To my fellow pwASPD, you do not have to be "good" to deserve decency and respect. Your anger and impulses, your symptoms and your disorder, are neither inherently good nor bad. There is no monster or beast inside you. It is just you, a piece of you just like an eye or finger, and you will never be a monster.
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i have a LOT of reblogs/asks with positivity and!!! wow!!! i did not expect this response and there are SO MANY that it’ll take me a while to go through the all, but guys, i’m so glad to see all the happy queer people out there and it’s really made my day. i’ve been struggling with depression lately but seeing so many queer people capeable of THAT MUCH JOY??? it made my day, really
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Yo no one prepared me for how isolating and painful it was gonna be to grow up. I started this blog when I was around 15 and I’m now 26. I wonder how many of you have been following for that long.
Anyway I hope you’re well and this blog has been some positive in your life through the good and bad. I miss it but it’s not easy to jump back into the way it was before. Anyone else who’s going through it I wish you joy and connection and all the things you dreamt and wished for back when you believed it was all possible. I hope it gets better and you can get to see it getting better.
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Idk who needs to hear this but:
You are doing great! You’ve nearly made it through one more year and that is incredible!
If you feel really bad just remember that you’ve survived 100% of your worst days.
Even if today is bad, and tomorrow, just remember that there needs to be lows to have highs, otherwise the rollercoaster of life would be kinda lame, being a straight line.
I believe in you <3
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anyways i love you bis, pans, omnis, and other mspecs i love you mspec lesbians/gays/straights i love you transsexuals i love you aspecs i love you polyams i love you loveless people i love you lesboys/turiagirls i love you aplatonics i love you demisexuals i love you alloaros i love you xenogender and neopronoun users i love you “cringe” queer kids i love you demiboy lesbians and demigirl gays i love you unlabeled people i love you complex queer identities that are seen as “unnecessary”, “harmful” and are otherwise excluded from the queer community i love you i love you i love you
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You are such a positive force in the fandom. Sometimes I start slipping back to my cranky self, and your blog is always a breath of fresh air!
You're incredibly sweet! Thank you🩷
Honestly, this fandom is how I keep my own head above water some days. I'm just glad we're all still here and still supporting each other.
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🎶✨when u get this, list 5 songs u like to listen to, publish. then, send this ask to 10 of your favorite followers (positivity is cool)🎶✨ :)
Lmao this is so funny because I have the worst taste of music, my top Spotify song last year was He’s a Pirate (which goes fucking hard okay???) from the Pirates of the Caribbean soundtrack. 😔 and my friends made fun of me for listening to it like 150 times lmao so I stopped listening to it😭 ANYWAY, here’s me trying my hardest:
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I love wavcrush I listen to it whenever I’m working or like just in my free time 😂😂 it’s similar to chill Lofi beats but more intense. This is my favorite song prolly. Actually I like a lot of non-lyrical songs, but to keep it interesting I’ll do just this one
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Sad gurl music 😌
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A love song ♥️ but make it haunt me
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This is a good song to listen to if you were raised in a religious household but are not yourself religious like me. You’ll just get it.
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Obligatory angry feminist song 🤘
THE NAZIS CHANGED THEIR NAMES AND NOW THEYRE CALLED THE ALT-RIGHT📢📢📢📢
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the most helpful thing i have ever seen from neurodivergent internet spaces is “THERE ARE OTHER TIMES OF DAY TO BRUSH YOUR TEETH”. this has genuinely saved me from executive dysfunction spirals so many times.
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as someone who detransitioned and now identifies as gnc i will never ever understand other detrans people who hate the trans community. like they loved you. they loved you when no one else would. i am forever grateful for the guys and dolls in my life personally. i will love them and fight alongside them until i die
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at this stage i think its good to say, and i direct this to all of the trans women on this site:
you are loved. you are appreciated. your presence is valued.
ppl can do all they can to invalidate you, to drag you through the grime and do their best to make you nothing. and they can fucking try.
but it won't change the fact that we care about you. i care about you. and i appreciate you taking the effort to stick around in this world, especially as things turn awful.
big ass hugs for you girls.
we're still here 💙
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shout out to “gross” disabled people.
people who can’t shower/bathe
people who can’t shave
people who can’t wash their clothes
people who need help going to the bathroom
people who have nasty habits (biting nails, picking nose, etc)
people who can’t brush their teeth
people who can’t go to the doctor
people who can’t clean their room
people who can’t make their beds
people who vomit a lot
people who wet the bed
people who constantly have diarrhea
people who’s physical deformities are seen as repulsive
and every other kind of person I missed that deserves to be here too.
you are people, first and foremost. your thoughts deserve to be heard, discussed, acknowledged, no matter what. you are not lesser. you are just another person. you should never be ignored for what you can/can’t do. you deserve care.
to abled people: check yourself. make sure you listen. and you can reblog, just don’t derail. maybe don’t add on, either.
EDIT: reblog this version instead, please.
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I miss all the good times I’ve had with this blog. I hope anyone who’s going through it rn finds some joy where they can to hold onto. I hope you are all well.
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