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lovebvni · 3 hours
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allow death to happen.
allow things that no longer serve you do dissolve out.
that toxic relationship? let them go, their energy goes lot serve you. they are stealing your joy away.
the person that passed in a freak accident? let her go. she’s doing better now, she’s watching over you; she loves you. she’s is watching over you, with her hands over her heart. she’s proud of how far you’ve come and where you’re going.
allow that friendship to dissolve out. all they did was use you to make themselves look good.
that person probably doesn’t know you exist; let them go. they aren’t going to help you. obsession caused you to lose focus of important things in life.
allow death to happen; allow things to fall apart; let the tower moment happen; let unfortunate things happen. they open something in your heart — allow oxygen into the fire so it keeps burning.
which will hurt more? letting the pain constantly get worse until you can’t move anymore or being in surgery for a few hours, having to regain mobility in a few weeks so you can keep doing what you love?
if you think suffering instead of working is better, you aren’t allowing death to happen. when death happens, rest. don’t roll over in your grave, let the earth take your body — be reborn.
you gain nothing from fighting change; you only lose time. let go and make room for the new.
tarot card 13 — death.
love abyss, lucifer, loki, lilith, aphrodite, and my dear friend who passed in 2023.
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there is nothing wrong with being mediocre. there is nothing wrong with not being the best at everything you do. there is no guilt in doing the bare minimum because you have no energy to do more than that. “living your life to the fullest” can mean different things for you at different times in your life. sometimes, it is achieving your goals and fulfilling your purpose, and sometimes, it is allowing yourself to rest and just get through it.
you deserve the space to simply be. to exist, to witness, to breathe, and to find peace.
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seulhrts · 5 months
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meliibabyyxox · 4 months
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💕🫣🥰☺️🤤
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chvbbychu · 1 month
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It’s okay to be bigger ♡
»» — {♡ } —— { ♡ } —— { ♡ } — ««
Tight.
It was so tight.
You had just ordered that miniskirt a couple days ago, and it was already tight.
“Oh well, clothes are meant to fit me, not the other way around !”
You were always a chubby girl. A chubby girl who carried most her weight in their middle. A chubby girl who had weight related and was made fun of relentlessly. The internet has its thoughts about fat people, however you understood that many people liked chubby girls - they’d just never admit it.
There were many people who found your shape cute, even if you weren’t flat tummy chubby. Many people who like how your chubby cheeks puff up with food when you eat, or when your belly outline pokes more out of clothes than your chest. Don’t even get them started - they loved seeing the pudge of your tummy overspill over denim bottoms. How you had to be extra careful to squeeze through places because of your size.
It was awful that there were jerks who made fun of your size and would say they’d never wanna be seen with you. There’s many who like your size, some who aren’t afraid to show it.
Those who aren’t afraid to show it? They’ll happily feed you all the sweet treats in the world ♡ ིྀ
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bbviiwg · 6 months
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About acceptance
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xoxowonny · 18 days
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˚     . ✧   ˚     .     ˚     .   ˚     ☁️ 𝚂𝚎𝚕𝚏 𝙲𝚊𝚛𝚎 🧸ྀི🎀 ˚ ︵‿︵‿୨୧‿︵‿︵
ᜊ i am enough, i do enough and i have enough
ᜊ i am responsible for taking care of myself
ᜊ i release self-criticism and choose to love myself
ᜊ i prioritize my physical and mental well-being
ᜊ i appreciate all the ways that i am unique
ᜊ i am capable of handling any challenges
ᜊ i take breaks when i need to, clear my head
ᜊ i accept that i cannot please everyone
ᜊ i don’t let anyone’s opinion of me ruin my day
ᜊ i choose to be happy and love myself
ᜊ my needs are just as important as everyone else’s
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destinygoldenstar · 2 months
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Heyo. So I just rewatched the episode ‘Tick Tock’.
Why? I don’t know. I just found the episode in my YouTube recommend today and I like the episode, so why not?
Blah blah blah, it still holds up, it’s still one of the best episodes of the entire series a decade later. It’s gold.
I just wanted to praise a part of this episode that I think is very underrated.
That’s the other ninjas reactions to the reveal. Like we all focus on the reveal itself, understandable, but I don’t think enough people talk about how significant of a reaction this is for the others to have this.
They just found out one of their surrogate brothers is actually a robot. (That’s not a spoiler, you’ve all seen toy sets, and this twist is basically a ‘duh’ now. But back then? With us nostalgic viewers who saw this as kids, we had no clue, man! This was not only such a shock but one of the best handled plot twists I’ve ever seen in a cartoon.)
And yet while they are shocked and unsure how to take it, they almost immediately decide to accept that. They try to make it clear this doesn’t change how they feel about Zane at all.
