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support · 10 years
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Everything okay?
If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. There are many support services that are here to help. For 24/7 peer support and other resources, message KokoBot on Tumblr.
If you are in the United States, please try:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255) The Trevor Project (LGBTQ youth, ages 13-24) National Eating Disorders Association (online chat, text) RAINN (National Sexual Assault Hotline)
If you are outside the United States, visit IASP to find resources for your country.
For more resources, please visit our Counseling & Prevention Resources page for a list of services that may be able to help.
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dog-teeth · 8 months
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something to recognize that choosing recovery again and again is difficult work, and you are not weak for faltering
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helloanthy · 8 months
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01.09.2023 🌹 today's anthy!
ummm some people commit identity fraude and orchestrate their own murder by manipulating other peoples maladaptive relationships ? to cope ?
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maycanady · 4 months
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Jesus, what are you doing? Relaxing. Doesn't it hurt? No.
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fishfingersandscarves · 5 months
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Beach Date - July 1989
(Referenced from Nan Goldin • ‘Bruce and Philippe on the Beach, Truro, MA,’ 1975, Matthew Marks Gallery)
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AITA for telling my friends I want to use they/them pronouns for a bad reason?
I (19F) am 100% a cis girl, but never really felt like I was "allowed" to be girly or feminine because of a lot of internal and external sexism and misogyny in my house growing up. No one ever really acknowledged the fact that I was a girl, unless it was in a negative sense. I was also homeschooled, so that made things worse because limited social interaction and stuff.
Now that I'm older and have a lot more connection with people through the internet, I'm a lot more comfortable with my identity and genuinely love being perceived as a girl. I understand the gender euphoria trans people feel when someone uses she/her pronouns for me. I also feel a hint of disappointment when people I don't know use they/them for me online (e.g. "prev knows their stuff").
With context out of the way, what actually happened was a few weeks ago. I went through a depressive episode, which came with the usual feelings of not ever deserving good things in life or happiness of any kind, and that no one cared/should care about me. As part of that, I withdrew from my friends for a couple days, leaving our discord server and blocking all of them (I know I shouldn't have done that, we worked it out). When I finally returned, I told them in vague terms that things were rough, I was a mess, and I wanted to start using they/them. I'm the only cis person in the group of 8 people so no one batted an eye about my request and just went along with it.
Here's where I might be the ah: the only reason I asked that is because I thought I didn't deserve to feel good about myself in any way, including my gender. My friends don't know I was asking them for help in basically punishing myself. I know if they'd known they would never go along with it. I also feel like an ah for using my privilege of being cis and having accepting friends to punish myself when there's real people in the world suffering because people refuse to gender them correctly.
Additional details that might be relevant: my friends are great, we met online about two years ago in a bigger server and grew closer and made our own small server not too long after. They know about my mental health issues and have helped me a lot. Almost everyone I know irl is transphobic and homophobic, so my reference for what is offensive and what isn't is kinda off. I still live with my family and they're by no means bad people. I'm also in the process of finding a therapist.
What are these acronyms?
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incognitopolls · 2 months
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benzatthanin · 6 months
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BEETLEJUICE 1988 | dir. Tim Burton
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swollenbabyfat · 5 months
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sorry you couldn't be happier.
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john-silvers · 2 months
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If I'm not what I was when I was born, and I ain't what I've become instead...what the fuck am I?
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hajihiko · 1 year
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Violent Impulses
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atoriv-art · 3 months
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haven't you always been wise beyond your years
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hel7l7 · 6 months
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I can't explain how it feels. I just want to get out of myself. I totally forget how to be kind to myself. It feels too dangerous to be soft.
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jetblackfeeling · 6 months
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tiktaalic · 2 years
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Remember when cas died and sam was like I have to give dean Special Little Treats so he won’t kill himself and dean was like why are you giving me Special Little Treats and sam was like ah ! So that you won’t kill yourself because cas is dead. Would you like a Breakfast beer?
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AITA for shipping my OC with the same character my friend was shipping their OC with?
TW// Self-Harm
My friend, Stacy (18F), has trauma from being cheated on repeatedly. It was something everyone in our rp group was aware about.
Stacy shipped her OCs with the most popular characters and had expressed she was uncomfortable with other people in the group shipping their OCs with the same canon characters. Some of the mods agreed and asked us not to take the same characters as Stacy. I thought it was ridiculous since she had 15 ocs for 15 of the characters. That would be 15 out of the 22 characters available which meant only 7 would be left available for other people to ship with their OCs. So it was absolutely ridiculous.
I @'d the person (Tim) playing one of the characters Stacy shipped her OC with in the OOC chat and asked if they would be open to doing a shipping rp with my oc. They agreed to, so we had our characters flirting in one of the channels. Stacy started acting weirdly about it and then had her OC butt in about it.
Then in the OOC chat, she exclaimed that this was really upsetting her because it felt like she was being cheated on again. Tim said that they had never agreed to having their character date Stacy's, only that they would consider it and that it would need to be worked towards. Stacy was distressed and had to leave the chat for a few hours. One of the members, Ann, knew Stacy irl and had gone to check on her. She came back into chat angry with us because Stacy had started cutting herself again. Ann yelled at us because we knew about Stacy's trauma but went and triggered it.
I said that it wasn't fair to allow Stacy to take 15 of the characters and asked the mods to change it. The mods eventually agreed and said people could only claim up to 2 canon characters to ship their ocs with. That was when Stacy had decided to rejoin the chat and she freaked out over it. She started crying about how that was unfair to her and that it would just feel like she was being cheated on multiple times. She ended up leaving and Ann blew up at everyone saying that we were being assholes, especially me, for destroying Stacy's safe space.
AITA?
What are these acronyms?
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