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You have to stop ruining things for yourself preemptively because you believe they’ll fail anyway. Give yourself a chance to succeed.
#forcing failure now will not prevent the pain of it#give yourself a chance to see a better outcome#suggestions#recovery#positivity#self love#mental health#self care#ed recovery#love#goals#life goals#daily life#hope#hopcore#believe in yourself#healing#study motivation#studyblr
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Shortgrass (bdubs and joel) has to be added here they are SO silly ur honor
ive never actually heard if this ship b4! its been added to the bracket
#shortgrass#joel smallishbeans#smallishbeans#smallishbeansshipbracket#bdubs#bdoubleo#propaganda#suggestions
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i know the mortifying ordeal of being known ect ect but what about how much of a gift that can truly be?
people are reminded of you when they see something you love the same way you are reminded of them, the baristas at the coffee place remembering your order, getting to be the kind stranger that made someone feel a little better on a bad day.
each time you go out, whatever you touch, whatever you do, can have an impact on someone. while that can sometimes feel like the scariest thing in the world it's a huge part of the gift of being alive
#just thinking about the joy of human connection i guess 🥰#like the way i used to spiral and panic over the thought of being perceived (i still do) but trying to remember that it's a gift as well#recovery#social anxiety#suggestions
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The positives of ‘putting yourself out there’ are worth it. Having a great conversation with a stranger will be worth the awkwardness of starting that exact conversation. Joining a small community of people you will see regularly is worth having to get through a scary first day. Getting your dream job is worth the scariness of chasing it. Don’t pick and choose experiences based on the level of ease now, but choose them based on how you want to come out of them.
#the healing (starts here)#growth in the self#comfort kindness family#self care#self love#positivity#positive#positive suggestions#positive thinking#suggestions#suggestion#self validation#mental health#learning to be a social being
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this year i want to give myself a chance. i want to let myself do things that might make me happy! i deserve to at least try.
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a 'little' request that i fulfilled over on the simscord! @cinnamonsims' vera dress converted from ts4 to ts2, and paired with @trillyke's labyrinth stockings + @jius-sims' canvas platform sneakers! a beautiful dress for you to style your sims with 🥰
the outfit's entire polycount was close to 30k (criminal...), but i managed to cut it down to just 7346 polys. there's still some black spots remaining (largely visible on the shoes and straps in bodyshop, but otherwise i'm super proud of how everything came out! the dress is for tf-af only, tf is repo'd to af, and all morphs are included! it's categorised as everyday/formalwear.
DOWNLOAD: SFS | MF 🌟
credits go to @cinnamonsims, @trillyke, and @jius-sims for the original ts4 meshes & textures of these items! plus to @paluding, whose sim tattooer i used to convert the stockings 😍
THINGS TO NOTE
every single part of the body is a separate group. i did this because i wanted it to be easier to make recolors, but if that annoys you as a creator it should (theoretically) be possible to combine the dress, shoes, and socks groups together and layer the textures on one another, since they use the ts4 uv map.
expect some clipping/unclipping issues with the legs while walking. i did my best and it's not as visible as it used to be, but the legs can and will pop out from under the skirt.
