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amithedevil · 8 months
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OP really buried the lede with this one
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We’ve got another one, lads:
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Where are these men finding these super cool women that they don’t appreciate!!!
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nonsenseofyesteryear · 4 months
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r/amitheasshole posts are just like:
AITA for ruining my sister's life and possibly separating her from her children for years?
I(29F) have an older sister (33F) who hasn't really had a job for more than a few months at a time and likes to live beyond her means. She's a SAHM now and our parents would send her spending money pretty much whenever she asked for it. But they're getting older and my dad (62M) has expressed to me they might not be able to afford to subsidize her lifestyle anymore.
A few weeks ago, my sister reached out to me and asked to borrow $10k for a designer handbag. Obviously I said no. I think that's ridiculous to pay for a handbag of any brand and I also have two kids of my own. She started crying, saying she needed the bag. I held firm.
A couple weeks of radio silence and I figured that was the end of it. I was wrong. It turns out my sister robbed a bank to get the money for this handbag. She's facing up to 20 years in prison. Her husband called me too, saying he can't have his wife going away for so many years, imagine what it will do to their children, etc. He yelled at me and said "IF YOU HAD GIVEN HER THE DAMN MONEY, THIS NEVER WOULD'VE HAPPENED!"
My mom (60F) texted me and said that this had been so hard on my nephews, and how I really should have just paid for the handbag so "she wouldn't have had to resort to desperate measures". She also said that the least I could do is pay my sister's bail.
I thought I was in the right here, but now I'm not so sure. AITA?
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softjaspers · 1 year
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AITA for wanting my girlfriend to stop talking to her best friend?
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I (17M) have this girlfriend (18F), let’s call her Isabella. We’ve been going out for a few months now, honestly when we first met I was kind of…a lunatic (my sisters words not mine). I tried scaring off my now girlfriend because I thought of myself as a freak, the first time she saw my face I looked constipated, which you’d think would be enough to scare off any girl but she’s not like other girls clearly. I call her stupidly stubborn. Anyways, she’s great, smart, pretty, brave, but naive and you’ll see where this comes in.
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Isabella has this friend, we will call him jerkob (17M). At first he was an okay guy and looked out for my girlfriend like a good friend would, but lately he has been acting like some toxic alpha male. And he smells SO BAD, almost like a stray dog who hasn’t bathed in years. I’m very sensitive to smells, and it’s entirely disgusting. You’d almost think he WAS a dog. He has no respect for my relationship with my girlfriend, and I know he has feelings for Isabella, you don’t have to read the guys mind to know this it’s written all over him. I’ve tried to tell my girlfriend this, but she insists that he’s a good friend and she needs him. I will admit, we had a rough patch where I left her for a few months to go to Italy with my family (my brother tried to kill her and I threw her at a wall but really it was just a misunderstanding). She was heartbroken, and jerkob was there when I couldn’t be. We’ve got past this now, and we’re happier now that we’re together. I’ve apologized profusely for this and promised her that it wouldn’t happen again, and that I wouldn’t leave her a second time, that I would stay with her for eternity. Jerkob still holds it against me, but he’s really just jealous that he’s not the one in bed with her every night. He tries to claim his body temperature is better for her?? Man, take the hint, she isn’t interested in you, and I find that to be such a disrespectful take on this.
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An incident happened recently, he forced my girlfriend to kiss him because if she didn’t he would risk killing himself because he found out that were engaged (a little young, I know, but I love her). And IM the manipulative one? How DARE he treat a woman like that, if he really cared for her he would respect her wishes. I will admit, I’ve been a little crazy too, but not like this. All I did was sabotage her truck so she couldn’t go see him, I thought he was dangerous to her, but at least I apologized for this to her and she understands why I did it and I have no intention of doing it again.
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We got into an argument because I really want my girlfriend to cut him off, but she refused. I can’t understand why my girlfriend is choosing him over me, he is so clearly unhinged and needs HELP for his deranged brain. She knows how he feels about her, and even after kissing her without consent she still thinks he is important to her too. Am I the asshole for this? Because I really don’t think I am, I’m only looking out for her.
