi playlist on Spotify, snacking on some popcorn, and typing away on my computer — it might sound like a wasted Saturday night for most of you, but let me tell you, I couldn’t be more in my element.
Don’t get me wrong, I would go crazy if I never got out of my house, but in this stimuli-filled world, I can only stand so many hours of social interaction before I feel completely drained and need some me time to recharge my batteries. The same is true for university, for example: While I enjoy attending certain lectures and seminars, I still perform better on my exams if I’m able to prepare by myself, which is why the silence and calmness of my room are much appreciated. Even when it comes to work, I have no problem following orders, but most of the time I’m better off doing things on my own anyway.
I’ll just go ahead and say it, I’m an introvert.
As I write this, something feels off and the same question keeps on popping into my head: Why should I even have to convince people that being an introvert is a good thing?
The problem is, in Anaïs Nin’s words, that our culture made a virtue of living only as extroverts.
In today’s society, introversion is often seen as an undesirable trait. Even I myself, as an introvert, used to think that way. As a teenager you could often catch me staring at the extroverted kids, thinking, why can’t I be like that?
Luckily, that’s not the way I look at it anymore, and I’m here to tell you why you shouldn’t either. To be completely honest, I’m quite happy with the person I’m turning out to be, and I believe it was, to a great extent, my introverted self who made me the man I am today.
We think before we speak
I admit it, we don’t talk much, but is that really a bad thing?
As introverts, we usually feel less comfortable talking, so we take our time before we actually decide to do so. But think about it, if we’re not talking, that means we’re listening. If we’re not talking, that means we’re choosing the right words to properly express ourselves. If we’re not talking, that means we feel there’s nothing worth saying — we like to focus on quality, not quantity, so that when we do talk, we actually add value to the conversation.
My grandmother used to say that I rarely spoke during arguments, but when I did, it was like my words slapped everyone in the face.
Put differently, if you think before speaking, you can carefully pick and choose what you say, which then allows for your words to have a bigger impact. Now don’t get me wrong, talking a lot isn’t necessarily the problem,talking for talking’s sake is — or, as Stuart Wilde puts it in his book “Silent Power”:
“Most people talk too much, and what they do say is often just noise or irrelevant gibberish designed to keep themselves entertained.”
The ability to just shut up and listen allows us to do more than just thinking before speaking, though:
We make deep connections
Yes, our social circle is probably smaller than that of an extrovert, but remember, quality, not quantity.
I recently watched a TedTalk by Dr. Raj Persaud,”The Psychology of Seduction”, and out of the 16-minute talk, there was something that I found particularly interesting: Dr. Raj explains how there are three “phases” to a relationship — attention, interest, and maintenance. Apparently, extroverts are better at catching the interest and attention of a potential lover, introverted people, on the other hand, are better at maintaining the relationship.
While Dr. Raj’s seduction tips were probably developed with romantic relationships in mind, I think the theory applies to any type of connection between two human beings.
As introverts, we often have a harder time making friends, let alone flirting with someone we find attractive, but the few times we are able to take down that interest/attention barrier that extroverts can so effortlessly walk through, the bond we create is long-lasting and, dare I say, indestructible. Some of the closest people to me are childhood friends that I now rarely see, others I met randomly through life and hang out with almost daily — but regardless of the frequency with which we see each other, regardless of how, when or where we met, I know I can count on them at any time, for anything.
I can count these people on one hand, and I wouldn’t have it any other way — I don’t need, and to be honest don’t want, a bunch of mere acquaintances to hang out with every time I have nothing better to do:
We feel comfortable being alone
We’re not socially awkward, we’re not antisocial, we’re not lonely — but we’re comfortable even with no one’s company but our own.
Our society is pretty much built by extroverts, for extroverts: At school they push you to come out of your shell, at work they highly encourage group brainstorming sessions; the world pretty much teaches us, from a very young age, that we must become more extroverted. While there isn’t anything inherently wrong with any of that, you can’t deny that, as a society, we’ve lost a basic yet foundational capability, being alone with our thoughts.
In his Pensees, philosopher Blaise Pascal wrote that “all of humanity’s problems, stem from man’s inability to seat quietly in a room alone.”
I don’t know if I fully agree with such an extreme statement, but I definitely get Pascal’s point: Most people nowadays can’t even fathom spending a Saturday night at home.
Yet here I am, Saturday night, talking to you through my computer, writing, and listening to music, all by myself. I’d be lying if I said I stay at home every day and night of the week, but I do find myself craving more alone time than most of my peers — as an introvert, I have a preference for more quiet, minimally stimulating environments, which is why I’m not only comfortable, I actually enjoy seating quietly in a room, alone.
Bill Gates, for example, is living proof of how introverts enjoy and actually thrive during their alone time: He is arguably the most successful introvert on this planet, and from time to time he likes to have what he calls “think weeks”. 
Matthias Reumann
 wrote a great article on them, but in short, a think week is a week in which Gates decides to go off the grid, separate from civilization and just reflect and ponder on different subjects, like the future of technology.
Who would’ve thought, Bill Gates, the co-founder and chairman of Microsoft, an introvert:
We make great leaders
Unexpected, right?
I don’t think there’s a scientifically-proven list of qualities needed for great leadership, but if I asked you to come up with one yourself, what would you write down? It would probably look something like this: Assertive, talkative, sociable, action-oriented, confident — extroverts are usually regarded by society as natural born leaders, and honestly, I can see why.
I can see why, but are they actually right?