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if there are any issues that you find with this dress, please don't be afraid to let me know! happy simming, and when you download this, do keep in mind,
#sims 2 download#the sims 2 cc#ts2cc#s2cc#sims 2 cc#the sims 2#sims 2#4t2#4t2 conversion#4t2 cas#suggestions#sims 2 suggestions
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*grabs u by the face and brings u closer to my face* listen here u little beautiful and wonderful person, u and i are going to get better whether we like it or not
#beautiful applies to all#friend suggestions#suggestion blog#feel free to submit#friend suggestion#friendsuggestion#friendsuggestions#suggestion#suggestions#suggestions blog
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How to recognize when you need to set a boundary
Physical signs of your body telling you "no":
Bile in your throat
Panic
freeze response aka frozen or paralyzed w fear
Heart paced real fast
Anxiety
Unsettled stomach/gut feeling
Head fuzzy
Head & chest feels tight
Face might scrunch up in disgust/disbelief/pain etc
"ick" or "ew"
fainting or feeling weak as a result
crying
feeling like hurting yourself
cheeks hot, face flushed (embarrassment out of fear or humiliation)
fight/flight/freeze/fawn response gets triggered
body feels "charged" or "activated"
wanting to yell or shout back
wanting to run away
wanting to hide
wanting to stuff yourself with food/substances/alcohol etc to numb the pain
heart feels heavy or pounds at awkward intervals
not being able to eat
head shakes "no"
backing away
asking or screaming for help
feeling scared
feeling "on alert"
not knowing what to say
arms protecting yourself
not being able to move
Emotional signs that you are not safe:
Unsettling environment
Fawning aka "going with what they want" even if you don't feel good about it
Uncomfortable
Knowing the other person doesn't like it when you express things different from their own beliefs
Knowing if you spoke up you would be either mocked or downplayed or told you're being too sensitive
Being told you're "disrespectful" or "not allowed" to talk back or disagree in any way
Being told you're too chicken or being forced to feel dumb or stupid if you don't join in
Being openly mocked or talked about by the whole group
Expressing a concern and they get mad at you for being mad at them
You're always the one in the wrong even when you were the one being hurt
They use grandiose words and phrases to assert dominance
"walking on eggshells"
They continue to do the things you asked them to stop doing even after countless times asking them
They don't care about how you feel
They make no effort to acknowledge your feelings or acknowledge how their behavior is affecting you
They force you to participate in drugs/alcohol
They hold their power and good deeds they have done for you over your head and threaten to stop helping or support you or even take back what they have given you
They are physically aggressive/ violent
Rage
Rage during substance use
Touching you without asking
Downplaying anything you need as not important
What to do:
Take a deep breath
Take your time figuring it out
Remind yourself this isn't your fault
Stay focused on the behavior- because they WILL try to detract from it & turn it around on you
Gather your resources
Consider leaving or cutting contact
Consider therapy or online support groups to help yourself breathe and find safer spaces for yourself
Have an exit plan
Do not engage with the arguments & emotional bait
Cultivate your privacy
Cultivate your security
Cultivate yourself a safe space
Prepare yourself for the backlash
Ask someone safe to go with you
Call someone safe and ask them to stay on the phone with you if you do not feel safe
Self defense tools like pepper spray & brass knuckles
Know you're worth the exit
Take yourself seriously when they dont
Honor the gut feelings
Restore faith in your judgement
Honor your voice
Honor your body
Honor your "no"
Ask for a pause- "I need a break."
Ask for clarity- "Can you clarify that?"
Ask what their intentions are- "Are you being helpful or hurtful?"
Bring attention to the behavior and how it's making you feel- "I'm not comfortable with the way you're ignoring my concerns."
Make direct eye contact & deepen your voice- "You need to stop."
Do not apologize
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Hope this helps!
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#recovery#ptsd#trauma#boundaries#mental health#healing#bpd#positivity#how to say no#setting boundaries#communication#relationships#toxic relationships#toxic friendships#toxic family#reminders#suggestions#compassionate reminders
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It's okay if you have trouble understanding people. Reading others is not as important as being compassionate and open to understanding them.
#des posts#suggestions#suggestion blog#desultory suggestions#mental health#mental wellness#self care#healing#wellness#autistic#actually autistic#communication#communication struggles#low empathy#adhd#audhd#actually audhd
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ok guys im adding some more propanganda frok my main because noones suggested my favs yet,,, lizzie x joel x etho AND lizzie x joel x jimmy
omg hello person that definatley isnt me 🧍🏼🧍🏼🧍🏼.
OK JOEL X LIZZIE X ETHO AND JOEL X LIZZIE X JIMMY HAVE BITH BEEN ADDED TO THE BRAKET!!!!
#joel smallishbeans#smallishbeans#ethoslab#lizzie ldshadowlady#ldshadowlady#jimmy solidarity#solidaritygaming#suggestions#propaganda#smallishbeansshipbracket
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i hope you did at least one thing for yourself today. whether that's brushing your teeth, drinking a nice cup of tea, taking a break to listen to your favorite song or reading your favorite poem. it doesn't have to be grand to be meaningful. it is so important to stay close to what brings you joy and purpose in life. ❤️
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after it has been new, scary and uncomfortable, it’s going to be okay. isn’t that what we’re doing it for?
