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lostandoverwhelmed · 2 months

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EVERY TIME I MEET NEW PEOPLE I TRY TO MAINTAIN A MYSTERIOUS AND INTRIGUING AURA BUT I ALWAYS JUST END UP REVERTING BACK TO BEING loud and prone to oversharing😮‍💨

#spilled thoughts #thoughts #quoteoftheday #life quotes #socialising #socialising is hard

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tequileah · 2 years

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Ems birthday drinks.

#selfie #socialising is hard #too tired #when did i grow up #blonde #me #makeup #makeup artist #out out

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talubld-archive · 1 year

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no writing tonight. too tired. not ignoring messages on purpose either I'm just exhausted ❤️

#ooc. » boss battle music intensifies.#socialising is hard

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my-turn-with-the-braincell · 2 years

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A group of introverts should be called a no thank you. Coz none of us want to be there

#introvert #idk #socialising is hard

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misskanda · 2 years

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it's so weird navigating between different social circles sometimes. To some people I feel comfortable talking about my very niche and nerdy interests but to others it would seem arrogant, even though I'm just excited about the new ancient Chinese poetry book I just bought and not trying to show off

#socialising is hard #understanding people is even harder

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tardiiart · 2 years

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Down we gooooooo

#ugh #been feeling so bummed out and just more depressed than usual😞#idk why like ive been doing okey and then woke up and felt like absolute shit and just #feels like im being contained in a box of just negativity and i cant get out #im feeling so drained #socialising is hard #i van basically only talk to one friend who is calm and it doesn't overwhelm mr #but legot cannot speak to anyone else #i just deflate instantly #which sucks cuz i want to socialise with new people im getting to know #big sad hours #time to cry #hate this fucking part of autism and depression combined

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tezzbot · 6 months

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Was thinking abt the fact that IF Vector and Espio found Charmy when he was a baby, taking their "canon" ages into account, Vector would have been like mid-teens and Espio like. a preteen at the time and I love a good 'You're the age I was when we met/I did [X]/etc.' Soooo woe! That upon you Espio, it's always fucked up and evil the passage of time LOL

#team chaotix #charmy bee #espio the chameleon #vector the crocodile #mydoodles #Funny haha post but don't think about it too hard bc then you member theyre SO YOUNG :boom:#might make a seperate post about that I think it's so funny that A Lot of these kids just took in some other littler kids to care for #and a few that didn't aren't really socialised outside of that circle of friends so just would think it's normal mobian behaviour #or were likely that young themselves when they started doing dangerous stuff all the time lol #There are some characters that know its Not regular that either would be like UM? or just wouldn't bother saying anything at all lol #Okay I'm gonna stop rambling and actually post this before I have second thoughts</3

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dragzo · 3 months

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oh Red Son no-

#i like to headcanon that for years after dbk’s imprisonment #red son didn’t do anything but work on his engineering skills #or just wallowed within his home #pif didnt give a rats butt about what he was doing because she was already miserable dealing with other people #so red son didnt go out much to socialise or learn from the world #meaning there was a lot of things he didnt know about life and himself until after his father was freed #red son has never had any experiece with having feelings #romantic or platonic or anything. he only recognises familial love thats pretty much it #not because he doesnt feel them (duh) but because hes had no one to feel that way about #so becoming friends with goldendragon was pretty hard for him. but he still pulled through #but recognising his feelings for mk being more than that? that was the hardest yet (for everybody)#of course mei figured it out first. and eventually mk did too. but even red son had no clue until they both had to intervene #so red son realising he is no longer as straight as he once thought because of mk is a very real possibility LMAO #lmk #lego monkie kid #lmk fanart #mk lmk #lmk qi xiaotian #qi xiaotian #lmk red son #lmk spicynoodles #spicynoodleshipping #monkie kid spicynoodles

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gojous-adderall · 2 months

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About Noé's latest neurodivergent adventures (chapter 61.5 and 62)

(things I found relatable)

1. PUTTING UR HAND UP BC U CANT FIGURE OUT WHEN TO SPEAK. EVERYONE THINKS UR WEIRD FOR IT BUT ITS POLITE AND LIFE IS FUCKING HARD

