Hotel lewds.

(Although flirty in nature, this is not an invitation. I have no interest in sexting with you or seeing your genitalia. Also DON'T call me sexy, it makes my skin crawl. This is simply a woman sharing the love of her body with the world. PLEASE READ MY PINNED POST BEFORE FOLLOWING.)

new tat

Always looking ahead to what's next instead of giving myself permission to be proud of my accomplishments. I'm trying to change that.

It may happen to use relationships as a way to validate ourselves and our insecurities. This way we turn our people into a source of validation (which they're not), and don't allow ourselves and them to simply connect and enjoy: if they don't behave how we want them to, we may even resent them cause of our emotional trigger and fear. But people is not with us or living to please us. To change this, we should find ways to be more in contact with our own emotional side, more understanding of it, so that whenever we get an insecure feeling (triggered by another person), we don't overreact; we should be more compassionate and not judge ourselves for having those thoughts and being more confident in our own skin whenever we can (at least accompany every negative thought with a more neutral -if not positive- one. E.g. I'm too needy -> but I am also a very kind and giving person so that's actually balancing things out).

Self doubt eats me.

When will I learn to trust myself?

“okay, but does it come in pink…?” ♡

// your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth

When you approve yourself, never live in the haunted memories of the disapproval from others.

Beautiful, a fragile doll, but

You don't know me at all and

You wouldn't be so blind

If you knew what was happening in my mind

(Although flirty in nature, this is not an invitation. I have no interest in sexting with you or seeing your genitalia. Also DON'T call me sexy, it makes my skin crawl. This is simply a woman sharing the love of her body with the world. PLEASE READ MY PINNED POST BEFORE FOLLOWING.)

Just a reminder for the people who are trying hard to change themselves for the sake of others "you're fine just the way you are":)

It’s good to look back at your work and be like “yes daddy/mommy reader, i did that, das all me!”

am i an introvert?

i do feel very uncomfortable being in bigger groups

I recall saying this before, but it bears repeating:

There could be a billion trans people in the world and it still wouldn't be a bad thing because being trans is not a bad thing. Even if the rate of people discovering they are trans is "disproportionate" to trends from decades ago, that is not a bad thing. In fact, it's a natural consequence for there being more trans people being able to stay alive, and, overall, being able to live in a slightly more tolerant world. You'd only see that as a bad thing if you actively didn't want trans people to either live or live a life that facilitates wellness.

What is accepted as a fact or as the status quo doesn't necessarily have to by your guide and rule of life. You can always break the status quo and set your own rules.