In any other show that would do something like this, the others would probably go ‘OMG, you’re different from the rest of us. How can we trust you now?!’ And there would be a fight and a storm off and they’d walk away out of confusion over how to feel about their friend anymore. I don’t think that would’ve worked nearly as well even if the lesson was ‘grow to accept it’.
Weirdly enough, they probably would have sims just that if this was revealed a few episodes ago. Particularly Episode 2. That episode was about the ninja finding Zane odd cause not only did he lack the same humor they did, but he also did ‘strange’ things and reactions, one of which got censored in certain versions of that episode. (Don’t go in the fridge, kids)
That episode also ended with the others blaming Zane over the destruction of the Monestary, irrationally mind you, and them apologizing to him for such and promising to try and accept and understand him.
And, well, they’re doing that here. This isn’t a repeat. They had already learned the lesson to accept people wired differently, literally in this case, and they’re applying that here. Little hesitation. Because they care about Zane and his mental health at this moment.
It’s no fight or blowout or storm off or anything. Zane HIMSELF pushes them away because he’s too emotionally distraught to process his whole identity being revealed to be different from the others. And they accept that once it’s made clear and give him some space.
This was the moment that made me truly respect the ninja’s brotherhood. And it’s what made me have so much respect for all of them as characters. Even through the familial jabs, they know when one of them isn’t doing well and accept that to help them.
Whether or not you consider Zane being a robot autistic symbolism, trans symbolism, or whatever, is entirely up to you. But I can say as an autistic person, this resonated with me and made me feel heard. This tells me, more than anything, that it doesn’t matter. People will accept you. And autistic, robot, or not, you’re still a part of the community you deem family. (Take notes, Dhar Mann. This is how you do it.)
Ah, I miss when Zane was a three dimensional character back in the day. I believe the writers have addressed the recent criticisms towards his character and are working towards trying to salvage that to give him depth again. And I am absolutely here for that.
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randik-86 · 2 months
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Be brave,
Be bold,
Be wise,
Be honest,
Be true,
Be wild,
Be happy,
Be adventurous,
Be stupid,
Be crazy,
BE YOU...
©️randik86
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fly-care · 10 months
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love-cherry · 1 month
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I want to be better. I think I shouldn't feel the way I do anymore. It's all in my head and I want it to be out. I've never felt as crazy as I have the past couple of months, and I don't think I need to. I don't understand why I feel this crazy. This month has been hard for me. I relapsed on cutting myself. I have constantly been having thoughts of worthlessness, disgust, shame and embarrassment. These feelings are like a cloud above me that follows me wherever I go. I can't ignore them, but I guess I need to peek through. Why should I feel worthless when I can't do as good as others in my sport? I’ve improved so much and have made people feel proud of me along the way, so why should one season set me back? Why should I be disgusted and ashamed with how I look when others love every part of me? Why should I feel embarrassed for others, when they love being around me? All my friends, my boyfriends and my family choose me for a reason, and even though I can't find out what that reason is, why should I claim it isn't real? Others see things I don't see every day, so why should that be different when I'm looking at myself? I shouldn't have to be scared of people finding out things about me, seeing me eat, or seeing me naked. Why should I blame myself for things I had no control over?  I always thought my problems were what others thought but in reality it's all things I put in my head. I can get better, I just need to choose to. I want to love to live. 
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emmaliee · 1 month
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A Heartbreak’s Gift
This heartbreak wasn't just another bump in the road. It didn't lead me to question my value or yearn for what once was. It didn't bring me to my knees in despair or sow seeds of self-doubt. No, this heartbreak defied convention. It whispered a truth as old as time itself: sometimes, true strength lies not in holding on, but in letting go. And so, reluctantly, I released my grasp, feeling my heart fracture in the process. But within each crack, something remarkable occurred. As the pain washed over me, it carried away both the highs and lows of our shared journey. There was no longing for a past that could never be reclaimed, no futile desire to rewrite our story. Instead, there was a profound acceptance of our incompatibility. This heartbreak gifted me clarity and liberation. It molded me into someone more resilient, someone capable of embracing the fullness of my own being. In its aftermath, I unearthed pieces of myself long buried, breathing life into dormant passions and aspirations. Rather than resenting its presence, I found myself grateful for its lessons. For without it, perhaps I would never have embarked on the journey of self-discovery and self-love that now defines me.
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Real happiness comes into your life when you accept yourself as you are.
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foxspit · 5 months
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self portrait with Anna hirata
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sadghostgirl14 · 28 days
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Just trying to accept that I’m never gonna be as special to someone as I want to be … I’m the only one that can make me feel special …
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greyaugustuspoetry · 1 year
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accept my Issues
I need to accept
that there is something wrong with my head
Because if I keep denying it
i'll end up dead.
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