2. Struggling to follow conversation, and seeing clearer ways of communication that no one else can and getting frustrated that the neurotypicals are so obviously communicating poorly

3. Vanitas designated translator

4. Being quite blind to politics (when it comes to discrimination against himself as a vampire [and his PRIVILEGES as a vampire] and in this case against others like dhams) bc he works individual by individual instead of by social categories

5. Last of all it hurts to see the other characters calling him ignorant and an idiot all the time bc Ive been there. He's booksmart, he's intelligent, just not socially, but here is everyone writing him off as dumb just bc he's different.

Its not like he's ignorant on purpose. Of course it's important to know this shit he's learning now, and it can be done, but it's a lot harder when ur autistic and, as Vanitas said, when u grow up so isolated. Learning is a neverending process and Noé is very clearly learning and just bc he works differently like putting his hand up to speak or interpreting the world differently doesn't mean he's stupid

#istg im not getting mad at fictional characters it just hits hard for me lmao #i actually grew up in a small very conservative town where it was unsafe to be queer #and i had so much learning to do when i moved to the capital and im so much happier now #but it was especially hard to figure this shit out when ur gullible and confused #i always had a nagging feeling that my peers denying others human rights was wrong but whenever i tried to object i would be mocked #like the inkling was there there were just no alternatives around me to the bigotry #until i found a place where my sense of justice could flourish #socialising is still hard but the politics side has improved so much and will continue improving #srry for ranting just wanted to share my personal experiences where relevant #autism #adhd #noé archiviste #the case study of vanitas #vanitas no carte #vnc #autistic noé #autistic noé archiviste

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sea-jello · 1 year

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so it’s established morro found and left wu long before the serpentine war cause garmadon just left for chen when morro joined wu, and if the elemental alliance all over ninjago found the master of wind they would have grabbed him for sure. they need all the help they can get

but wouldn’t it be fun if morro left JUST before the war started? wu constantly worrying if morro was safe or not, if he got caught in the war. him telling the alliance to look out for a small child with black and green hair, just in case. morro actively hiding from the elemental masters, especially from the ones hes met before

morro trapped in the cave, hearing peoples voices and movement outside, but too weak and too wounded for his calls for help to be heard. the alliance happily chatting away while setting up camp, unaware of what’s happening inside because who would be foolish enough to go in?

at least he didn’t die alone, technically

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lucifer-is-a-bag-of-dicks · 2 years

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I just went to dinner with family and was blindsided by several other guests that my mum failed to inform me were arriving so I just got slam dunked into a social situation I was not prepared for

but they were old family friends and thankfully one of them brought her kid along, I love this kid, he's adorable, he's maybe ten years old now and I've known him since he was a baby, I don't see him often but when I do I know it's gonna be a good night because now I don't have to stress about having normal adult conversations

I just gotta lend this kid a pen, watch him draw on some napkins for a bit, and then ask him what he's drawing

this kid will spend an entire evening giving me the complete rundown on some insanely creative magical creature that he made up all by himself

last time it was christmas lunch and he told me all about these evil hell dragons that all had different ways of torturing their victims' souls for all eternity, and the dragons had their own islands containing civilisations that also had complex political ties with each other that were all impacted by the dragons they had to deal with

tonight it was a fire based critter that started off really small but had several extremely creative evolved forms, some of which branched off depending on the creature's mental state when evolving, and should these creatures be lucky enough to reach their final forms, they can go from being ten times the size of the world's largest mountains, to becoming so large it destroys the planet its on, and then it becomes a new planet

why the fuck would I wanna talk with someone about them moving into their new house when I could talk about torture dragons and planet crushing fire beasts

#lula's thoughts #kids are so much easier to socialise with tbh #most adults don't wanna talk to them so they're happy to let you give them all the attention #and all you gotta do is ask them about something they're interested in and BOOM they'll talk your ear off all night #kids have the best ideas they are so weird and creative #also one of my cousin's kids sends me her art on messenger and it's so cute #she gets so excited when I complement something really specific that I can tell she worked hard on #I'm thinking of giving her my art supplies that I don't use any more

