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dreamgirlglowup · 2 months
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₊˚⊹♡ my body and mind are at peace ♡⊹₊˚
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kinkyprincesssarah · 4 months
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I work a lot.
I could be your housewife instead. Doing the household - your food, your laundry, keeping your house clean. You'd be able to fuck my pussy whenever you want. Fill me up, impregnate me. Fuck me while I am pregnant and breed me again.
I'd still work, but I'd prefer the work of a housewife.
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teentoospoiled · 3 months
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Try.
With each try, you make progress.
Progress leads to completion.
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strawb3rryangelw · 13 days
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movietonight · 3 months
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I'm starting a charity specialised in reaching out to "stay-at-home-girlfriends" and "tradwife" influencers and sending them copies of Betty Friedan's work under the guise of paid sponsorship
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audrinawf · 1 year
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A man telling you you’re hot is not a compliment. A compliment is him wanting to marry you, take care of you and respect you.
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red-pill-to-swallow · 7 months
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Doing your part in a relationship
Hey babes,
it’s Monday – a new, fresh week and the ultimate opportunity to make some changes.
I don’t know why it feels so much better to start a new routine on a Monday than it does on a random Wednesday.
I took some time after I posted my last two posts and really thought about the relationship dynamic between my man and me.
I thought about changes that I would like to make and what could help us to become a better couple.
Honestly, I was pretty shocked after all my thinking because it turns out that my man is the rock in this relationship and I am not sure why he is still sticking around when he could probably do so much better.
But let me explain:
I gave up working in my full-time job around January 2023 and have been home ever since then.
My man was aware that I was totally burned out from my job and offered me that I could stay at home and take care of the household chores.
Previously we used to split the chores around the house roughly 50/50. It was very fair and in some weeks he did more than me and some weeks I did more than him, like it’s in every relationship.
I would say that I am fairly good at housekeeping. I know how to cook, how to clean and how to do laundry.
However – I never before was responsible for everything. From going grocery shopping and planning meals to cleaning the bathrooms every week – suddenly all of this was on me.
I struggle really bad with organizing myself, this was one of the reasons why I was so burned out from my previous job, and I started slacking.
I would do the laundry one day and take three days before I started folding it. My man literally had no underwear one time and flipped out because that’s obviously disgusting and instead of improving – I started to get mad at him.
It wasn’t only the laundry, it also began affecting my cooking – which I loved doing before – and I would start making only frozen meals or just serving cold meat cuts with bread.
We started fighting a lot more because my man was sad, that instead of relaxing at home he would need to help me with my chores – after a full workday.
I had my epiphany a few weeks ago (when I made this blog) and realized that my man has every right to be mad at me. He does his job. I am not.
So, let’s see – my man works really though hours. He leaves the house early in the morning and comes home in the early evening. He’s usually stressed because his job is very demanding and he is responsible for a lot of people.
Imagine coming home to your girlfriend, who’s staying at home, and almost nothing is done. The fridge isn’t restocked, the floor is dirty and there is no food. After your shower you realize that you have no fresh underwear because your girlfriend didn’t wash any.
I would flip out too.
My behavior was/is borderline disrespectful and I am honestly ashamed because of it. I would have broken up with me if I was him.
But here we are – still together and I don’t plan on dodging this second chance.
I think many girls that want the lifestyle of a spoiled girlfriend or a stay at home girlfriend don’t realize how hard it is to organize a whole household on your own.
Yes, there might be some men out there that are so rich that they don’t mind employing staff to help around the house, but I don’t think that this is achievable for a woman in her twenties without having various high value connections in the right circles. At least I don’t have those connections.
I am responsible for keeping the house clean, making food and going grocery shopping. That takes maybe 5 hours of my day and the rest of the time I can do whatever I want.
My man only wants to come home to a clean, organized house with a stocked fridge and possibly a hot meal on the stove.
Honestly – he is the one that is working his ass off every day, not me.
The worst is, that I even started to neglect my appearance. I used to shave every second day and that slowly progressed to only once a week. I used to color my hair religiously and worked out at least three times a week.
Now I haven’t touched up my hair in over three months, my roots are disgusting and I am very ashamed because of it. I mean, even though my man pays for my beauty appointments – I couldn’t get my ass up.
However, I cleaned our whole house today. From the bottom to the top. It’s spotless. I did laundry and went grocery shopping and I made a plan on how to maintain all of those things.
I won’t share the plan just yet because I want to make sure that I can actually follow it before I share it with you.
What should you take with you after reading this rant?
Be careful that you’re always a responsible partner. Don’t be like me. If you’re telling your partner that you plan on doing something – actually follow through and do it. Don’t disappoint them all the time.
Make sure that you acknowledge what they do for you and thank them for it every once in a while.
It is unattractive to be lazy and not being able to keep up with your standards. It’s unfair to your partner to let yourself go and they have every right to be upset about it.
Think before you speak and start an argument. Are you really right? Is it worth to start an argument about something that is your responsibility?
I mean, my man made it clear in the beginning: If I want to stay at home and live a cozy life – I have to take care of the house while he works and provides for us both.
He does his part of the agreement. Every single day.
I’ve only done my part of the agreement when I felt like it and that is not okay. But I am changing and I know that he has already forgiven me for all the hassle.
