how do you stay out of drama on tumblr? it seems like everyone drags everyone into things, especially in the pathologic fanbase
don't know what kind of trench warfare you're living in the patho fandom but to me it's like Shockingly calm compared to the other fandoms i've been in. "especially in the pathologic fanbase" i frankly have no idea what you mean. like this might be a warzone to you but apparently i've been unconsciously dodging the draft for 7 years and through 4 different fandoms. i also realize i might have built an immunity to it. i don't know How i do it it just how it is. few reasons(?) i can think of are
been online since 10yo so i seen worse
i'm nonconfrontational and hermite-like in general. i don't associate with many people. i stay out of the spaces i think i'll find people i dislike and i do not seek their company, even if they seek mine. there are planny awff people i'd like to explode with my mind like a trout but like. i keep scrollin. i don't keep them around in my mind to poison it.
fits within ^ but like i'm just some guy. i'm not a very big account. i have few friends and acquaintances. i don't like to mingle. i just write my shit and draw my stuff and do my thang and move on.
not even a fandom-exclusive thing this is an Online thing wholly but like i been online for over 10 years so i've very much internalized the fact that like. I am (and you are) going to read some braindead takes by maladjusted people on the Braindead Takes From Maladjusted People Websites. so i've worked on having the self-restraint, the self-discipline, and in general the common sense of, when seeing a braindead take, to sit down, take a deep breath, tell self "well this is dumb as shit lol" and scroll down. in 5 scrolls i'll see the second braindead take of the day. that's how it is. this is a skill that you HAVE to work on if you're over 20, especially if you're over 25/nearing 30, and ESPECIALLY if the op of the braindead post/tweet that's getting you all fucked up is a kid. it is a Non-action that to not interact. it's so easy. you have to work on that skill or you're gonna look goofy silly.
^ more on that: it's a non-action to not respond to baity anons. it's a non-action to not put yourself in discussions with unhinged people. like just leave it. keep scrollin. don't feed the trolls. you can fully and truly dislike someone and wish to explode them in your mind like a trout and still keep scrollin. it's not a big thing at the end of the day
i'm just some guy and frankly idk how some of you put yourself in dramas but i have no interest in finding out. i've almost exclusively have had people Being On Good Behaviors around me and a) i will return the favor b) if anyone tries anything the floor will give out from under them. peace and love
tldr as a general online thing and not even fandom remember than you're going to see braindead takes on the Braindead Takes websites and learn to keep on scrollin.
this is not an invitation to make me privy to drama or to try to pull me in some. i will pull the rifle from my dodge-draftin home's wall if i have to snipe you out.
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sooooo excited to hear your thoughts on the new spiderverse
i haven’t seen it yet!! i might go see it with my mom today if we have time, or tomorrow if i’m able to, if neither of those then i’ll have to wait until next weekend. i will update this post with my thoughts when i finally see it though!! i’ve heard it’s even better than into the spiderverse so i am VERY hyped
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I must ask the TL for research purposes… what is everyone’s opinion on the Megan thee Stallion discourse?
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Do some people like… actively seek out drama? I’m exhausted just witnessing from a distance.
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I love my friends so deeply, so much, the relationship I have with them is a lot further than surface level stuff. But at the same time I often feel like I don't know anyone who likes the same stuff as me, the same books, the same movies, the same music, the same little niche interests, someone who would get my laundry list of small jokes and references. My friends and I all share a broad similarities in all those things, similar genres and opinions, and I like our points of difference, it opens me up to diverging perspectives and is a healthy way to interact with the world. But sometimes I yearn for this really deep nerdy obsessive kinship that I can't seem to find.
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