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arsene-fixates · 1 month

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Basically, I had a tiring day yesterday

#Classical and beatboxing + drums + guitar do Not go well #Everything was too loud It was hard keeping count (and not losing where everyone was in the piece) with all that was going on #2-10 SO TIRING. SOCIALISING TOO #Would have done this drawing yesterday but I knocked out #Even though the bass is hollow it’s . Its like semi heavy but that really depends on how long you’re carrying it for and I had to carry it #For quite a while (moving locations)#art tag!!#arsene-blogging #the informant #SORE ARMS ARE REAL!!!! TRYING MY BEST TO PLAY LOUDLY WITH THE OVERPOWERING DRUMS & GUITAR

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clits-and-clips · 2 months

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#my only wish in life rn would be for socialising to mot be so hard #to be able to start a conversation with someone instead of dreading it #being able to keep a convo going instead of sitting frozen #all those things #im thinking once i start going out more it will be easier #maybe?#i realise more and more every day that people arent silently judging you #basically no one cares #worry less or w/e #i wish i could!

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not-poignant · 3 months

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Hi Pia! I know you give us your update schedule, but every time I wake up I I see the tumblr notification and AO3 email that one of your stories has updated, I feel so spoiled and happy. I love reading your works!

On another note, this chapter was so great! Faber advocating for Efnisien and Efnisien being smart with his logic against Gary 😎 and then them just missing each other and being all sweet!

And I am so excited for the next chapter! I cannot wait for Flitmouse to me Efnisien. And I know it’s gonna be amazing when he gets protective, especially with his sharp tongue and wit! I just remember him gearing up to fight Pitch for Jack when Jack said they’d be fighting and agh I’m just excited 😆

I hope everything is going well over there and with the fur baby!

Eeee omg I'm so happy that you get all the notifications!

Honestly I love AO3 notifications so much too. Comment notifications make my day. Kudos notifications are fun because I enjoy all the different usernames. And of course there's stories I'm subscribed to as well. :D

I loved Faber advocating for Efnisien so much because he's not wrong, and because you know, Efnisien IS ready. There's situations that might make him flip out, but Underline the Black has kind of primed him to have a safer flight response, rather than a really aggressive 'I'm going to murder someone' fight response that he was having constantly in the beginning.

Honestly I am LOVING Flitmouse in this story. A more comfortably happy and spitfire Flitmouse is my favourite boy, and he's actually in the next few chapters quite a bit in different ways! :D

#asks and answers #underline the black #underline the rainbow #alois flitmouse #efnisien ap wledig #dr gary konowalous #everything is going well with the fur baby!#we're working well on capturing calm #well not “well” it's really hard #but we're working on it!#he's starting to get really good at loose leash stuff #which is also really awesome #things are settling in a bit #we need to do a bit more socialisation but it's been like over 110F / 43C for three days in a row so #i'm trying not to cook myself and the fur baby #administrator gwyn wants this in the queue

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mustangs-flames · 7 months

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thatcher walking up to yet another argument between mark and alt!cesar (he just got home from work and is VERY Done):

HELP-

He would, he's so tired of their drama sometimes lmfao

#hail true body au #mustang answers!#htb mark #htb alt!cesar #htb thatcher #thatcher: it's like trying to socialise two feral cats that fucking hate each other. this house is a fucking nightmare-#jfhgjsdg just imagining a redraw of this image is making me laugh so hard bsjdbgdfg

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thebirdandhersong · 10 months

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:')))))

#was developing interest in a man (a very nice one. God centred musically talented very kind) and was cautiously optimistic #found out today he's already married 😂😂😂 i have NO idea how i missed the ring #anyway that on top of learning that my old church was in fact dealing with a very different problem than i assumed made today a very #complicated and altogether not super pleasant time #i am. So Tired!!!!#i try very hard to be Hopeful but darn it all i keep getting kicked in the shins every time i stand up #anyway power nap time im literally so exhausted and we still have a full afternoon and evening of socialising ahead

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