According to the data, not completely: In 2012 Susan Cain published a book called “Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking”, and the whole second chapter was pretty much dedicated to debunking this myth. As she puts it:
“Extroverts are routinely chosen for leadership positions and introverts are looked over, even though introverts often deliver better outcomes.”
The numbers speak clearly, our world population is equally divided: Half introverts, half extroverts, give or take. Still, according to a study presented by the Wall Street Journal, only 5% of midlevel managers are considered introverts, the number goes down to 3% when it comes to executives, and as low as 2% for top executives.
As you can see, not many introverts get to those leadership positions, but the few who do, tend to deliver incredible results.
Elon Musk, Warren Buffet, Mahatma Gandhi, Rosa Parks, Abraham Lincoln. Whether it be running a company, a country, or a movement, these names have had a massive influence in their respective fields, and they are/were all introverts.
According to Cain, the secret behind these quiet leaders’ successful leadership, can be boiled down to two main factors:
By nature, us introverts, tend to get extremely passionate about the matters that interest us in life. Passion for our work, a cause, or a mission, allows us to gain expertise, inspire trust, and make alliances — in other words, when the people we are leading feel that commitment, they too get inspired and fully invest themselves in that work, cause, or mission.
A less romantic, yet fundamental aspect of quiet leadership, is our ability to listen: “Introverted leaders tend to solicit ideas from other people and listen to those ideas and use them, so there is not as much of a brain drain”, said Cain in an interview with WorkHuman Radio.
Before I let you go, I’d like to clear one thing up: This is in no way, shape or form an attack on extroverted people.
I just thought it’d be nice to, for once, praise all the introverts out there.
We are used to being told that we should talk more, open up more, go out more, but I firmly believe that thinking more, pondering more, and reflecting more, is equally as important.
So, to all my fellow introverts out there, keep being yourself, and remember:
“Spend your free time the way you like, not the way you think you’re supposed to.” — Susan Cain
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Quiet people are actually talkative around the right people.
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findroleplay · 9 months
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👑Hi ! 25+, She/Her, CEST.
Literacy/frequency: I'm literate-advanced literate. I can write beyond the discord limit, or faster replies, I adjust to the person I'm writing with but I like fairly detailed scenes. I'm quite active, if I like the rp a lot I can answer several times a day or once a day (we all have a life I understand that we can't always, it's the same for me, just warn).
Fandom: HOTD (AegonxAemond, Aegonxoc, Aemondxoc, modern or not, I have plenty of ideas), Sandman (ocxoc), Constantine DC universe (ocxoc), or crossover between Sandman and Hotd, I have a plot too. Fandomless : Enemies to lovers, dark and conflicting but passionate stories.
Plot ideas: I have several plot ideas and if that doesn't inspire you, we can build some together with great pleasure.
Before a solar wave, two people meet for the first time, the tone rises, they argue. A few months after the apocalypse, one of the two is in danger and the other saves them. I have the whole story in more detail and editable if you are inspired. (MxM or MxF)
Two childhood friends who grew up together but were separated as teenagers reunite as adults; one is the leader of a major mafia gang and the other one of the best federal agents in the country. The agent will infiltrate the mafia for his work and find himself under the orders of his former childhood friend. (MxM or MxF I will write F and we can double if you need, I like stories with more than two characters)
A group of friends who have known each other since the orphanage where they grew up and later become a group of gangsters, going through prison, etc. (MxM, MxF, multiple partners, I'm pretty open!)
Two brothers/siblings/friends are kidnapped by a Bolivian cartel and thrown into the forest for a kind of manhunt, they get out of it together and in turn become, little by little, the leader of a gang which becomes powerful and seek revenge.
Triggers: This will be an adult RP, so no minors, preferably looking for people who are 20 years or older. I don't have any particular issues with FxF; I'm just not used to it, but I'm open to trying. There will be NSFW content, as I enjoy writing it, but it shouldn't be the only focus of the story - we need a real plot.
I have few limits, but I like to discuss them with the person before starting. 
Other: I'm a talkative person who loves to exchange ideas, whether it's sharing Pinterest boards related to our RP or discussing everyday life topics - I'm open to chatting and even becoming friends. Despite having a full-time job, I can reply several times during the day and sometimes throughout the evening. I hate being ghosted and never do it myself.
So, if you survided this long shoot and you're the type who is super passionate and invested, enjoys creating stories, imagining adventures and worlds, sharing your latest musical discoveries, and sending silly gifs - let's connect! Please like this message to show you're interested! #nominors #hotd #fandomless #talkative #mxm #mxf
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sanktpolypenbourg · 9 months
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Talkative people be like
"Why?! Aren't you talking to me? What's the matter? Are you giving me the silent treatment!! Why aren't you SAYING anything?"
-"Can't."
"What do you mean, 'can't'?! Can't or don't want to? What's going on! Tell me!!!! Why... why are you making stupid faces and weird hand wriggles...? I need you to explain this to me! I don't understand!!"
-"Throat. Hurts. Tongue. Raw and Bleeding. So tired."
"What do you MEAN, 'your tongue is bleeding'?! How does something like that even happen? What does it feel like? I need you to elaborate! Or is it just an excuse to stop talking to me, because you are really rude! We need to talk about this! About why you are so rude to me!! Use your words, dammit! No, NO, don't start writing little notes, that's super dumb, just TALK to me, dammit, like a person!"
-"Please... it's so hard..."
"Well, MAKE AN EFFORT! I am DYING of isolation over here!!!" :(
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