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trivalentlinks · 1 year
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saw this amitheasshole post that i thought people here might appreciate:
TL;DR: lesbian with hearing damage is at a bar with new coworkers. one guy approaches her and she can't hear what he's saying, but gets the gist that he's warning her to hide that she's gay, because someone at work is homophobic.
she asks him to tell her who it is several times, and he does, but the bar is loud, and she still can't hear, so she asks him to point him out, but he gets mad that she doesn't know the guy, until eventually he yells 'it's jesus christ!'
which is when it clicks, so she starts messing with him, and asking him who he's talking about, and every time he says 'jesus!!', she tells him to calm down and stop cussing
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anyway i found that amazing and, like, in some sense, she's right, right? people often call it cussing to say the lord's name in vain, and that is, in a sense, what he's doing, even though it isn't what he thinks he's doing
(like, 'taking the lord's name in vain' is usually taken to mean saying it as an interjection in frustration when you aren't actually talking about jesus, which is not what the guy's doing, but you could also take it to mean invoking jesus in a way that he would not approve of, which arguably is what he's doing)
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i saw this r/AITA post and this was exactly what i saw in my head
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brostateexam · 1 year
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Actually, I'll put it in simpler terms & take it a step further: my advice is to never, ever post your personal shit to r/AITA.
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donotfear-iamhere · 10 months
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Men are the worst
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apanict · 11 months
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Banned off r/amitheasshole for using mean words like "bitchy" and "ass"
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nco05 · 10 months
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R/AITA is always 3 types of people saying stuff
Type 1: I think I did something bad *something that is not super nice but not unjustified* & I feel some guilt
Type 2: I think I did something bad *something that is not bad at all, usually they finally set boundaries*. I just don't know how to feel...
Type 3: I don't believe I did something bad *something that is to its core neither nice nor justified* but I've been getting the silent treatment of person Y & my entire family gave me an earfull
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amithedevil · 5 months
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pan-fried-autism · 1 year
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I want you guys to guess what this r/amitheasshole pist is about
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nonsenseofyesteryear · 2 months
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r/AmItheAsshole posts are just like:
The other day at the grocery store I was walking in and an elderly man was walking in behind me. Once we were both inside, this man started yelling at me for not holding the door open for him. I apologized but he said that wasn't enough, launched into a tirade about how disrespectful youth are these days and how no one wants to just help each other anymore. He insisted I make it right by paying for all his groceries. Five people overheard us and agreed was I the asshole here?
EDIT: I feel I should clarify, it was an automatic door
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atsthealgae · 4 months
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AITA
I, 13F, and E, 13F, have been friends since the 7th grade, we are in the 8th grade. I’ve had a traumatic experience earlier this year that I nearly died from.
Following my return to school E was pretty understand, I went to her birthday party and I made her 2 paintings, bought her an expensive rolling backpack, and gave her a posing figure (we’re both avid artists).
E and I have a very similar sense of humor, we both enjoy dark humor, but E takes it to a new level, throughout 8th grade so far, semester 1, E constantly made comments on wanting to die and kill themself, when I, as I mentioned, had a traumatic experience I almost died from, and told them about, which was related to some of their topics.
I put up with it, trying not to be judgmental and be supportive. But E was rather judgmental of me. For example, our friendship took a downward slope when I started drawing pornography in my PERSONAL sketchbook, I have a separate friend A, who likes to go through my sketchbook and look at my art, the only reason E knew what was in there was because I sat next to her in a countertop space in the back of our 2nd period, and A sat in the counter in front of us.
I warned A that the stuff in my sketchbook was pornographic, and they said they didn’t care, and in private, looked at the art. I guess E didn’t like that, as they have stated they aren’t comfortable with any topics on sex or romance, and I was being as conscious of that as I could given the situation, I made sure not to have it be in E’s vision, who told me I should ‘be disappointed in myself’.
About 5 minutes later E goes up to the front office and comes back 15 minutes later, then I get a note from our teacher telling me to go to the front office with my stuff. I somehow didn’t put two and two together and got pulled into the vice-principals room for questioning, and for her to look through my sketchbook, I warned her and explained the situation to her, but because I live in the Bible Belt, and my drawings, which were only about 2 of them, depicted lesbianism, I was reprimanded for having it at school which prompted a mental breakdown.