#me trying to hype myself up about going to the gym for the first time#on my own#with a disability#yikes#positive suggestions#positive thinking#suggestions#suggestion#comfort kindness family#self validation#positive#positivity#self love#self care#positive mental attitude#mental health
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Suggestion: some curly-haired Candace
Scientific experiment to find out if people can read my handwriting.
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you can have a fresh start anytime. you can start again every day. every hour if you need! you’re allowed to put the past behind you.
#suggestions#suggestion blogs#positivity#recovery#recovering#positive thinking#mental illness positivity#Mental illness recovery#self care#self love#self help
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it's finally done! 🎊 to the (multiple people) who requested this, i'm so sorry for taking so long to finish it up, but hey--it's here now, just in time for the new year! i hope you enjoy this conversion of @syboubou's enchanted dreams kids' set as much as i enjoyed making it 💓
there are 25 new build/buy items to delight your littlest and not-so-little sims, all low to medium-poly. this set features not just my first functional playmat (showcased above by babble broke!) but also a functional toddler bed cloned from one of @themediocresulk's, a one-tile crib cloned from @hugelunatic's, another monique's hacked computer, and much more! peek below the cut for the deets 👇
DOWNLOAD: SFS | MF 🌼
credits go to @syboubou for the original ts4 meshes & textures, @themediocresulk for the toddler bed as a pet bed (but for toddlers) that i cloned the toddler bed from, @hugelunatic for the one-tile crib that i based the wicker stroller off of, enjatoki (deactivated?) for the playmat mine is cloned from, and anyone else whom i've probably missed! 🥰
DESCRIPTION
Originally by Syboulette for TS4, converted to TS2 by nonsensical-pixels. Part of the SYB Enchanted Dreams Bedroom Set.
THINGS TO NOTE
The Crib has no animations, owing to its shaping, so expect clipping when babies are put in and out.
The Changing Table has no trash can attached, so expect some awkwardness when sims throw trash into the void.
The Computer functions as a Monique's Hacked Computer and requires the files from it to work.
The Dresser is repositoried to the Changing Table.
The Playmat is FULLY FUNCTIONAL and functions like the Baby Mat from the TS2 Store.
The Trash Bin is completely decorative.
The Wicker Stroller is cloned from a 1-Tile Crib by HugeLunatic and is functional! Only babies can be placed inside.
The 12 Wallpapers each have two versions; to fill a whole wall with one alternate between A and B for seamless textures.
ITEMS INCLUDED
Bed Light - 400 polys, $49
Ceiling Lamp - 280 polys, $89
Changing Table - 556 polys, $349
Computer - 1298 polys, $1799
Crib - 848 polys, $219
Crib Drape - 864 polys, $109
Desk - 1148 polys, $399
Desk Chair - 1226 polys, $99
Dresser - 504 polys, $309
Ducks Toy - 1062 polys, $29
Kid Bed - 3658 polys, $299
Kids Books - 92 polys, $29
Lamp - 650 polys, $89
Little Alchemist Table - 2648 polys, $299
Lunch Box - 392 polys, $99
Nightstand - 240 polys, $119
Playmat - 723 polys, $100
Potty - 942 polys, $149
Rug - 2 polys, $79
Stuffed Rabbit - 1656 polys, $99
Toddler Bed - 1396 polys, $199
Trash Bin - 252 polys, $49
Wallpaper - 12 swatches, 2 variants each
Wall Tree Light - 1128 polys, $99
Wicker Stroller - 1424 polys, $399
A collection file has been included for ease of browsing the catalog.
if there are any issues that you find with this set, please don't be afraid to let me know! happy simming, and when you download this, do keep in mind,
( @4t2ccdatabase )
#sims 2 download#the sims 2 cc#ts2cc#s2cc#sims 2 cc#the sims 2#sims 2#4t2#4t2 conversion#4t2 buy#suggestions#sims 2 suggestions
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you will make it through this too.
#happydayssuggestions#suggestion blog#suggestion#positive suggestions#happy suggestions#positivity suggestions#happy suggestion#positivity#positive suggestion#feel free to submit#positivity suggestion#happydays#positive#suggestions#reminder
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