See you soon
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lilwifeynextdoor · 28 days
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melisssg99 · 4 months
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New Years Resolutions Thing to do/learn in 2024🩷
•Create a vegetable garden 🌱
•Grow and use some produce 🧅🥔🧄🍅
•Grow some herbs 🌿
•Start a sourdough starter 🫙
•Bake sourdough bread 🍞
•Learn to eat meat after 11 years of vegetarianism
(Only local and organic) 🥩
•Make pickles from scratch 🥒
•Make hummus from scratch 🫛
•Pick a cherry from our tree 🍒
•Make a fruit jam/jelly 🍯
•Host a dinner party 🍽️
•Use our own compost ♻️
•Sew a dress 👗
•Do yoga on a weekly basis! 🧘🏻‍♀️
•Learn to curl my hair properly(1940's pageboy?) 💁🏻‍♀️
•Hug cows! 🐮
•Be kind to myself 🩷
(maybe I'll add more, idk 🤭)
•Make pasta(dough) from scratch! 🍝
•Use up my all non-natural, commercial cosmetics/soaps/lotions to then switch to more healthy natural options 🧼🧴💄
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windonthewaters · 5 months
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dreamgirlglowup · 2 months
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yoga
pink pilates princess
matcha
it girl
self love
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swabian-princess · 1 year
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Appearance goals until summer
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Hey girlies,
since I got promoted to a stay at home girlfriend a big part of my „job“ is to look my absolute best for myself and my man.
We have an event in the beginning of June and my birthday is in July, so I have set myself a deadline – I will be the best version of myself in the summer!
perfect skin – face: I won’t need a new skincare routine because I’m happy with my routine and with the results I’m getting. My pores are almost invisible and I only get pimples right before my period starts. The only thing I will start doing is using retinol again, however, I think two times a week should be enough for me.
perfect skin – body: shame on me – I seriously neglected my body skincare for the last couple of months but that’s gonna change now. I am shaving every second day and do a peeling beforehand when I’m already in the shower. I have a few dark spots and little red spots on my thighs and legs and since I am very pale they are super visible. I’ll start using a chemical exfoliant on those spots to brighten them up. I’ll also start mixing vitamin C and retinol in my bodylotion a few times a week.
Reduce the appearance of cellulite: I only have cellulite on top of the back of my thighs and minimal on my butt – so it’s not really visible in any clothing. Still, I want to look my best in swimsuits. I’ll try out thigh wraps with ground coffee once a week, focus on building muscles in those areas and I’ll be upping my water intake!
super white teeth: I brush my teeth two times a day, obviously, but I’ll start flossing in the morning too! I am also gonna use a mouth wash after every brushing session and I will book one teeth whitening appointment.
fresh nails: I’ll visit the nail salon every 3-4 weeks and get my my toes and hands done. Always in a natural pinkish color or with french tips. I’m also gonna start using hand lotion at home way more often.
perfect hair: my hair got pretty long in the last few months and goes below my shoulder blades. I have an hair appointment coming up and I want to go almost platinum. I want to be really light blonde for spring and in the summer. To maintain the color, I’ll go back every 6-8 weeks to get my roots retouched. At home I’m oiling my scalp and my hair once a week with argan oil. I am also going to use heat protection every time I style my hair.
perfect lips: I already have 1ml hyaluron in my lips but I want them just a little bit more jucy. Maybe 0,5ml will be enough – we’ll see!
appointment with my injector: she's amazing. She’s always honest and never did me or any of my girlfriends wrong. I want her opinion on maybe jaw/cheek or chin filler to make my face more symmetrical. I also want to talk about baby botox and a botox brow lift.
working out: duh. I workout 3-5x times a week and I want to tone up just a little bit more before summer starts. I’ll also try starting to incorperate daily walks into my routine.
new wardrobe: I am gonna clean out my closet in the next few weeks and either donate or throw out anything that doesn’t fit my aesthetic anymore. After that, I’m slowly gonna start building my dream wardrobe.
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cheezbites · 6 months
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Bf!Gaz walked in on you sleeping on your raw mattress; no bedsheet in sight. You were in the middle of deep cleaning the house for when he was going to return from deployment, wiping every crevice, doing the laundry and cleaning then changing everything out - but you were exhausted from sleepless nights of missing him whilst changing the bedsheet and just passed out whilst doing the task at hand. So, he finishes everything up for you, cleaning, cooking and even finishing up that bedsheet.
You woke up still tired, surprised then overwhelmed with joy.
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thefemmation · 7 months
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eucatastrophicblues · 4 months
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I hate being the person who’s like “you should watch and read historical fiction that’s unflinching about bigotry to understand how far we’ve come!” because actual historical research is best of all but I do actually think that a ton of tradwives and stay at home girlfriends could benefit from being Ludovico Technique-d with a combination of postwar French New Wave, audio readings of various 18th century exploitation novels, and The Law According to Lidia Poët
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youngmassidehoe · 4 months
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I'll never understand all the girls that want to be stay at home girlfriends/wifes/moms like I hate working but i would still rather have a job i hate instead of rely on a husband for money. Like maybe it's just me growing up with a single mom but I learned early on that having a job + your own money = independence. Like it makes me so worried seeing jokes like "women don't need rights I just need a rich man" like bruh your problem is with capitalism not women's rights as a whole.
Like I want all these girls to sit down with the women in their families that were actually stay at home wives & talk about the real shit that happens. Like it's not yoga in the morning & green juice, it's taking care of kids, cleaning a house, & doing all of that for free
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