My parents were called and I got picked up. My parents, luckily, were supportive of me, and my mom even told me I ‘could not trust E’. But I went ahead and refriended them.
Later in the semester, I was in a group project with people S, 14F, and B, 14M, in the same teachers classroom. E was working on her own. The idea was to write and act out a commercial for a product. S, B, and I created our idea.
I don’t mean to blame my femininity for everything. But I was SERIOUSLY PMSing and a little hormonal for those reasons, I have very strong emotions. S was creating the script, B was creating the music, and I was creating a briefcase out of cardboard.
S kept trying to tell me easier ways to do it, which would make it easier on myself. But being the stubborn person I am. I refused and said ‘let me do it my way’. Which prompted E to say ‘let S do it, she can do it better’. That didn’t make me feel good, especially since the box was my only part of the project and I felt like I had to get it right, and not let my teammates down.
The next day we had the high school marching band come to the school so I couldn’t get the tape I needed from the Art Room until after their performance. Unfortunately for me that would be a terrible day.
During the performance I told B that I was sorry for acting the way that I did and how I was feeling insecure about the box being my part of the project. B was directly involved in the event earlier that year and we therefore have a Brother-Sister-like bond, he told me it was okay and to talk to S when I had a free moment with her. I agreed and we watched the marching band play together.
When we got back in the class I went to go get the tape from the Art Room and brought it back to the classroom, all sunshine and rainbows before the storm of a lifetime hit.
When I came back in I happily announced I got the tape and was ready to assemble the box when I found it dismantled. I picked up one of the broken pieces and asked my teammates, and E who was sitting there proudly like she was apart of the group, ‘What happened?’
E then piped in; ‘I happened’. I exclaimed ‘What?! Why?!’ And B tried to explain that E had dismantled because they decided that they were going to make a better box. I was in dismay, feeling betrayed especially since I voiced my feelings to B, and when he said I could ‘help’ with the new box I freaked out and started crying, questioning on why I could on help, and if I wasn’t good enough and needed my hand held throughout the project.
B tried to explain to me that that was not what he meant and tried to calm me down, in hein sight he probably would’ve if E had not piped in with a ‘[My name] you need to calm down’ in a very condescending manner. All the bad experiences with E before, and, I had not mentioned, leading up to the traumatic experience E pushing me out of my own friend group that she was apart of, bubbled to the surface, and I screamed at her; ‘Shut the fuck up!’ She seemed scared and stepped back, by that point the teacher had already come over and pulled me aside into a separate room and had me take deep breaths because I was hyperventilating and on the verge of passing out.
I was later sent up to the front office where I described the situation, and the disturbing things E has turned in for a grade in that class; A story about her eating a fetus in the woods, and for her project her concept was a pet stuffed in a dead rabbit filled with poisonous berries. Yeah. I’m being for real.
E later checked out of school and went back to class where I learned that E had said ‘this is trash’ before cutting up my box with scissors.
I later apologized to S and told her that I shouldn’t have acted the way I did.
I cleared everything up with the people who were actually in the group project.
But E was still mad.
I tried several times to have a mediated conversation with E, but to no avail, I was berated by E and her friends in class and at lunch, I couldn’t even be in the same group anymore, but recently it has cleared up slightly, the smog that is, and now we are, while not on friend or even acquaintance terms, we are atleast on speaking terms and not hating each others guts.
I’ve gotten involved in extra curricular activities and new friend groups, revisited what I love, and have converted to Judaism in all this chaos. But the question still stands; Was I the A-Hole?
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levil0vesyou · 7 months
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Hey, btw? In case anyone was wondering? Reddit still fucking sucks.
Less than a month ago, a disabled woman posted to the aita sub about how she was surprised by her period at her mother in law's house and, because she didn't take enough reusable pads (since she wasn't expecting it) and can't use disposable ones due to allergies she was forced to free bleed and the mother in law called her a disgusting animal for it and also made her pay for getting her washing machine professionally cleaned even though the woman did everything in her power to minimise damage so the woman asked on reddit if she was in the wrong and literally thousands of commenters descended upon her to also call her a disgusting animal and blame her for the situation as if she can just switch off her period at will???
So, yea. Reddit really fucking sucks.
Terfs don't even fucking think about touching this post
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