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as someone who has experienced abuse from someone with a personality disorder, it's actually incredibly easy to not dehumanize everyone with a personality disorder. i've seen people do borderline eugenic rhetoric surrounding people who have npd, aspd, bpd or other personality disorders, and then be like "I'M allowed to say these things because i'm a survivor, and if you disagree you are hurting abuse victims."
and frankly? i'm tired of it. as an abuse survivor i'm here to say that you're NOT allowed to turn into a fucking eugenicist the moment you're hurt by someone with a personality disorder.
does hurting and belittling other people who happen to have the same disorder as your abuser, people that are already suffering and that are already looked down on by society, bring you any healing? does it bring you peace?
Being hurt by someone isn't an excuse to hurt others that you feel justified in lashing out on. you're literally in control of your own actions,
you may claim to be making a safe space for abuse survivors, but i will never feel any solidarity with you, and i ESPECIALLY don't feel safe with you considering i might have a personality disorder.
you are excluding a large amount of abuse survivors in the name of "advocacy". a lot of people with personality disorders developed one or multiple due to heavy abuse. in the aim of creating a safe space, you are excluding the ones who need a safe space the most.
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thesockwhisperer · 10 months
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The 4th of July can be fun but fireworks are the W O R S T. I hope everyone who struggles with the sounds and lights of it all (like me :/) can hopefully have a not terrible night. Same goes for folks with ptsd that is triggered by the fireworks!
Update: I LIVE (barely)
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motormouthedfool · 5 months
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bitches be like "do i have a personality disorder or am i just looking for attention or am i just trying to find excuses for behaving the way i do"
im bitches
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stal3bread · 1 year
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I personally prefer headphones, though I have earplugs (Loop Engage and Quiet). I use the engage in situations where I still need to talk but it's still loud, but they are kind of annoying because they increase the volume of my voice in my head lol (still better than absolutely nothing though). I use the Quiets either under my headphones for extra noise reduction or instead of my headphones when I can't wear them for whatever reason. I have the Sony 1000-Xm4 headphones which I highly recommend, though they're really expensive so if you want to get them I recommend waiting for them to go on sale like I did.
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weirdplutoprince · 1 year
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Autism acceptance day coming around! Made a comic
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notabled-noodle · 2 years
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my sensory issues are not preferences.
it’s not that I “prefer” you don’t touch me, it’s that being touched makes me feel like my skin is on fire. it’s not that I “prefer” you don’t make loud or squeaking noises around me, it’s that they literally make my ears hurt. I don’t just prefer to wear sunglasses and headphones, I need those things to function
yes, you should still try your best to navigate peoples preferences. but with sensory issues, it’s a matter of accessibility. some sensory input causes me pain. some cause me to have a meltdown. but either way, I will not trust you if you continue to trigger my sensory issues despite me telling you not to
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twoheadedfather · 7 months
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one thing that i'll never understand is that when like autistic people mask they're not trying to deceive anyone and it's sad they've been forced to mask because of social pressures (obviously) but when people with personality disorders mask they're automatically trying to "manipulate" everyone around them so that they can "abuse" them and "trick" them ??? like what
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wlfgrrl · 1 year
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kestrel-tree · 9 months
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Listen if you have sensory weirdness or just love being cozy I cannot recommend enough buying two (2) body pillows and sleeping between them like a subway sandwich.
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genderimpala · 9 months
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I HATE NEUROTYPICAL PEOPLE
"make sure you get out of your pjs to get ready for today"
"banana bread for breakfast? really?"
"make sure you eat something PROPER for lunch that's not just banana bread"
"will you do this today? do this today."
"oh you're fine, you just have to push through it"
STFU I HAVE MAJOR SENSORY ISSUES AND SOMETIMES I CAN ONLY EAT CERTAIN THINGS BECAUSE EVERYTHING ELSE MAKES ME WANNA DIE. MY PAJAMAS ARE COMFORTABLE. I AM IN SEVERE PHYSICAL PAIN. SHUT UP.
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SHE'S COMPLETELY RUINED MY ROUTINE AND THE THINGS THAT GO WHERE THEY GO.
WHY IS YOUR PHONE IN MY CHARGER. WHY ARE YOU LEAVING MY DOOR OPEN. WHY ARE YOU OVERLOADING THE DISHWASHER. WHY DID YOU MAKE THE MOST DISGUSTING SOUP I HAVE EVER EATEN THAT GAVE ME FOOD POISONING.
WHY ARE YOU HERE IN MY HOUSE.
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autisticgayplushie · 1 month
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meet melon the SPD opossum-bat!! similar to the OCD kitty, they will be a part of the pool of characters to choose from for backer's choice goals!!
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buglover77 · 10 months
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oh, so when SPIDER-MAN can sense a bug moving on the wall across the room, doesn’t have the fine motor control to get the right amount of toothpaste, and can feel each individual drop of sweat down his neck, it’s a “super power,” but for me it’s a “sensory processing disorder” yeah okay sounds fake doc I think you just don’t want me to stop you from committing crimes, how about THAT
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noriartz · 4 months
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Totally okay
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goblin-d · 1 year
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I love you people with PPD, I love you people with SPD, I love you people with StPD, I love you people with AsPD, I love you people with BPD, I love you people with HPD, I love you people with NPD, I love you people with AvPD, I love you people with DPD, I love you people with OCPD.
I love you paranoids, I love you schizoids, I love you schizotypals, I love you antisocials. I love you borderlines, I love you histrionics, I love you narcissists, I love you avoidants, I love you dependents, I love you obsessive-compulsives.
I love anyone and everyone with a personality disorder. These disorders are so heavily stigmatized. We need more love in the community.
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cacciatoresun · 1 year
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