women of any identity are not obligated to be hairless. cis women, straight women, trans women, lesbian women, butch women, femme women, genderfluid women, bigender women, bisexual women, asexual women, aromantic women, nonbinary women, intersex women, genderqueer women- all women are allowed to be hairy, as hairy as they'd like, as hairy as they naturally come. our bodies naturally come with hair on them, you should not have to painstakingly remove it unless you want to. having body hair does not negate your womanhood, nor does it inherently make you a "masculine" woman- all AGABs have the potential to grow body hair. you're allowed to choose what you do with yours.
MY QUEEN RENEE RAPP WILL EITHER GET EVEN MORE SECURE IN HER BISEXUALITY OR SHES DROPPING SOME NEW BANGER ABOUT IDENTITY CRISIS ANY DAY NOW CAUSE LABELLING YOURSELF AS MSPEC AND THEN GOING INTO THE MASTERDOC IS A VERY CANON EVENT
hating & avoiding men doesn't "keep lesbian women safe" btw, it makes you a violent asshole by stereotyping all men as dangerous predators, and it opens up the doors for you to be a violent person by encouraging yourself and other to harbor violent thoughts toward people who haven't wronged you. it's just unhealthy as fuck to pathologically avoid an entire gender for the rest of your life. when recovering from trauma, one of the most important parts is learning to accept that your trigger exists and you must encounter it in day to day life and deal with that in a healthy and mature fashion.
avoiding the trigger at all costs is not a healthy coping mechanism. learn to cope with the fact that you've been wronged- women and people have wronged you, too. even if we live in a violent patriarchal society, maleness itself is not what has wronged you. you will never inherently be an innocent baby for being a woman and men will never inherently be violent, dangerous people just by virtue of being men.